Love everyone around you; But watch out whom you unite with;
Saturday, 23 January 2021
Thursday, 14 January 2021
Who is winner?
One who runs like a horse until he wins and runs faster than horse after winning, to retain;
Give your 100% always, even in small work you do!
Are we waiting for someone to discover our strength? Or give us a Project/work to handle? Most of the time, we forget that when we EXCEL in our present project/ work, which will, in turn, bring you a bigger one automatically! Always remember, “Big door swing on little hinges “ be true to what you do!
Wednesday, 13 January 2021
Two Ways Money Test's Us
1. How we behave when we have no enough money?
2. How we behave when we have more money than we need?
If we know the answer, it will help us to show our better character to the world.
Tuesday, 12 January 2021
Money
Everyone needs money. We fail some times to understand "money is not evil, but the love of money is evil"; More we have, the unhappier we become; the best way of handling money is, always focus on “Giving or helping “ the poor, instead of holding or being selfish; Giving brings Joy!
Never Explain Yourself
Never explain yourself to anyone. Because, people who like you, don’t need it; and who dislikes you will not believe it - Apj
Monday, 11 January 2021
Sunday, 10 January 2021
Motivation vs. Inspiration
Don’t wait for someone who can motivate you always! Instead, we need to start inspiring others in what we do!
Stop Complaining
When God selects us to go through the situation, I.e., bad times/suffering, etc., we keep saying why to us, not others! We failed to understand. Instead, we keep complaining, but we need to realize that we can face that situation better than others!
Saturday, 9 January 2021
Ponder in Heart
Don’t be just listener, intake the advice and ponder in heart; it will help to reap the good fruit in life;
Finally
we started(entered) sea voyage (2020) with a lot of hope and expectations, but it’s an absolute blizzard on the way; at the end gods grace “we just keeping head above water”;
We fight the wrong battle?
We fight the wrong battle most of the time in our life; we always fight against someone or something, but we must understand the struggle is mainly within us; sometimes we fight against what we should be fighting for; take time to realize what we are fighting for in our life
Seed vs. Soil
Seed vs. Soil: sow your seed(thoughts) on the enriched soil(heart); To enrich the soil, make sure to add the right nutrients(right vision/ right people around us)
Learn from past mistakes!
Learn from past mistakes! That helps us to find the best solution at the right time! the problem is we don’t understand the mistake we made Or not ready to listen if someone says that we are making a mistake!
Process of Elimination
Learn the process of elimination; do we know who we are! But do we know who we are not; this process ultimately will put us in front of what is important in life;
Mind vs Mouth
How do we fight with our ”Mind”? Most of the time, we need to ”fight our mind with our Mouth”; mind travels faster, and it's imaginations are more significant, sometimes evil thoughts build up; when we talk or cry out loud, our stress level bursts out, and the exciting part is mind listens, what mouth declares;
Maturity
Maturity speaks by itself when we react in silence and getting hurt until we become strong enough to let it go;
Take Time to examine
Time to examine, Are we positioning ourselves in the right place, along with the right people to receive & give the blessings/ peace/love; if not, our focus should be to find the right person to position our life in the right place;
Love over don't like
Everything we love has a part that we don’t like within; remember, when love increases predominantly, it take over anything that we don't like; don't be on the side of receiving or expecting mutual love; the Best part of life is to be on the side of showing / giving love;
Get Knockdown
Sometimes we get knockdown before we find what's our fight is for! Utilize that downtime effectively; that will help strongly to fight back;
True lie
We live in a world when people repeatedly speak lies by hiding the truth, and that’s when a lie becomes real truth; it’s hard to help except god, but remember we cannot hide the fact for long;
Everything happens for a reason
There is a purpose for everything that happens in our life; we get into a problem because we approach/ understand it wrong or fail to take time to explore; every situation has a different timeline and way to approach;
Don’t get tired
Don’t get tired because of doing right;
Don’t get tired because you speak the truth;
Don’t get tired because you keep failing;
Don’t get tired because you getting rejected:
“Pressure to perform”
“Pressure to perform” is the reason for stress and leads to so many wrong paths or shortcuts to get it delivered; always allow it to happen in its phase; it ends well for everyone;
Pressure! We all have a pressure to survive, to grow in life, to prove in a team, etc. when we take pressure as is it going to overtake and kill you! But when you handle that as an opportunity to deliver irrespective of success or failure, you end up satisfied with achieving what you have never imagined! Don’t stop trying!
