confused state

 In a confused situation it's hard to know what to do,  but "What if " god already handling it, then your worry is a waste of time. Let god handle your things on his own, which will never let you down.  Our only job is to look up to him and pray!

Blacksmith

 What you going through day by day,  is the way you get molded in your life. A blacksmith has an iron if it is not beaten and kept in the corner gets rusted easily, but when the same iron beat hard and molded into a precious gift and its value is priceless! the same way we are beaten hard in all directions, each day is a lesson to mold yourself, for sure one day you will shine like a star! So don’t lose your hope, surrender to your god(blacksmith)! 

Fear Not!

 Things are changing day by day.  We go through changes which we never imagined.  Focus on the things we can control,  leave the things that you can't to "God ". Keep staying "positive", we fear whole life for something or other,  this is the time we need to build our faith over fear.  If not now when we will?  Stay safe home, spend time with family,  help and pray for your neighbors/Medical professionals/Government officials who are in the front line.   Don't forget it's not you alone fighting against the invisible enemy.  FEAR NOT! KEEP YOURSELF MENTALLY STRONG!

Criticism

 If you have to grow, the thumb rule “run away from people who praise you”. You will never know your mistakes or weakness from them! And be “always keen to listen for what you being criticized”

Watch Your Steps

 It's essential in life that, you should know who you are! when you are criticized, you should know how to motivate yourself; when you are praised, you have to watch your immediate next step! Always learn to be an ordinary person, because everything will pass by, nothing is permanent! Praise god!

Power of appreciation

 “Power of appreciation”; just a small note of thanks or appreciation, first it helps to build healthy relationships(in the family or in the office), next time if you just send one message, you will get all you need, with ease!. Next, it helps you to build positivity around yourself! Finally, it helps you to build a healthy mindset and increase productivity. 

Contradicting thought! 

Remember: Don't fall into the trap called  ”Appreciation”; that's the easy way to stop you from reaching your next milestone; also, the best person to be around you is someone who points your mistakes as a mistake, not the one who is always praising you! 

Friends

 When we feel we surrounded by people who always saying we doing right, it’s time to re-evaluate our circle of friends; at-least 1 person we need always to point finger at you to highlight your mistakes, which always will keep you on your toes to do right actions/decisions; first and foremost of all is we need to be ready, to intake what others point wrong on us! 

Trouble

 When you go through some trouble, it’s never wasted, but it’s invested. It helps you to grow better and guide somebody, who going through the same trouble around you! Don’t get stuck thinking of troubles, keep moving in life in the creator's presence!

Our - self

 Instead of we judge or measure our- “self”; we always “compare” with others and get into trouble, lose self-confidence and fail ourselves in the race; This is the time to evaluate “our-self” and grow; instead of wasting time in comparison! 

Be kind to our-self; only then you can be kind to others, not your money/ fame /wealth. The kindness you show will make you a good human being and spread the same kindness to others!

Time to evaluate our-selves; forget what happened in the past, focus on the future, prepare yourself for the same. If you can make yourself to stand where you are right now, then definitely you can go much further. Prepare yourself strong! 

Blessing vs Curse

  “everybody acceptance is not a blessing, everybody rejection is not a curse”. Let your creator be your mirror to reflect you, not people in front of you because it’s going to be their reflection, not yours; 

Prioritize

 Prioritize your life; how do we prioritize? God should be the #1 priority 

Thoughts

 Most of the time we get stuck or failed in our lives, not because of others, but because of our own thoughts;  our thoughts makes you assume things, makes you think issues bigger than it is, within your mind, eventually destroys your confidence and faith; don’t fall to your thoughts which can demolish your - self.  If you are true/discipline to what you do, nothing can stop you from being successful! 

What you going through day by day,  is the way you get molded in your life. A blacksmith has an iron if it is not beaten and kept in the corner gets rusted easily, but when the same iron beat hard and molded into a precious gift and its value is priceless! the same way we are beaten hard in all directions, each day is a lesson to mold yourself, for sure one day you will shine like a star! So don’t lose your hope, surrender to your god(blacksmith)! 

The dryness of leaves was changed to fresh leaf by feeding water to the *root*; the Same way, If we feed our *heart* (root) with more anger / Jealous /arrogance etc, the same going to reflect out from us!  "Fill your heart with good thoughts, godly words and positivity"

Learning

 Each second learning in life is to save ourselves or others in that 1 second. Keep learning!

Experience

 It’s not how good you work/live day-to-day life; it’s all about how much experience you gained to respond in troublesome time within a second. 

Treat others better

 We do expect everyone to treat us better! But we do need to think about how do we treat others! 

Resentment vs Contentment:

 We resent someone based on the experience we had in the past, But the problem is we keep thinking of the same and struggling to come out of the resentment. Sometimes it breaks good relationships and spoils our life as well. Instead,  We need to learn to live our lives in "contentment",  whatever might happened in the past, it's our choice to change our mind from bitterness to happiness. It's not an easy choice, we need to train ourselves every day to treat others in a better way of respect.

