Our enemies are keen to know our strengths and weaknesses better than us! He strategically attacks us on our strength!
Friday, 31 December 2021
Forgive
Small hurt turns slowly to anger, and it changes to bitterness! It spoils our thoughts and affects the entire future relationship!
Best medicine to cure hurt, “forgive”!
This will pass by
When we are down remember “this will pass by”; when we are happy always remember “this also will pass by”; Don’t get too depressed or happy, always handle both in same scale and hold on to God! Life will be smooth!
Thursday, 30 December 2021
Kindness
Kindness speaks louder, expressing our emotions and love! Little kindness turns turmoil upside down!
Love
How many times we break the trust, when we fail, when we make mistakes,
Always gives one more opportunity because of “Love”! True love makes one trustworthy, Encourage, forgives!
Love
In a relationship always remember, how we loved one another in the beginning! Circumstances can change but not love!
Our mistakes become our stakes!
We do make mistakes; our temptations certainly will drive us to do! But be vigilant and correct ourselves when warned! If we fail to correct, Our mistakes become our stakes! That keeps stabbing!
“ From where we came! how we started our life!”
One thing always to remember is “ From where we came! how we started our life!”, that will remind you how blessed you are now!
Satisfaction
Our satisfaction is overtaken by comparison, due to which we never feel satisfied/ adequate with what we have! when we realize everyone is blessed unique and start focusing on our blessing and purpose, we have peace;
stop comparing! Focus on what God has given us!
Humbleness
When You grow in knowledge, wealth, position, first be *thankful to God*; the next important one is “*humbleness*”! Don’t allow pride to enter! The easiest way the pride enters is through what we speak! Be wise about what we *talk* when you grow! Each *word* matters!
Face it!
We ask people and even God; you need to tell me in advance so that I can be ready to face;
God keeps us in the dark because the better one gets delivered when we face it, not through planning;
when you experience it, it remains with us longer than planning! God gives wisdom, Face it!
Excuses
Don’t let today's excuses become tomorrow's regret! Days once lost are never going to return! Keep fighting even if you fail; you end satisfied that you fought but not regretted!
Perseverance
The struggle should produce perseverance ;Perseverance builds our character ;our Character should bring hope
Luck
Luck: a four-letter magic word that revolves around who gets popular/famous/getting recognized in short-term etc. But we forget to see what struggle, hard work, knowledge, etc., went in to achieve! “*Learn* to *Upskill* through the *course* of *knowledge*” goodLUCK👍
L -Learn to
U - Upskill U through
C - Course of
K - knowledge 👍
New Dimension
It's not that we need a new item to shine; it's all about how we use what we have in a new dimension that makes life more interesting! Adding new items only fills the space!
Thank God
We keep asking God what we need, but we forget to thank him for what we have; there is a reason for everything we go through; don't question God; instead, thank him for adding one more day in our life;
Life
Life is meaningful when we accomplish with what we have in new dimensions, not with getting new ones each time;
Unforgivable punishment
We were not punished for our mistakes; we were forgiven; we forget punishment and remember only forgiveness we received and make more mistakes; it resulting in unforgivable punishment
Endurance
*Endurance* in life is key to overcome difficulties and hardship; even during exhaustion, pain, suffering, etc., endurance makes you stronger and bold! In recent days it’s decreasing among us! let’s focus to improve our endurance in life!
Past Vs Future
It’s not right to stop new people from loving/being a friend with you because people in the past hurt you; it’s true every relationship one day will hurt; It depends on time, trust, and how we handle them! Our trust should always be on God, so you get the right people as a friend!
Joy of giving!
The joy of giving! If we become addicted, it would be the best addition that will always keeps us happy! Our money, position etc cannot buy that happiness
Uncomfortable situations
Only when we place ourselves in uncomfortable situations we grow!
Sometimes we need to face hatred, people might laugh at us, we might even fail.
Be a small vessel
A fisherman can’t quench his thirst by the water surrounded by the sea; he needs a small water container! Be a small vessel that could be useful instead of being no use in the larger group!
Deception
Deception is an obstacle that comes in front when we march towards our goal; the deceiver would be your close circle! Be vigilant from getting deceived! Best way to identify those people are through their body language! His speech could deceive
Find Peace
The peace of God is not the absence of a problem; Everyone has a problem, but not peace! Because we fail to say NO to pride& accept our weakness! Once we realize it, God makes us walk through the valley!
STOP EXPLAINING
How good we are, we will be reproached by some people for what we lack in life; what we lack is true, reproach would break our heart. but don’t try to explain them, be wise to move away and hold on to God! No one knows what we go through, STOP EXPLAINING!
Giving!
When you realize people are trying to take away what you love, Give them what they are trying to take! Don’t allow others to take it! Giving is powerful than others trying to take! But it’s not easy!
Hold to God
Place where we are disrespected, God makes us shine in the same; the only thing we need to do, hold on to God, focus on our goal, and give our 100% effort! But we react immediately by expressing anger/murmurings!
Ask right Question
There is always something to learn from our surroundings; the problem is we fail to ask the *right questions*!
Just believe
Just believe! Sometimes we don’t see any solution for our problems; it’s like a dead-end! Still remember we have one option left “just believe”
God can bring you out of your problem!
Root
Sometimes the process we undergo is invisible like root; God makes you shine, only after he takes you through the Dark path of pain, bitterness, etc., He makes you stronger like a root before he makes you blossom! You grow (go) down and deeper before you grow/ rise high!
don't Doubt!
Trust God with what talent you have, he will do the rest! First, we shouldn’t doubt but If you doubt Look back if you are even worth what you have achieved in 2021! Same in a relationship, when it is the edge of breaking, one minute rewind your past, that will heal your present bitterness!
Be a useful vessel
Our mistakes do not disqualify us from being used by God for his purpose/ glory. He has more than enough grace for us. When he uses us, focus on him, not on our surroundings!
Be a Helper
Living life in such a way that what you do to others can never repay you! I.e., Be a person who can be helpful but never expect back! Try once; you will never lose respect and be discouraged!
Focus on Goal
When we focus on our difficulties in life, we get distracted from our goals! In a 100-meter hurdle race, our focus is to reach the target, not on the hurdle in between!
Compromise
Don’t compromise for the wrong thing; be satisfied for the right thing; our enemy expects us to do it in reverse, then we have a problem; once you compromise, you end up compromising for all!
Tuesday, 14 December 2021
Remember
Don’t forget your beginning of life;
Don’t forget your blessings you received till now;
Remember the help you received to reach this position and bless their family if they need your attention!
The God who is always with you and how he blesses you!
This will help to overcome your current struggle!
Victory becomes painful
Righteous men don’t celebrate all his victory! Sometimes victory becomes painful and even brings tears; our victory over others' pain is not going to keep us happy long! Focus on a victory that keeps your heart in peace!
Remember Yes means only Yes
Don’t disturb anyone without their consent; if they say “no” means “no”; “maybe” means “no”; “silence” means “no”; only “yes” mean “yes”;
what we sow; we reap the same!
We expect double the blessings by doing the same work each day! Our expectations increase with the same efforts! Logic is simple *what we sow; we reap the same! *
God Watches us!