Humility
Humility is not a default character; it comes from being obedient. Secondly, it comes when we try Learning to be humble; Third, it comes over some time; finally, it comes based on how we respond during a problem;
Excellence
Excellence is not about being perfect; it’s all about doing better compared to yesterday;
Don't delay to Explain or Ask
When we think what we do is justice might not look right in other's view! It's good to explain or better to ask; if both fail, that's when the relationship starts departing;
Remember
Right to forget past or what hurts; But remember the "lessons learned" or "what it taught";
Don't Regret later!
We always regret when we realize we failed to listen, what experienced people or elders said, when we are in that situation, later in life;
Best part of Life
Whatever may be the situation, the only thing to do in life is to rejoice and do good!
Unity
A small pin unites 100 pieces of paper into one book; each article has faced a slight pain, but still, it makes a complete book; the same way as a team, everyone has a pain/misunderstanding/etc. But always, that unity makes the team stronger;
Life Vs. Ladder
When we go up in life, never forget who holds you during your failures; Sometimes the height(success) we reach hides the person who has your ladder(life when you are) down; Never forget who holding you, because they are the one who will uplift you again when you fail/fall!
Temptations
Most of our mistakes happen due to our attraction; the main reason for the interest is our desire; Desire leads to seduction, leading to making mistakes. We fail quickly when our enemies know our passion, because his job is easy, tempt you to do!
Pick right friend!
The one who is silent and close to you is the tough competitor in your life, whom you have to overcome! Don’t make your loyalty become slavery to the wrong person! Pick right friend!
Stress & Pressure
Two things can make you do what you never thought to do - stress & pressure! Don’t let them Rule you; learn how better to handle them!
Say "YES" or "NO"
Always we teach our kids or ourselves to say “YES” for everything because we don’t want to lose the friendship or a relationship or mainly to please others. we have an inner feeling like if we say “NO” we might be ignored or rejected, the uncertainty of what others think. But when we start saying ”NO”, we start driving our life and we will figure the right/ important one in life. Saying “NO” is not anger or offensive, it’s our option for our mental peace and do what we like to do. And Finally “NO means NO” which others need to understand!
Tolerance
our lifestyle, behaviors, actions, thoughts, and environment are always different from others. So, it’s good to know about our “Tolerance” level. Tolerance is being patient, understanding, and accepting of anything different in opinion. so, be cautious on the “tolerance level” because it defines you to them, “how to treat you?”
Do we give or commit ourselves to a relationship?
Giving is something you always expect in return, most of the time we give and felt sad when we didn't get some love in return. But when you “commit “ we don’t expect but we love it wholeheartedly. “Life is all about commitment, not giving oneself! “
Consolation
We cannot console others unless we witness their feelings. They don't expect solutions but a comforting word/feelings which make them feel better! ”Not everyone can console others., let's learn to console”
what is our purpose in life?
We fail to know the value of ourselves because we forget to think about
” what is our purpose in life? ” it's not earning money!
When do you know the answers to who we are?
Are we doing what we love to do?
To Whom we do it?
What did they need in their life?
What is the change in their life as a result?
Answer to the above question is simple ” keep others happy” if so, you will be happy, by doing what you love to do! Purposeless life is meaningless!
Do we rejoice during our Rejection?
