Say "YES" or "NO"

 Always we teach our kids or ourselves to say “YES” for everything because we don’t want to lose the friendship or a relationship or mainly to please others. we have an inner feeling like if we say “NO” we might be ignored or rejected, the uncertainty of what others think. But when we start saying ”NO”, we start driving our life and we will figure the right/ important one in life.  Saying “NO” is not anger or offensive, it’s our option for our mental peace and do what we like to do. And Finally “NO means NO” which others need to understand!

Tolerance

 our lifestyle, behaviors, actions, thoughts, and environment are always different from others. So, it’s good to know about our “Tolerance” level. Tolerance is being patient, understanding, and accepting of anything different in opinion. so, be cautious on the “tolerance level” because it defines you to them, “how to treat you?”

Do we give or commit ourselves to a relationship?

 Giving is something you always expect in return, most of the time we give and felt sad when we didn't get some love in return. But when you “commit “ we don’t expect but we love it wholeheartedly. “Life is all about commitment, not giving oneself! “ 

Consolation

We cannot console others unless we witness their feelings. They don't expect solutions but a comforting word/feelings which make them feel better! ”Not everyone can  console others., let's learn to console”

what is our purpose in life?

 We fail to know the value of ourselves because we forget to think about 

” what is our purpose in life? ” it's not earning money! 

When do you know the answers to who we are? 

Are we doing what we love to do? 

To Whom we do it? 

What did they need in their life? 

What is the change in their life as a result?

Answer to the above question is simple ” keep others happy” if so, you will be happy, by doing what you love to do! Purposeless life is meaningless!

Do we rejoice during our Rejection?

 Sounds odd! When we are rejected, We cannot articulate, it freaks us very badly, it's sensitive and that pain is unbearable! One cannot imagine how it feels unless we go through it! But you know what, when we are rejected ” don't get stagnant/depressed” we just need to  “keep walking/ keep moving “ our life. Rejection is a sign of direction from God, keep walking, let us come out of your comfort, one day it makes you achieve, which you never thought of. Praise god! He has a purpose for our rejection, rejoice in  “god” when we are rejected! Best examples in front of us, Apple founder ”Steve jobs”; Alibaba founder ”jack ma”;

Let's respond not react

 All of a sudden we face too many ”challenges” in life which we might have not experienced in the past. Most of the time we tend to ”react” to it immediately, which leads to multiple complications when you notice them, they would be always tensed, and not sure what to do next. Instead, for the same situation when we learn to ”respond”, you tend to find the answer because you will think twice, understand what is wrong, before responding to it. 90% we react and we regret later, the response will be slow but in the end, lead to a better life! ” let's respond not react”!

Unemployed Mind

 Saying heard recently “Unemployed mind” is devil's workshop; when we have nothing to do, our mind only thinks negatively about ourselves, surrounding and do gossiping, which spoils oneself and one's own family(affects us more than who is on your opposite side). Let's try to engage ourselves in a constructive way to build the family and relationship. A person whose mind works to build his own family is his first employment, his best compensation is love and affection he gets in return from his family and children 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 .”None of us are unemployed in this world”  (earning money is employment for survival, you never gain happiness/ love from it!) 

Rest

 Year-end approaching, we spend time on holiday shopping, But we miss to do what really needed I.e. ”Rest”. Do we really give rest to our health mainly, ”Mental health”? If we keep on thinking, worrying, fear of the future, we feel only “stressed & exhausted”. Let’s try to halt everything and just do/ read what keeps our mind pleasant, for the rest of this year. When you start 2020 with a “fresh mind”, you will accomplish your goal, along with eternal blessing! Rest, rest of the year!

Don't strain when you are tired; it leads to quitting permanently; Instead, take a break/ rest; when tired, a small break can energize you to achieve more;

Care

 Most of the time we regret ourselves mainly for neglecting people/advice after a certain period or when people leave us. when we start neglecting, we start losing relationships, instead of building, we destruct the same. It's hard but important to learn how to cherish and care for others! When we care for others, God cares for us! It's tough but we need to learn to avoid negligence!