Here was an emperor who conquered 2 kingdoms, one king was very rich, but the other king is too poor; days passed, the wealthy king got pride over his head and forgot that there is an emperor above him, whom he need to honor; poor king struggling to feed his people! But he make sure to honor the emperor and improve his kingdom. one day the pride destroyed all the wealth the rich king had! Always we need to remember someone above watching!
Prohibition is a diversion towards your goal
If you are prohibited, before reacting, we need to understand why they prohibit! Most of the time, there could be a reason that we have not aware of! If you are prohibited, it's not mean stopped/avoided/ ignored; it means you are diverted to the right path/ protected against enemies attacks! You will never understand it until you realize it! “Prohibition is a diversion towards your goal”
Be available for kids
A father, in a modern world he running like a money-making machine; there is zero value even if he is a billionaire if he fails to teach,
his *son* about the value of life, respect for genders, and discipline!
His *daughter* that he is standing next to her in all her journey and available when she needs help/ guidance, feel her secure!
If anyone fails, someone is in danger 🔴!
Teach values of life
In the modern world, every news at Fingertips, in school education teaching how to earn money; at home, parents teaching what to become when you are grown; But we missing to teach values of life, respect for gender, the discipline of life to our teens; No one makes overnight mistakes that put his existence in a question mark and makes the victim!
Do good!
One who knows that is right to do and does not do it to him is sin; don't stop doing good because you are humiliated ;
Change start from you
If you need to expand in your life, the first change starts from your circle whom you connect!
Ge multiplied
When you go through *affliction*, you get multiplied ;
When you are *multiplied*, others get *annoyed*! But you remember to keep focusing on your goal;
God will take care of the rest!
Hold right thing
When you keep holding too many things, after a certain point, you cannot hold more; when you realize what you are mainly holding is your worry, ego, frustration, unforgiveness, etc. We don't have a space for new blessings or good things to hold
Nothing lasts forever;
Nothing lasts forever; the feeling and thoughts we have today are not the same as yesterday! Every day is a new day with new challenges!
Priority to deliver
If you do not know the priority to deliver in a job, your sincerity and hard work in a company are an utter waste! Be smart to know what to be worked on first!
Valley of difficulties
When you go through a valley of difficulties, don’t forget to be a thankful heart! Keep praising him
Don't feel worthless/ useless
The first attack by an enemy/evil or the person who plans to bring you down is to make you feel worthless/ useless! If you fall prey to it, no one else needed to destroy your life after that!
Stop justifying
Stop justifying yourself to others; you cannot satisfy them! The way you think and the things you go through are known only to you and God! Don’t waste time explaining to people!
Treat others Good
*Harder* thing to do in life is to treat people good when they are not treating you good! Or
better to be silent!
Remember, Once you start making one wrong move, it’s the *hardest* thing to come out!
God's Grace
We are rewarded only for the work we do! We need to stop wasting God's grace! As it comes free, we do not know its value!
Your current situation is not the final destination!
Your current situation is not the final destination! Don’t make up ur mind stating everything is over, it is just a hard part of your life journey! Another way is it’s a small episode of your life story! Sometimes we have to go through the pain to see beautiful things in life!
Relationship
Only iron can sharpen an iron; iron becomes blurred when it constantly hits wood; in a relationship, if both are not in the same mindset, bonded/ united, life becomes miserable;
Don't give up!
It’s ok to fail, feel tired, exhausted! But it’s never ok to “Give up”! Keep fighting each day, God has given you a purpose for your life! Focus on one good thing, you will be stronger to face the next challenge!
Do good today;
perform better than yesterday;
Stop worrying about tomorrow!
Focus
Our focus/ thoughts make it feel; what we feel makes us perform; what we perform makes us reap; *what we focus on matters! Remember, our focus is always on what we get attracted to!
If we focus pain of the past, we reap pain again!
If we focus on worries of the past, we reap worries!
If we focus on what God has for us, we reap his blessings!
If we focus on the future, we reap peace!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🍁
Everyone has at least one person they keep thanking in life; sometimes even they might not express the thanks to them personally! Every day we need to be thankful for what God gave us! When your heart is filled with thanksgiving, it never allows pride to enter your mind! Thanksgiving is an art, If it is handled right, it builds strong relationships!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🍁
Pain and Shame
How do you handle pain and shame! Any position we are in, we have a group of people to insult or put us down! But Don’t get angry, don’t react immediately to it; your old mistakes will rewind! Ignore everything and focus on the goal with The right “*Attitude*”!
Our attitude matters; always keep it clear!
I
Most of the time, our happiness is killed by one letter word, “I.” It’s a deadly poisonous word; take time in life to self-evaluate, and you will realize that it’s a matter of time God has given you to shine/ achieve; it’s always can be replaced by better people; self-realization keeps you growing in a humbled way!
Be quick to understand
There is always a message in the way people treat you!
If you sense it quicker, you react better;
if you sense it later, you will feel bitter!
Are you ignored?
Do people put you down suddenly or ignore you? Which creates unnecessary stress in your life! Till yesterday he might be good, but today his way of talking, the behavior might be different! one main reason insecurity of other person or might be a personal reason that they go through! So please don’t take it too personally and become hard on yourself! Just keep moving and try to understand why it happens! It
Be a first friend with your Child
A child asking his dad, my friend said not to tell you what he says! What do I need to do daddy? It is common in college/school but what shocked me is he is in Kindergarten!
Step Back
Sometimes we will face people who disturb and even torcher us! Don’t take a step ahead but take a step back and watch, you will realize how you are protected and blessed even in the middle of a tough situation
what’s our purpose in life?
We call it good when we serve our purpose; if the purpose is not met, it means we are focusing on the wrong person/ place; Most of the time, we forget to know what's our purpose in life that God has given;
do we know what’s our purpose in life?
Wisdom
When we ask God for wisdom, remember to ask for protection from friends' envy/ jealousy and enemies. When we grow in wisdom, it means danger also grows along with it; so be wise to answer!
When you grow in wisdom, your first challenge comes from close friends/ relationships!
Insecurity
Our insecurity makes us worry; prolonged worry turns into fear; by worrying, we cannot change anything in our life; when we realize we will start focusing on what God has given us to do next!
Be A Reminder!
Who we are in our friend's life! Do we *rewind* their past losses or *remind* their future vision!
Race
In a race,
For 100 meters - we focus on dedication
For 400 meter relay - we focus on co-ordination
For the 5k marathon - we focus on stamina and practice
But for the race between “Birth- death “ we focus on ego, anger, betrayal, etc. importance we give for 4 hours running with positive thoughts & energy, we fail to implement it in life!
Instant praise
We all love instant praise, money, famous but we forget it never last long when compare to hard work, dedication, and God's blessing which takes time!
Instant Microwaveable food never tastes good compare to ma preparing today's lunch starting from yesterday night soaking, marination, cooking, garnish, and serving! If you are waiting for a blessing and it delays, remember it is getting cooked better!
We all expect *instant* praise, money, famous but we forget it never last long when compared to hard work, dedication, and God's blessing that takes time!