Sounds odd! When we are rejected, We cannot articulate, it freaks us very badly, it's sensitive and that pain is unbearable! One cannot imagine how it feels unless we go through it! But you know what, when we are rejected ” don't get stagnant/depressed” we just need to “keep walking/ keep moving “ our life. Rejection is a sign of direction from God, keep walking, let us come out of your comfort, one day it makes you achieve, which you never thought of. Praise god! He has a purpose for our rejection, rejoice in “god” when we are rejected! Best examples in front of us, Apple founder ”Steve jobs”; Alibaba founder ”jack ma”;
Let's respond not react
All of a sudden we face too many ”challenges” in life which we might have not experienced in the past. Most of the time we tend to ”react” to it immediately, which leads to multiple complications when you notice them, they would be always tensed, and not sure what to do next. Instead, for the same situation when we learn to ”respond”, you tend to find the answer because you will think twice, understand what is wrong, before responding to it. 90% we react and we regret later, the response will be slow but in the end, lead to a better life! ” let's respond not react”!
Unemployed Mind
Saying heard recently “Unemployed mind” is devil's workshop; when we have nothing to do, our mind only thinks negatively about ourselves, surrounding and do gossiping, which spoils oneself and one's own family(affects us more than who is on your opposite side). Let's try to engage ourselves in a constructive way to build the family and relationship. A person whose mind works to build his own family is his first employment, his best compensation is love and affection he gets in return from his family and children 👨👩👦👦 .”None of us are unemployed in this world” (earning money is employment for survival, you never gain happiness/ love from it!)
Rest
Year-end approaching, we spend time on holiday shopping, But we miss to do what really needed I.e. ”Rest”. Do we really give rest to our health mainly, ”Mental health”? If we keep on thinking, worrying, fear of the future, we feel only “stressed & exhausted”. Let’s try to halt everything and just do/ read what keeps our mind pleasant, for the rest of this year. When you start 2020 with a “fresh mind”, you will accomplish your goal, along with eternal blessing! Rest, rest of the year!
Don't strain when you are tired; it leads to quitting permanently; Instead, take a break/ rest; when tired, a small break can energize you to achieve more;
Care
Most of the time we regret ourselves mainly for neglecting people/advice after a certain period or when people leave us. when we start neglecting, we start losing relationships, instead of building, we destruct the same. It's hard but important to learn how to cherish and care for others! When we care for others, God cares for us! It's tough but we need to learn to avoid negligence!
Proud
It's important to avoid ”Proud” and ”pride” in life. (sounds awkward ). When we succeeded or achieved something we quick enough to feel pride and proud in ourselves or about our kids. But we fail to know that is the root(starting point) for failure. Always remember, there is someone greater than you! Thank God! Learn to listen more to what others say about you! Serve others! Watch your path to stay in virtue!
Pride cometh before the fall!
Comfort
Have we ever tried to comfort one who is in grief around us? We do gossip but missed to see grief in them. Doesn’t mean that all the laughing faces in front of us, are leading a comfortable life. Always, a mother is the first person to comfort her child! We do know god comforts us even more! Let’s learn to comfort others. it could make you resemble one of the above!
Covetousness
Covet- The disorder which spoils people's mind like slow poison, which we cannot find unless we self-realize. I.e. “covetousness”. affects one own life and his entire family, covet people one day experience the loneliness!. Let’s lead a “satisfied life “ with what we have!
Digital/ modern world vs life
Digital world everything we expect to happen in microseconds. But in the case of life, patience is important to drive us, it cannot be digitized to execute in seconds; sometimes “enduring patience” is more important for survival!
Being Thankful
Being thankful/ grateful/ gratitude every day is more important. Thankful to God, thankful to our parents, thankful to our surroundings, thankful to people who stood with us; thankful for our hard times; thankful for our failures; all above said made us stand where we are now. Be grateful/thankful. When we reach a great position always remember to be thankful!
Don't Feel Sorry Later
When someone does something wrong once, we forget all the good things they did in life, even they might be very close in past. The sad part is that the relationship breaks like glass pieces, u can still see your face on the glass piece “saying hi” but cannot be fixed! Talk/argue/share, no use worrying after years! Where both will be far apart
Basic ethics has become a mandate
If we take time to think for a moment, all basic ethics has become a mandate, if failed you are fined; the best part is we obeying it right now without any hesitation!
