We fail to know the value of ourselves because we forget to think about
” what is our purpose in life? ” it's not earning money!
When do you know the answers to who we are?
Are we doing what we love to do?
To Whom we do it?
What did they need in their life?
What is the change in their life as a result?
Answer to the above question is simple ” keep others happy” if so, you will be happy, by doing what you love to do! Purposeless life is meaningless!
Sounds odd! When we are rejected, We cannot articulate, it freaks us very badly, it's sensitive and that pain is unbearable! One cannot imagine how it feels unless we go through it! But you know what, when we are rejected ” don't get stagnant/depressed” we just need to “keep walking/ keep moving “ our life. Rejection is a sign of direction from God, keep walking, let us come out of your comfort, one day it makes you achieve, which you never thought of. Praise god! He has a purpose for our rejection, rejoice in “god” when we are rejected! Best examples in front of us, Apple founder ”Steve jobs”; Alibaba founder ”jack ma”;
All of a sudden we face too many ”challenges” in life which we might have not experienced in the past. Most of the time we tend to ”react” to it immediately, which leads to multiple complications when you notice them, they would be always tensed, and not sure what to do next. Instead, for the same situation when we learn to ”respond”, you tend to find the answer because you will think twice, understand what is wrong, before responding to it. 90% we react and we regret later, the response will be slow but in the end, lead to a better life! ” let's respond not react”!
Saying heard recently “Unemployed mind” is devil's workshop; when we have nothing to do, our mind only thinks negatively about ourselves, surrounding and do gossiping, which spoils oneself and one's own family(affects us more than who is on your opposite side). Let's try to engage ourselves in a constructive way to build the family and relationship. A person whose mind works to build his own family is his first employment, his best compensation is love and affection he gets in return from his family and children 👨👩👦👦 .”None of us are unemployed in this world” (earning money is employment for survival, you never gain happiness/ love from it!)
Year-end approaching, we spend time on holiday shopping, But we miss to do what really needed I.e. ”Rest”. Do we really give rest to our health mainly, ”Mental health”? If we keep on thinking, worrying, fear of the future, we feel only “stressed & exhausted”. Let’s try to halt everything and just do/ read what keeps our mind pleasant, for the rest of this year. When you start 2020 with a “fresh mind”, you will accomplish your goal, along with eternal blessing! Rest, rest of the year!
Don't strain when you are tired; it leads to quitting permanently; Instead, take a break/ rest; when tired, a small break can energize you to achieve more;
Most of the time we regret ourselves mainly for neglecting people/advice after a certain period or when people leave us. when we start neglecting, we start losing relationships, instead of building, we destruct the same. It's hard but important to learn how to cherish and care for others! When we care for others, God cares for us! It's tough but we need to learn to avoid negligence!
It's important to avoid ”Proud” and ”pride” in life. (sounds awkward ). When we succeeded or achieved something we quick enough to feel pride and proud in ourselves or about our kids. But we fail to know that is the root(starting point) for failure. Always remember, there is someone greater than you! Thank God! Learn to listen more to what others say about you! Serve others! Watch your path to stay in virtue!
Pride cometh before the fall!
Have we ever tried to comfort one who is in grief around us? We do gossip but missed to see grief in them. Doesn’t mean that all the laughing faces in front of us, are leading a comfortable life. Always, a mother is the first person to comfort her child! We do know god comforts us even more! Let’s learn to comfort others. it could make you resemble one of the above!
Covet- The disorder which spoils people's mind like slow poison, which we cannot find unless we self-realize. I.e. “covetousness”. affects one own life and his entire family, covet people one day experience the loneliness!. Let’s lead a “satisfied life “ with what we have!
Digital world everything we expect to happen in microseconds. But in the case of life, patience is important to drive us, it cannot be digitized to execute in seconds; sometimes “enduring patience” is more important for survival!