*Instant Microwavable *food never tastes good compare to a loved one preparing today's lunch starting from yesterday night!
Self-realization:
one needs to realize in his own life what he is going through! Most of the time, we realize only after we make mistake! It’s not late to self realize and correct ourselves to the right path!
Tears
Sometimes we forget there is value for our *tears*, don’t shed them in the wrong place or to the wrong person! You need to know to whom you need to cry about your troubles and needs! Don’t allow your sorrow/cry to be someone’s time pass news of the day!
Fear to Faith
Don’t allow your circumstances of fear to become a “fright”, try to overcome your fear through Faith!
Negligence
When we have what we need in life for that particular day, we neglect to realize the worth of people, blessings of the future, and mistreat them; be aware of the blessings you received, make use of them in your life, don’t be negligence! Most of the time our negligence is because of our laziness!
Child!
In this crazy world, what you leave in your child's life is more important than what we leave for them! Not our money going to save them but what we teach them in life will!
3 dangerous mistakes
3 dangerous mistakes we love the most.
1. Praise - be careful when you are praised more in public
2. Gift- be very careful when you are gifted with the item which you dreamed
3. Food - hold your taste buds when you are in public!
if you are loving any one of the above, then be vigilant to face the next consequences!
Action Speaks Loud
Most of the time, we console ourselves just by speaking! But we forget that *action* is more powerful than just talking about it! Put your thoughts in action instead of just speaking!
Pain and Shame
Sometimes we have to go through pain and shame to realize our weaknesses and flaws; it is tough to overcome, but one who overcomes becomes strong to face the world! God allows us to go through it!
Don't compare to prove you!
If you feel you are underrated; you should prove to them your capabilities; stop comparing with others to prove yourself; it will reduce your dignity! Stop comparing yourself;
Truth
Truth is like a baby; it will come out one day from the dark! It is just a matter of time(it could be within 1 day/1 year/ 10 years); sometimes, it will change our perception of others in a minute!
Accept the failure
If we fail to accept the failure, that’s the biggest failure! You will never know the taste of success until you go through failure!
We are not perfect
The brilliant student never needs a coaching class! A perfect person never needs a holy place!
Our Meekness is not a weakness!
Our Meekness is not a weakness! Don’t use others Kindness as their weakness!
Be sure your helpfulness has not become your weakness!
Pickle
Pickle! Only recipe in the lunch plate which was prepared before 20 days and still tastes good! If you are pointed as a pickle, remember how the pickle is made, it has to go through a rough day! If you are going through rough days, it is to prepare you to be an important person sometime near future!
Our desire should not hold our blessing!
Our desire should not hold our blessing! we make mistakes by having a wrong desire! Best way to identify, you will never see progress to it! When you realize it, change your desire immediately!
Foundation
The building is built on a strong foundation! When foundations have a problem, it impacts the entire building! A leader is a foundation for the team, if he fails, the entire team collapse!
Foundations are laid depending on the building structure planned, buildings are not built based on foundations; similarly, Leaders are appointed for people; people are not grouped to leaders;
Success makes you cry!
When your success makes you cry, it means the pain and struggles you went through to achieve it come to an end!
Gradual Growth
Gradual Growth leads to a peaceful and meaningful life; sudden swelling would outburst anytime near future; if you realize the widening of doors in life, make sure it's not swelling!
Appreciation
Appreciation is good for a healthy relationship, but appreciation through comparison will ruin the same relationship very badly! Appreciation that made 100% Without comparison will be remembered for long/last long!
Faith
We only plan what is possible by us; we forget God who is with us, want us to do impossible things, and there is nothing too hard for God to make it possible; Faith never operates until we keep performing using our human talents; faith begins at the point where our talent ends;
How do we treat people?
People don’t remember what you wore, which car you drive, do you own a house or not but they always remember how you treat them!
What's our real Character?
Our true character reflects when we rise to good positions and how we treat people who troubled/ betrayed us, come to us for help!
That’s the situation that reflects the real character of a person! or
we going to help them or feel happy for their struggle!
Do we love to walk in rain?
A famous comedian once said he loves to walk in the rain because that’s when people cannot see him crying! A laughing face is a mask to hide your worries! Don’t judge someone looking up their face!
Who is your friend?
God is the only friend who will stand next to you when you are in trouble, but we will realize it only when we go through it!
Why we fail?
Sometimes we fail because we give up what we want to achieve to reach the goal for what we need right now!
Thursday, 11 November 2021
Wisdom vs. knowledge
The knowledge we typically gain through degree, but our decision and action determine wisdom; if we lack wisdom, knowledge becomes useless!
Fear vs. afraid
self-test, whether we run towards God in fear or we run away from God in afraid! Fear of God brings wisdom ;
Red Sea
If God closes the red sea, one way it's to protect you from enemies; but the other reason is stopping you to go back to the past;
Bless the people around you
Bless the people around you! not with money, a lite smile and greeting, that might change a person's life! More than that you will sleep in peace! Look at homeless/ beggers they sleep peacefully in the street, but you have everything but you have sleepless nights!
what they have differently
Don't expect something new in your loved ones instead look for what they have differently
Grace
Grace is an action that God performs in your life to be in a good/high position, and God allows you to look back on what bad it would have happened in your life if there is no God’s grace! Let’s not forget his Grace
Stop worrying
Stop worrying about the people that God has removed away from you! You have not seen what God saw; you didn't hear the conversations that he heard!
Respect others
The biggest life lesson to remember, no one is going to remember what shirt you wore, what car you drove, how much money you spent! It's all one thing they remember, how well you treat them! Irrespective of age, gender treat them with *respect*! One day you will see the reward!
Rearview vs windshield mirror
Rearview vs windshield mirror: our main focus should be on the windshield mirror of life I.e. The future of our life, but we do need to see what we crossed or passed us through the rearview mirror; remember the size of the windshield is bigger than a rearview mirror; future is bigger& brighter than the past!
You can drive a car without a rearview(past) mirror but not without a proper windshield(future)!
Remember 4 things in life
We live our lives because of 1. His Grace 2.His word 3.our faith 4.our prayer;
The first 2 always available for us but it increases or decreases based on how strong we are in faith and prayer!
Courage to accept mistake
When one realizes his mistakes, he needs *more courage *to change or correct his mistake than advising others to correct their mistake; Don't be stubborn to correct yourself!
Conditional vs. unconditional love
Conditional vs. unconditional love: if God bless you when you obey his unconditional love; how important and big we will be blessed if we obey gods for his conditional love; it's pain to go through God's conditional love!
Begin Loyal
Being loyal! Most of the time, how loyal we are in one season, we get rewarded in another season.
Let’s Live Loyal Life, don’t wait for your seasonal rewards!
what really changed?
The decisions we took a year back thinking right, look to be wrong now; what really changed? Circumstance and expectations; have we ever thought about what can we do to feel always right? Stop deciding based on others, make your decision considering you!
Our wisdom
Our wisdom is distinguishing between the things that remain unchanging in our life and it accepts, embraces the changes!