Fail to Understand
Most of the time we fail to understand why we get struggle; many time we also forget that everyone has struggled in life; prior one god allows because he gives the wisdom to find solutions; later one is to understand others struggle which mold you better to console them; when we struggle - we need “wisdom mind and counseling heart “, God is our wisdom provider and counselor;
Wounds vs Scars
What kind of heart we have? don't develop your wound in name of anger/ego etc in the heart. Wounds never allow you to sleep in peace. when you show "Love and forgiveness" to any kind of wounds it can be changed to "scars". Scars are good and remembered as a testimony for a long time, not your wounds. In Life, scars are always good for a healthy life than wounds. Remember wounds are temporary but scars are permanent."Make sure your scars are not transformed back to wounds". Be cautious to cure your wounds in time.
Interesting of Life
On one side we feel no one there to care for us; on another side, someone cares and cry for you; but we cannot accept both sides. Now, who is hurt more is it person 1 (no one cares)or person 2 (who cry for u) or person 3 ( who gets love but not able to accept ) life is interesting always,
Do we have right reason to laugh?
In this modern world, We learned to laugh only by teasing others or making fun of another person, but we forgot to realize the pain that person will go through! Time to think about the reasons we laugh! “Once happiness cannot be lost long on other pain “
One way to win!
One way to win the world battle is just responding opposite to what your enemy expects you to respond!
Encourage others
Encouraging others when you are discouraged is not easy! But that small encouraging word is very powerful to lift them up than your worry about your discouragement!
Comparison
Nothing destroys our life or joy like “comparison”! Life is unique, we forget to walk straight and started looking on our sides;
Humble
Humble people; thankful& teachable; who try their best; who won’t lose their confidence; who face failures but don’t think of that as a hurdle and rise again;
Is it hard to be humble in a competitive world. ? When we learn to be humble it’s an art, people think you know everything, but you know who you are. It's difficult to follow humbleness!
Humbleness will never put you down; it exalts you at the right time; stay where you are and continue to do the right thing that God puts on your mind;
Set a goal, work on its plan, work harder, stay focused, one day you will be successful then remember to stay humble!
Keen to listen
Always remember to run away from a person who praises you! Be keen to, listen to people who criticize!
Run In Right Direction
Life is interesting “ when you set a record and people say you lost the game “ then you will realize we need to run faster, in the right direction!
Don't Judge!
“Never judge anyone!” Even judges do inquiry for years before judging anyone.
We judge others quickly but we never took the time to think about what they go through!
Salty!
Don’t judge a book by its cover; don’t trust everything you see even salt looks like sugar! Finally, we can try to be pineapple” stand tall wear a crown and be sweet inside”
Grace
Thank god for his grace and mercy for giving us another day in our life. Pray and scream for ourselves, our surroundings, the protection of our nation! In all use his wisdom to guide you in these difficult times!
RESPOND CALM!
Are we giving away our talent and power when we allow people to upset/ rule us? Then, It means we are controlled by someone, but when we learn to remain calm, which will make our mind to be free from worries and negativity. Moral: be keen to listen to what others say but don’t react, RESPOND CALM!
You cannot control what is handed over to you! But you can control how to react to it! Sometimes don’t react just “drop it” if you feel it’s not your “cup of coffee” and leave that place!
Life vs Yield
Life travels at a fast pace; we forgot that we need to yield in our life at some point, let’s prepare to slow down, stop if needed; wrong decision made in a fraction of a second costs us more!
Fish vs snail!
When fish keep swimming, snail never cares what fish does, both are happy in their life; when fish fall sick and died, snail ate the entire fish in an hour! Fish is you, the snail is your surroundings; keep swimming hard in life, to survive!
What story we choose
A mother who like fame, then a baby in her womb; A man who files a false allegation on a woman, forgets he has a daughter at his home; A colleague who betray you at back, act praising in front for a promotion;
Attitude
"Attitude does play a major role in our life!", We need to know about "Aeroplane Attitude" in life, it's good in life to have a Nose up, or a good attitude, that helps us to grow ourselves higher, and higher; a Nose down or bad attitude will degrade us or takes us down in life.
Our attitude determines our altitude! Develop a good attitude that leads to greater altitude!
Source of our strength
When we realize God is the only “source of our strength”, your fear goes away, what you need comes closer or follows us;
Identity
What is our “Identity”? Money/ fame might disappear one day, which cannot withhold our identity for long. But our character/ behavior/ self-confidence / how we respond to people, finally God's presence in us, defines our identity!
Behavior
“Behavior” is greater than knowledge; 1 sec of misbehavior can ruin entire life; most of the time our emotions reflect in behavior when knowledge fails, but his behavior handles it!
Chess vs life
There is an importance for each character in the chessboard, we cannot play ignoring one character; similarly, there is always a reason for the people, who come into our life, give importance to them and treat them good, your greatness be among the people;
Imagination
Your imagination is from your thoughts, and we give our own sketch to it in “*our* *Mind*”; most of the problems starts because of our own imagination, without knowing full knowledge about it; Remember “our imagination always should be positive and it’s a gift from the creator”; don’t forget “never reveal your imagination(dream) to anyone”
Mature
Many times people say “ you need to be mature”, what is mature? In simple term,
1.knowing when to speak& when to be silent
2.moving away from negative vibes
3.be happy with what God gave you
4.when u start thinking of a person, who insults or hurts you, why he doing it.
5.stop complaining and start changing the surroundings
Success
What is success? The best way a failure is handled is a real success; If we need to be successful, grow little by little. Gradual growth makes us strong! your success; depends on How fast failure chase you; don’t stop attempting it
Angry
we cannot 🛑 STOP getting “angry”; but we need to know, we can “control our anger”; when you fail, any decisions are taken end our life, miserable; the best way is to keep your mind calm;
Most of the destructive decisions we take only when we are angry! When you look at our life for a minute, all the decisions taken in anger have affected ourselves than others! When it comes to the world keep ourselves away from people who make you angry, but in a relationship, you need to find the ”reason ” which makes you angry with them and correct it; if not, it will never last long! People lose 20 or 25 years of reputation or relationship in 1-minute anger! 🚸 AngeL(R) won't stay in the same house 🔴
Arrogance
When a person keeps on advertising and proves himself to others that leads to “Arrogance”; however when a person's character speaks in his presence and thinks he can face the challenges, then it leads to “confidence”; in a simple “if there is no humbleness in your confidence it leads to arrogance”; one of the reasons for self-destruction;
Reconcile
We spend hours and hours to talk about controversy’s or show “hatred/dislikes”; but it takes few minutes to reconcile one another, when you fail, don’t forget it destroys ours/ our kids/ our grandkids blessings;
Sorry
Sometimes good to ask “sorry”, which will help to strengthen the relationships (don’t delay to act); most of the time good to be “silent” that will eliminate unwanted discussion(stay calm, keep moving in your life). The best result of both is “peace in our life”- its important to learn, how to be a “peacemaker”;
Move Forward
We need to keep moving forward, most of the time, without knowing answers or closures; that’s how God leads us! Because what we think we need, God believes we do not need to move forward; keep moving in confidence!
understand backward
Things that don’t make sense now; doesn’t mean it will not in the future; the life we live goes forward, we always understand backward!
Love
Love is not about possession; love is all about appreciation and standing behind to lift them when they fall;
“Loving one another” means even loving when they make mistakes. The real value of love comes when you explain to them the mistakes they make and correct them;
Success Vs. Win
Success is not a failure of others, but a win is because someone loses; Success deals with self-satisfaction and self-achievement, but winning is how you look, in other views. Success keeps you going; winning defines the end! Let's lead a successful life!
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