Don't fail to warn your children
When we fail to warn our children of the mistakes they do for the first time, we cannot correct them once it becomes habitual! The reality is the pain in correcting them at step 1 is less!
Focus on your blessing
Never feel jealous for what God does for others; what God has for you is for you! He will never deliver your blessings to someone else; We need to focus on God, to deliver our blessings!
Problem prepares us
The darkest and deepest problems are not for the devastation of our life; it is for preparation of the greatest victory of our life; God prepares you!
what is our purpose?
2 important days in life, 1. The day we are born 2. The day we realize/ figure out why? What is our purpose God has? We are searching for purpose within us but we failed to know that we need to find the purpose from our creator!
When we buy the machine, we listen to the inventor or read from his manual not that we try to learn on our own!
Look up to God to know, what is our purpose?
Pride
When pride increase, your focus gets distracted; be cautious on self-pride; be more careful about people praising around you! Self-pride and praising will never allow you to think about the next step!
Look back the path crossed!
Focus on your goal, which will lead to success; Once we succeed, we fail to talk about the path we crossed to success. Instead, we are focusing more on success, which eventually leads to downfall!
Disappointments
When you go through disappointments, god gives you an opportunities to shine; we need to swift our focus
Show you as a fool sometimes
If your enemy is too smart; if he thinks you fool, to extend, show you as a fool, because they just use the brain to defeat the fool, that 1 second is your time to wake up and that response should make sure all shut their mouth;
Glass
Before you break the glass, it reflects your face; after it is broken still, it keeps reflecting your face in multiple dimensions; we could be broken by loved ones, or trusted people but make sure our character is not changing to circumstances;
Look for the opportunities
Look for the opportunities that God has in front of us while we go through disappointments;
God blesses you
If God blesses you or gives you the opportunity; it means he trusts you that you will take care and do it; focus on implementing it and stop complaining & murmuring;
Don’t wait for others to appreciate you
Don’t wait for others to appreciate you! You will end up unhappy!
Worst punishment that we can give ourselves
The worst punishment that we can give ourselves is “Anger.” Later, You will never feel happy about it;
The best solution, *stay calm!*
You are blessed
Be happy, If you are able to *give* at least 1 dollar to poor, and not in a position to *receive* 1 dollar; God blessed you as a philanthropist, not as a panhandler;
Stop Blaming others!
The easiest way to divert our faults is to “ blame others.” But that cannot be lost longer; we need to be bold to accept “what is right”!
Remember
1. Don’t believe whatever you hear!
2. Don’t try to convey whatever you know!
3. Don’t try to do whatever you can!
Conscience
If someone touches our “conscience” or when we interact with others through conscience, we will never make mistakes or feel sorry, because what happens, will be truthful and right! But we fail to use our “conscience” most of our lifetime;
Why do we get “Ego”?
Why do we get “Ego”? The simple reason is “ we think we are not inferior to the person who stands in front of us; when we give same respect that we expect for ourselves, could fix most of our problems;
Loathing
Loathing never allows you to love yourself; it breaks relationships; Loath on what we do! Loathing creates anger that turns to depression; you never agree with others! Stop loathing!
Love & Hate
One cannot love(from the heart)and hate(in mind) at the same time; it creates complexity in life;
Be truthful in small things, care wholeheartedly.
Many times we want to hide from others; to hide, we start acting 🎭 ; after a certain period, our future has only a fake past; “Be truthful in small things, care wholeheartedly. “
Temptation stops you!
The temptation of quitting that God wants us to pursue is because we don’t realize its significant
Don't feel happy if you receive everything from God
we get everything when we ask god, doesn’t mean that God gives wholeheartedly; we never realize our ask to god is right or wrong until we go through it; That’s why, when you didn’t get what you pray, remember it's not God's plan for you! Better one he has, which is yet to come!
Kill the word "I"
The maximum growth one can achieve until he says,
“I” did it,
With “My” power,
That's “My” strength only.
When you start saying “I.”
“Superiority” will bring our life down one day!
If we have to grow, the word “I” to be removed from our thoughts!
Attraction of distraction
If you are good enough to identify “attraction of distraction,” reaching your goal is unstoppable;
Bitter Food Vs Ness
Bitter food is good for health, but we hesitate to eat; bitterness in the heart destroys relationships, but we never realized it;
Talk to yourself
If you are inferior, feeling down, or insufficient complex, the best way to overcome, talk to yourself; change the way you speak to yourself unless you think you will accomplish it!
Thoughts
Thoughts 💭 are the primary route for our success; if we allow the enemy to shut down our thoughts, we will fail miserably; we need to talk to ourselves, even before we advise/speak to someone else; use affirmation spoken over ourselves;
Its all up to us!
We can be thankful for what we have; or we can be angry/sad for what we don't have; it’s our choice; do your best, God will do the rest;
Turn back!
Samson: God has a plan for him even before he is born, how he is going to live in this world; But he was also trapped into a problem, due which he lost his both eyes! When he realized his mistake and turns back to God he killed double the portion of people!
We all make mistakes, but the point is when we going to turn back to God!
Don’t keep negotiating with God
We must trust what we have is enough; don’t keep negotiating with God, if so we miss a better one in life;
Intentions
Good/right intentions always lead to a good end! If our intentions are wrong, they will never end up good! Keep your intentions clear!
Journey of Life
Life is a journey through the valley, Who are we listening to, Wisdom or worry?
Gratitude or grumbling? Faith or blame? Angel or enemy? What we choose determines where we end up! Enjoy the journey of life, don’t wait for the destination to enjoy!
One who serve is the happiest in life!
The happiest people are not always the most successful people in life, but they are the ones who serve the best; if you help people what they want, then you will receive everything that you need in life
Face it!
You can love someone but still, you can choose to say goodbye to You! Be ready to face it boldly!
Reflection of your past thoughts
Where you are now is a reflection of your past thoughts, past thinking! If you want something to change in the future, you have to change your thoughts right now!
When is it best to start? NOW!
The best time to plant a tree was 25 years ago! The best to learn is 5 years or 10 years ago! but remember not to tell same after 5 years! Better to start now!
Don't become Slave!
Only disciplined ones are free in life, if you are undisciplined, we are slave to our moods, and passions
Faith/Belief
Faith/Belief is the blueprint of our future; most of the time, building(life) is weak(failure), as we fail to believe;
Focus on understanding
In life, if we know, Why it happen? For what reason happens? It helps us to prepare ourselves better when we face that; the thumb rule, focus on understanding before reacting!
Mistakes
As a human, we make mistakes; when we repent and safeguard ourselves from doing it again, God protects us; but when we fail to realize our mistakes and think it's all private to us alone, one day when it becomes public, it's hard to face it; Be vigilant in life!
Emotional intelligence
What happens is 10% but how we react to it is 90%; how do we control our reactions; Self-awareness-self regulation - self-motivation - social awareness - social skills; always our emotion should be aligned to our values.
Let start looking at our own shoes!
In our life, we started looking at what others getting in their life and feel jealous; we fail to think about what we have in life and be happy; our thought is what others have is always precious, but failed to realize what we have is better than others;
Dark part of Life
Are we confused or down about our life's dark part? Remember, it is the starting point for the good part; the problem with us is we failed to realize the shadow of good developing in our lives when God's light comes in us during darkness! ⛔ Stop worrying about the past dark part and keep moving forward to taste/ see good part in life;
Fear
What kind of fear is ours? Is it stopping you from going forward in life, or it makes you deliver better? Don't let fear stop you!
Rejection
When God allows rejection in our life, it's not that he forgot us; it means he is directing us to the right path!
Wise vs. fool
Wise vs. fool: a wise person who is not glorifying himself and also cautious in his steps, so others not promoting him; if we love praise, we become foolish one day;
Scars
Scars in the heart are memories for the future; heal your wounds in your heart, don't let your wound get worse, which spoils your thoughts (mind); Make sure to heal your wound on time with help of "forgiveness"; Scars are good it doesn't hurt, but wounds will not allow you to be in peace;
Everybody's acceptance is not a blessing.
Be very careful whom we surround ourselves with or whom we listen to. Because of their praise, we start to believe too much in ourselves, which leads to overconfidence; “everybody's acceptance is not a blessing.”; if everyone says it’s right, time to think about what might go wrong!
Advise what you learnt!
We are all good at advising others; have we ever thought, do we follow what we advise? The best part of life is always to advise what you practiced in your own life; if we fail, it makes even a wise man, wicked!
Arrogance in our heart!
Arrogance in our heart is more dangerous than it expressed; guard our heart with goodness;
Grateful
Be grateful for what God has given to us; Sad part is when we get what we need, we forget what is grateful to fellow humans & also to god; The thumb rule is, focus on what we can do to others, that will never stop you from being grateful!
Stop borrowing confidence
Stop borrowing confidence from friends and relatives; when we start borrowing it, we can never stop,
1. We always need someone to boost our confidence
2. If it comes from the wrong places, then it leads to destruction; develop self-confidence;
Parenting
As a parent are we sharing the struggle we go through in life for next day food/ job/etc to children?. if not, what do we do is wrong? We have to teach the values and struggles along with discipline which will be remembered for their life.
Bigger Blessing
The good that God does through you to other is bigger blessings than the good that God does to you;
Courageous
Be courageous and stop worrying; being courageous means not fearless, it’s the strength that God gives us to face our future; don’t allow worry and fear to take over you! Be courageous that will increase your faith in life;
Face the Pressure!
If you go through pressure in life, remember God has a purpose for it; you have to face it, cross it;
Happy Father’s Day!
He cares but we don’t realize; He advises but we don’t listen; He cries but we cannot see;
He fears inside about our future but he doesn’t express; He is the happiest person in the world when you achieve something in life, but he never expresses; 99% we don’t realize his presence and care when he is around; 99% we say he is right what he said years back, which we might disobey;
He is called “father” who only worries inside about you and laughs outside to cheer you! Happy Father’s Day!
If it is away, Keep them away!
If God delivers and keeps you away from the things that hurt you! don’t allow your temptation and thoughts to drag you to it again! Let our focus be on the future that God has for us, not on the past!
Listen to Advice
We fail to listen to what others say, but we are quick enough to give them a lesson on what to do! If we are not ready to listen, our lessons become useless;
What is yours is yours!
If we understand what God has given to you, it is for you! We won’t get jealous, insecure, bitter, or take revenge!
Who is your strength?
If the source of our strength is who we sitting next to? Then we going to live very disappointing life;
Believe in You!
Do you believe in yourself?
Do you respect yourself?
How Do you feel about yourself?
The bottom line is what you believe about yourself is much more important than what anyone else believes about you!
Frustration
Don’t allow your frustration to be the end of your goals; It comes in the middle of an action;
Don’t allow your frustration to shatter your future plan or discourage you! Sometimes good to pause in life;
Perfection
Don't wait for everything to be “perfect”;
first, we need to accept, there is nothing perfect in this world;
second, we will never enjoy even a minute if we wait for perfection;
Third, in search of perfection, we miss the blessings that God has for us at this moment;
Don’t postpone your appreciation!
Don’t postpone your appreciation/ advice/ wishes! If you think it is the right time to do it, go ahead! we never know what will happen tomorrow!
Good fruit!
if we listen or see good, we deliver back good; If we listen evil/bad, we deliver back evil; we just reap what we sow! 1 spoiled fruit spoils the entire fruit basket; 1 small evil thought will destroy the entire life.
Oneness
We cannot achieve something significant in life, if there is no oneness within people, in the end, that family or team fails miserably. When there is more than 1 person involved we need unity, oneness in thought!
Don't Quit!
We all have different people around us; one will put you in a difficult time, one will help you during difficult times, and the other will leave you during difficult times! If you trip, you can never move on in life! YoU should never quit on yourself! one day, people who left will realize your value!
Success is close to the broken hearts!
We are living in a time period that believes only if we are happy we can move forward in life to be successful! But we need to accept, Success is more close to the people who are broken, failed, going through miseries compare to happy people! Keep moving, God will direct you to the rest!
Butterflies!
We all love butterflies but we don’t realize the caterpillar 🐛 moment that it went through to become a beautiful butterfly! If you have to grow and shine, you have to cross the struggle and pain!
Relationship
Sometimes in life, one stays until another person hates, or until he gets an alternate; But when he loves wholeheartedly, that relationships stay longer and stronger! That relationship is precious, be cautious to protect that love and loved one!
What we carry doesn’t matter to retain a relationship but how do we feel matters a lot
Make others Smile!
There is no reward in this world for the talent you have that makes one 😊 smile; try it, when you see that smile you will forget your pain!
The extraordinary talent God can give one is to make others smile; ( without hurting the feeling) if you are the one, don't stop it; If you are not, try it!
Suffering
Suffering is not the end, it’s the starting point of blessing which helps to attain gratification; we need to learn the art to handle suffering;
Assumption
One wrong assumption can break, good relationship; check on reality, talk to people, before judging them!
Burden in life
The biggest burden in life is other's hope/trust in us! Give hope only if it is not disturbing your character and day-to-day life!
Weakness
If we know our weakness; and keep ourselves away from it, no one can stop our success! Remember It's we need to go far apart from weakness, not the other way around!
Everyone is not perfect! We all have a weakness. But if we need to shine, we need to find the talent we have in us, but that’s not your real victory! When you shine with your talent, people start attacking/pulling you down, pointing your weakness; how well you handle that is your victory! Be wise and use your wisdom!
Life is not about the positive side, it’s all about how you handle the negative side!
When we only focus more on our weakness and others strength it leads to jealousy; instead spend more time in improving our weakness to strength;
Tuesday, 15 June 2021
Control What we can!
We cannot control our surroundings/circumstances, but we can control our response!
Anger
we have not born with it; our parents have not taught us; but when we fail to get what we expect, it pops up, i.e., “Anger”; if we reduce our expectation, we can reduce our anger;
How to Handle Success & Failure
Don’t take your success to the head (leads to arrogance) and don’t take your failure to heart( lead to inferiority); Both are dangerous to life; instead, digest your “victory through heart, failure through the head;
Loyal
Be loyal in what you do; it will lift you one day to greater heights; *don’t quit*; instead, move forward with talents that God has given you;
Be Cautious
To be Cautious in life: 1.be cautious from deceived by others; 2.be cautious about turmoil around us.
We have to Cross!
we do need to cross disappointments to reach our destiny; we need to cross bitterness; if we need to taste wisdom; we do need to cross the dark part to reach the good part in life
Who owns your Confidence?
Your confidence is your responsibility; do not throw away your confidence; If you have given away your confidence, you are the one to get it back; don’t wait for others, God is with you!
Who is the source of our strength?
Who is the source of our strength? Relationships/ friends come and go, the balance sheet might disappear one day, your neighbors will disappoint us one day; if we trust in God, who strengthens us in all situations, who will be our source to give us everything that we need!
Don’t try to escape!
Don’t try to escape from the situation; instead, increase your faith to fight it or Increase gods grace to stay calm;
Mindset
Old mindset cannot receive new miracles; if we need to see new blessings, forget and forgive the past;
The words we speak
Most of our problems arise because of “The words we speak,” it can make you, break you, lift you or damage you forever;
Sunday, 21 February 2021
We don’t like
Everything we love has a small part that “we don’t like.”, that's when love overcomes everything.
Invest your Struggle
What is it going to be like, when we help someone to shine; all the difficulty you went through is not wasted but becomes invested; invest every day what we go through, it might help someone;
Tolerance
Sometimes life is all about what we tolerate; the Tolerance level will decide our character, our behavior, finally who we are. Remember, people who tolerated during hard times never lost good thing in life;
Superiority
God lifts us from dust and gives us all wealth in life. Suddenly, one day our superiority takes over our humility. When we have everything in life, We fail to remember where we started. How height we go, humbleness is more important in our life! Superiority leads to the destruction of his own life!
Saturday, 23 January 2021
Thursday, 14 January 2021
Who is winner?
One who runs like a horse until he wins and runs faster than horse after winning, to retain;
Give your 100% always, even in small work you do!
Are we waiting for someone to discover our strength? Or give us a Project/work to handle? Most of the time, we forget that when we EXCEL in our present project/ work, which will, in turn, bring you a bigger one automatically! Always remember, “Big door swing on little hinges “ be true to what you do!
Wednesday, 13 January 2021
Two Ways Money Test's Us
1. How we behave when we have no enough money?
2. How we behave when we have more money than we need?
If we know the answer, it will help us to show our better character to the world.
Tuesday, 12 January 2021
Money
Everyone needs money. We fail some times to understand "money is not evil, but the love of money is evil"; More we have, the unhappier we become; the best way of handling money is, always focus on “Giving or helping “ the poor, instead of holding or being selfish; Giving brings Joy!
Never Explain Yourself
Never explain yourself to anyone. Because, people who like you, don’t need it; and who dislikes you will not believe it - Apj
Monday, 11 January 2021
Sunday, 10 January 2021
Motivation vs. Inspiration
Don’t wait for someone who can motivate you always! Instead, we need to start inspiring others in what we do!
Stop Complaining
When God selects us to go through the situation, I.e., bad times/suffering, etc., we keep saying why to us, not others! We failed to understand. Instead, we keep complaining, but we need to realize that we can face that situation better than others!
Saturday, 9 January 2021
Ponder in Heart
Don’t be just listener, intake the advice and ponder in heart; it will help to reap the good fruit in life;
Finally
we started(entered) sea voyage (2020) with a lot of hope and expectations, but it’s an absolute blizzard on the way; at the end gods grace “we just keeping head above water”;
We fight the wrong battle?
We fight the wrong battle most of the time in our life; we always fight against someone or something, but we must understand the struggle is mainly within us; sometimes we fight against what we should be fighting for; take time to realize what we are fighting for in our life
Seed vs. Soil
Seed vs. Soil: sow your seed(thoughts) on the enriched soil(heart); To enrich the soil, make sure to add the right nutrients(right vision/ right people around us)
Learn from past mistakes!
Learn from past mistakes! That helps us to find the best solution at the right time! the problem is we don’t understand the mistake we made Or not ready to listen if someone says that we are making a mistake!
Process of Elimination
Learn the process of elimination; do we know who we are! But do we know who we are not; this process ultimately will put us in front of what is important in life;
Mind vs Mouth
How do we fight with our ”Mind”? Most of the time, we need to ”fight our mind with our Mouth”; mind travels faster, and it's imaginations are more significant, sometimes evil thoughts build up; when we talk or cry out loud, our stress level bursts out, and the exciting part is mind listens, what mouth declares;
Maturity
Maturity speaks by itself when we react in silence and getting hurt until we become strong enough to let it go;
Take Time to examine
Time to examine, Are we positioning ourselves in the right place, along with the right people to receive & give the blessings/ peace/love; if not, our focus should be to find the right person to position our life in the right place;
Love over don't like
Everything we love has a part that we don’t like within; remember, when love increases predominantly, it take over anything that we don't like; don't be on the side of receiving or expecting mutual love; the Best part of life is to be on the side of showing / giving love;
Get Knockdown
Sometimes we get knockdown before we find what's our fight is for! Utilize that downtime effectively; that will help strongly to fight back;
True lie
We live in a world when people repeatedly speak lies by hiding the truth, and that’s when a lie becomes real truth; it’s hard to help except god, but remember we cannot hide the fact for long;
Everything happens for a reason
There is a purpose for everything that happens in our life; we get into a problem because we approach/ understand it wrong or fail to take time to explore; every situation has a different timeline and way to approach;
Don’t get tired
Don’t get tired because of doing right;
Don’t get tired because you speak the truth;
Don’t get tired because you keep failing;
Don’t get tired because you getting rejected:
“Pressure to perform”
“Pressure to perform” is the reason for stress and leads to so many wrong paths or shortcuts to get it delivered; always allow it to happen in its phase; it ends well for everyone;
Pressure! We all have a pressure to survive, to grow in life, to prove in a team, etc. when we take pressure as is it going to overtake and kill you! But when you handle that as an opportunity to deliver irrespective of success or failure, you end up satisfied with achieving what you have never imagined! Don’t stop trying!
Humility
Humility is not a default character; it comes from being obedient. Secondly, it comes when we try Learning to be humble; Third, it comes over some time; finally, it comes based on how we respond during a problem;
Excellence
Excellence is not about being perfect; it’s all about doing better compared to yesterday;
Don't delay to Explain or Ask
When we think what we do is justice might not look right in other's view! It's good to explain or better to ask; if both fail, that's when the relationship starts departing;
Remember
Right to forget past or what hurts; But remember the "lessons learned" or "what it taught";
Don't Regret later!
We always regret when we realize we failed to listen, what experienced people or elders said, when we are in that situation, later in life;
Best part of Life
Whatever may be the situation, the only thing to do in life is to rejoice and do good!
Unity
A small pin unites 100 pieces of paper into one book; each article has faced a slight pain, but still, it makes a complete book; the same way as a team, everyone has a pain/misunderstanding/etc. But always, that unity makes the team stronger;
Life Vs. Ladder
When we go up in life, never forget who holds you during your failures; Sometimes the height(success) we reach hides the person who has your ladder(life when you are) down; Never forget who holding you, because they are the one who will uplift you again when you fail/fall!
Temptations
Most of our mistakes happen due to our attraction; the main reason for the interest is our desire; Desire leads to seduction, leading to making mistakes. We fail quickly when our enemies know our passion, because his job is easy, tempt you to do!
Pick right friend!
The one who is silent and close to you is the tough competitor in your life, whom you have to overcome! Don’t make your loyalty become slavery to the wrong person! Pick right friend!
Stress & Pressure
Two things can make you do what you never thought to do - stress & pressure! Don’t let them Rule you; learn how better to handle them!
Say "YES" or "NO"
Always we teach our kids or ourselves to say “YES” for everything because we don’t want to lose the friendship or a relationship or mainly to please others. we have an inner feeling like if we say “NO” we might be ignored or rejected, the uncertainty of what others think. But when we start saying ”NO”, we start driving our life and we will figure the right/ important one in life. Saying “NO” is not anger or offensive, it’s our option for our mental peace and do what we like to do. And Finally “NO means NO” which others need to understand!
Tolerance
our lifestyle, behaviors, actions, thoughts, and environment are always different from others. So, it’s good to know about our “Tolerance” level. Tolerance is being patient, understanding, and accepting of anything different in opinion. so, be cautious on the “tolerance level” because it defines you to them, “how to treat you?”
Do we give or commit ourselves to a relationship?
Giving is something you always expect in return, most of the time we give and felt sad when we didn't get some love in return. But when you “commit “ we don’t expect but we love it wholeheartedly. “Life is all about commitment, not giving oneself! “
Consolation
We cannot console others unless we witness their feelings. They don't expect solutions but a comforting word/feelings which make them feel better! ”Not everyone can console others., let's learn to console”
what is our purpose in life?
We fail to know the value of ourselves because we forget to think about
” what is our purpose in life? ” it's not earning money!
When do you know the answers to who we are?
Are we doing what we love to do?
To Whom we do it?
What did they need in their life?
What is the change in their life as a result?
Answer to the above question is simple ” keep others happy” if so, you will be happy, by doing what you love to do! Purposeless life is meaningless!
Do we rejoice during our Rejection?
Sounds odd! When we are rejected, We cannot articulate, it freaks us very badly, it's sensitive and that pain is unbearable! One cannot imagine how it feels unless we go through it! But you know what, when we are rejected ” don't get stagnant/depressed” we just need to “keep walking/ keep moving “ our life. Rejection is a sign of direction from God, keep walking, let us come out of your comfort, one day it makes you achieve, which you never thought of. Praise god! He has a purpose for our rejection, rejoice in “god” when we are rejected! Best examples in front of us, Apple founder ”Steve jobs”; Alibaba founder ”jack ma”;
Let's respond not react
All of a sudden we face too many ”challenges” in life which we might have not experienced in the past. Most of the time we tend to ”react” to it immediately, which leads to multiple complications when you notice them, they would be always tensed, and not sure what to do next. Instead, for the same situation when we learn to ”respond”, you tend to find the answer because you will think twice, understand what is wrong, before responding to it. 90% we react and we regret later, the response will be slow but in the end, lead to a better life! ” let's respond not react”!
Unemployed Mind
Saying heard recently “Unemployed mind” is devil's workshop; when we have nothing to do, our mind only thinks negatively about ourselves, surrounding and do gossiping, which spoils oneself and one's own family(affects us more than who is on your opposite side). Let's try to engage ourselves in a constructive way to build the family and relationship. A person whose mind works to build his own family is his first employment, his best compensation is love and affection he gets in return from his family and children 👨👩👦👦 .”None of us are unemployed in this world” (earning money is employment for survival, you never gain happiness/ love from it!)
Rest
Year-end approaching, we spend time on holiday shopping, But we miss to do what really needed I.e. ”Rest”. Do we really give rest to our health mainly, ”Mental health”? If we keep on thinking, worrying, fear of the future, we feel only “stressed & exhausted”. Let’s try to halt everything and just do/ read what keeps our mind pleasant, for the rest of this year. When you start 2020 with a “fresh mind”, you will accomplish your goal, along with eternal blessing! Rest, rest of the year!
Don't strain when you are tired; it leads to quitting permanently; Instead, take a break/ rest; when tired, a small break can energize you to achieve more;
Care
Most of the time we regret ourselves mainly for neglecting people/advice after a certain period or when people leave us. when we start neglecting, we start losing relationships, instead of building, we destruct the same. It's hard but important to learn how to cherish and care for others! When we care for others, God cares for us! It's tough but we need to learn to avoid negligence!
Proud
It's important to avoid ”Proud” and ”pride” in life. (sounds awkward ). When we succeeded or achieved something we quick enough to feel pride and proud in ourselves or about our kids. But we fail to know that is the root(starting point) for failure. Always remember, there is someone greater than you! Thank God! Learn to listen more to what others say about you! Serve others! Watch your path to stay in virtue!
Pride cometh before the fall!
Comfort
Have we ever tried to comfort one who is in grief around us? We do gossip but missed to see grief in them. Doesn’t mean that all the laughing faces in front of us, are leading a comfortable life. Always, a mother is the first person to comfort her child! We do know god comforts us even more! Let’s learn to comfort others. it could make you resemble one of the above!
Covetousness
Covet- The disorder which spoils people's mind like slow poison, which we cannot find unless we self-realize. I.e. “covetousness”. affects one own life and his entire family, covet people one day experience the loneliness!. Let’s lead a “satisfied life “ with what we have!
Digital/ modern world vs life
Digital world everything we expect to happen in microseconds. But in the case of life, patience is important to drive us, it cannot be digitized to execute in seconds; sometimes “enduring patience” is more important for survival!
Being Thankful
Being thankful/ grateful/ gratitude every day is more important. Thankful to God, thankful to our parents, thankful to our surroundings, thankful to people who stood with us; thankful for our hard times; thankful for our failures; all above said made us stand where we are now. Be grateful/thankful. When we reach a great position always remember to be thankful!
Don't Feel Sorry Later
When someone does something wrong once, we forget all the good things they did in life, even they might be very close in past. The sad part is that the relationship breaks like glass pieces, u can still see your face on the glass piece “saying hi” but cannot be fixed! Talk/argue/share, no use worrying after years! Where both will be far apart
Basic ethics has become a mandate
If we take time to think for a moment, all basic ethics has become a mandate, if failed you are fined; the best part is we obeying it right now without any hesitation!
Fail to Understand
Most of the time we fail to understand why we get struggle; many time we also forget that everyone has struggled in life; prior one god allows because he gives the wisdom to find solutions; later one is to understand others struggle which mold you better to console them; when we struggle - we need “wisdom mind and counseling heart “, God is our wisdom provider and counselor;
Wounds vs Scars
What kind of heart we have? don't develop your wound in name of anger/ego etc in the heart. Wounds never allow you to sleep in peace. when you show "Love and forgiveness" to any kind of wounds it can be changed to "scars". Scars are good and remembered as a testimony for a long time, not your wounds. In Life, scars are always good for a healthy life than wounds. Remember wounds are temporary but scars are permanent."Make sure your scars are not transformed back to wounds". Be cautious to cure your wounds in time.
Interesting of Life
On one side we feel no one there to care for us; on another side, someone cares and cry for you; but we cannot accept both sides. Now, who is hurt more is it person 1 (no one cares)or person 2 (who cry for u) or person 3 ( who gets love but not able to accept ) life is interesting always,
Do we have right reason to laugh?
In this modern world, We learned to laugh only by teasing others or making fun of another person, but we forgot to realize the pain that person will go through! Time to think about the reasons we laugh! “Once happiness cannot be lost long on other pain “
One way to win!
One way to win the world battle is just responding opposite to what your enemy expects you to respond!
Encourage others
Encouraging others when you are discouraged is not easy! But that small encouraging word is very powerful to lift them up than your worry about your discouragement!
Comparison
Nothing destroys our life or joy like “comparison”! Life is unique, we forget to walk straight and started looking on our sides;
Humble
Humble people; thankful& teachable; who try their best; who won’t lose their confidence; who face failures but don’t think of that as a hurdle and rise again;
Is it hard to be humble in a competitive world. ? When we learn to be humble it’s an art, people think you know everything, but you know who you are. It's difficult to follow humbleness!
Humbleness will never put you down; it exalts you at the right time; stay where you are and continue to do the right thing that God puts on your mind;
Set a goal, work on its plan, work harder, stay focused, one day you will be successful then remember to stay humble!
Keen to listen
Always remember to run away from a person who praises you! Be keen to, listen to people who criticize!
Run In Right Direction
Life is interesting “ when you set a record and people say you lost the game “ then you will realize we need to run faster, in the right direction!
Don't Judge!
“Never judge anyone!” Even judges do inquiry for years before judging anyone.
We judge others quickly but we never took the time to think about what they go through!
Salty!
Don’t judge a book by its cover; don’t trust everything you see even salt looks like sugar! Finally, we can try to be pineapple” stand tall wear a crown and be sweet inside”
Grace
Thank god for his grace and mercy for giving us another day in our life. Pray and scream for ourselves, our surroundings, the protection of our nation! In all use his wisdom to guide you in these difficult times!
RESPOND CALM!
Are we giving away our talent and power when we allow people to upset/ rule us? Then, It means we are controlled by someone, but when we learn to remain calm, which will make our mind to be free from worries and negativity. Moral: be keen to listen to what others say but don’t react, RESPOND CALM!
You cannot control what is handed over to you! But you can control how to react to it! Sometimes don’t react just “drop it” if you feel it’s not your “cup of coffee” and leave that place!
Life vs Yield
Life travels at a fast pace; we forgot that we need to yield in our life at some point, let’s prepare to slow down, stop if needed; wrong decision made in a fraction of a second costs us more!
Fish vs snail!
When fish keep swimming, snail never cares what fish does, both are happy in their life; when fish fall sick and died, snail ate the entire fish in an hour! Fish is you, the snail is your surroundings; keep swimming hard in life, to survive!
What story we choose
A mother who like fame, then a baby in her womb; A man who files a false allegation on a woman, forgets he has a daughter at his home; A colleague who betray you at back, act praising in front for a promotion;
Attitude
"Attitude does play a major role in our life!", We need to know about "Aeroplane Attitude" in life, it's good in life to have a Nose up, or a good attitude, that helps us to grow ourselves higher, and higher; a Nose down or bad attitude will degrade us or takes us down in life.
Our attitude determines our altitude! Develop a good attitude that leads to greater altitude!
Source of our strength
When we realize God is the only “source of our strength”, your fear goes away, what you need comes closer or follows us;
Identity
What is our “Identity”? Money/ fame might disappear one day, which cannot withhold our identity for long. But our character/ behavior/ self-confidence / how we respond to people, finally God's presence in us, defines our identity!
Behavior
“Behavior” is greater than knowledge; 1 sec of misbehavior can ruin entire life; most of the time our emotions reflect in behavior when knowledge fails, but his behavior handles it!
Chess vs life
There is an importance for each character in the chessboard, we cannot play ignoring one character; similarly, there is always a reason for the people, who come into our life, give importance to them and treat them good, your greatness be among the people;
Imagination
Your imagination is from your thoughts, and we give our own sketch to it in “*our* *Mind*”; most of the problems starts because of our own imagination, without knowing full knowledge about it; Remember “our imagination always should be positive and it’s a gift from the creator”; don’t forget “never reveal your imagination(dream) to anyone”
Mature
Many times people say “ you need to be mature”, what is mature? In simple term,
1.knowing when to speak& when to be silent
2.moving away from negative vibes
3.be happy with what God gave you
4.when u start thinking of a person, who insults or hurts you, why he doing it.
5.stop complaining and start changing the surroundings
Success
What is success? The best way a failure is handled is a real success; If we need to be successful, grow little by little. Gradual growth makes us strong! your success; depends on How fast failure chase you; don’t stop attempting it
Angry
we cannot 🛑 STOP getting “angry”; but we need to know, we can “control our anger”; when you fail, any decisions are taken end our life, miserable; the best way is to keep your mind calm;
Most of the destructive decisions we take only when we are angry! When you look at our life for a minute, all the decisions taken in anger have affected ourselves than others! When it comes to the world keep ourselves away from people who make you angry, but in a relationship, you need to find the ”reason ” which makes you angry with them and correct it; if not, it will never last long! People lose 20 or 25 years of reputation or relationship in 1-minute anger! 🚸 AngeL(R) won't stay in the same house 🔴
Arrogance
When a person keeps on advertising and proves himself to others that leads to “Arrogance”; however when a person's character speaks in his presence and thinks he can face the challenges, then it leads to “confidence”; in a simple “if there is no humbleness in your confidence it leads to arrogance”; one of the reasons for self-destruction;
Reconcile
We spend hours and hours to talk about controversy’s or show “hatred/dislikes”; but it takes few minutes to reconcile one another, when you fail, don’t forget it destroys ours/ our kids/ our grandkids blessings;
Sorry
Sometimes good to ask “sorry”, which will help to strengthen the relationships (don’t delay to act); most of the time good to be “silent” that will eliminate unwanted discussion(stay calm, keep moving in your life). The best result of both is “peace in our life”- its important to learn, how to be a “peacemaker”;
Move Forward
We need to keep moving forward, most of the time, without knowing answers or closures; that’s how God leads us! Because what we think we need, God believes we do not need to move forward; keep moving in confidence!
understand backward
Things that don’t make sense now; doesn’t mean it will not in the future; the life we live goes forward, we always understand backward!
Love
Love is not about possession; love is all about appreciation and standing behind to lift them when they fall;
“Loving one another” means even loving when they make mistakes. The real value of love comes when you explain to them the mistakes they make and correct them;
Success Vs. Win
Success is not a failure of others, but a win is because someone loses; Success deals with self-satisfaction and self-achievement, but winning is how you look, in other views. Success keeps you going; winning defines the end! Let's lead a successful life!
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