Wisdom

 Everything could not be known in the beginning, but it can be learned from their action in a day or two. Who are what kind of person and their motive? It’s always us who has to safe and secure, for which we need the wisdom to survive; God gives his wisdom for his people; be diligent;

Your strength doesn’t help you to win, it’s God-given wisdom and strategy that helps you to win! Don’t trust your strength, it will diminish one day! 

Faith

 When we need great things in life; Be faithful/ loyal over small things; God sees your trust in little things; how we handle little things, determine what’s coming next in our life; 

Because of your grace, we have not Perished; Because of your Love, we are not abandoned; invisible enemy waiting to kill us,  but your imperishable love protecting us; O God,  lead us and protect your children from all their enemies.  You are our source, support, the reason for our life;  pray our faith keeps increasing in you! Praise you! 

.3 micron is the gap between people and faith! 3 miles distance between counter and tissue

Where is our faith? On Tissue paper or on our creator! We failed to learn, this is time to stock more faith in the creator, than our daily needs. We forgot what we are taught or what we teach our children  I.e “we need to love/care for each other”. Because we started focusing on “I/ my family”. Still, we do have time to turn our faith back to our creator and cry, (1.Essential items are still needed but not for stocking them for 5 or 10 years. 2. We as a human failed in this small practical test by our creator, still more to mature ourself in faith) 

“Faith” is patience with mystery; Faith is not a feeling; “Faith” works along with your difficulties/ discomfort/ middle of a storm. “Faith” that works to help you cross over; God is our faith who lead you in this uncertainty; don’t lose your "Faith"

Truthful

 Be truthful in what we do! Most of the time it reflects being wrong to people around you. But one day, when they realize, what happened or we did is right, that’s the day you will be remembered by everyone. It could happen in a day or several years after, but it never fails!

Word has a power

 “Word has a power”, one encouraging word can change a person’s life; what we speak first revolve around us; so always have confidence in you, good thought, good wording power;  and that word was a god!

“A word we speak” has the power of healing a broken heart! 

Knockdown

 It’s not a crime to get knockdown in life; buts it’s a sin  if we fail to get up; “get knockdown - suffer the pain - raise strong” in life; keep tuning life for better tomorrow;

Forgive- pray for - bless others

 Forgive- pray for - bless others! Peace and joy will follow you automatically!

Fear of consequence

 “Fear of consequence”,  when this lacks in a person, that’s when mistakes happen!

Fear cripples us from achieving our goal, but when you look at your god, he upholds us! 

Door to Happiness

 The door to happiness, always opens inwards; being happy and doing good in any situation, are 2 secret things for a person's good life;

Happiness is an emotional response based on the results we get, it depends if we like it, we feel happy! If not we are unhappy!  If we keep chasing happiness we going to be unhappy most of the time! Stop chasing happiness, instead pursue your dream which will keep you happy!

Worry

 We plan many things in life, but most of the time it never goes as we planned; sometime, it won't happen as we like;  We just keep worrying about what happened, instead if we take time to think and analyze, definitely there will be a hidden reason for what happened, which could be more surprising when we realize; 

In this world, everyone has a problem, but how we handle it? Or How we approach it? Whether we see it as our ”worries or concerns”. When we see it as worry, we never find the solution for the same, instead, we spoil our health and no solution attained. Try approaching it as a concern, we will find a path to our problem. Worry about your past, kills our future! Concern about our present leads to a happy life! Let stop worrying, start concerning about it! And don't let concern becomes worried!

Humanity

  Learn to help someone, who is really in need. Could be a small help, but when it is done at the right time, that's the best gift to humanity!

1.Be cool to your Haters,

2.face your critics,

3.respond on time to your enemy,(don’t react)

4.respect the team/ your colleagues,

5.be dedicated to your work,

6.Finally be a “good human being” to all! 

Don’t forget, You are remembered only for “point 6”, remaining all don’t reflect who you are, Even “point 1 to 5” keeps talking about you after you leave them!

Narrow Path

 Travel in a narrow path could be time-consuming/challenging but end result would be fruitful. Never try a shortcut, it looks easy, but ends in the destruction of own life;

Tongue

 Blessing & cursing resides in our boneless small member called ”tongue”; it's a fire, which can even end our life or career in a minute. confess good thing always!

Believe

Blessed is the one who believes;

Just believe! Everything happens for a reason! If good, that’s your success! If bad, that's your experience! Remember, the experience will lead your life longer than success!

Reward

The reward for good work is always more work;

Failure

 When we are successful, mostly they will say it’s luck  few  will say that’s his hard-work; when we are failing, mostly they will be criticizing, few  will be encouraging; One has to face everything in life, more than a success, failure the most; god strengthens him;

We fail in life, because we lost trust in our ability/ strength and we started seeing the people around us, how cable they are;

Failure is not the end, it’s the starting point for your success, 

Intellect

 We do mistakes and correct ourselves; also we need to learn from other’s mistakes around us and making sure we not doing the same mistakes, that’s when our “Intellect” works;

we sow, we reap

 What we sow, we reap; it’s 100% true; better to do good or be silent in life;

We reap, what we sow;

Rule

 Rule; never expect; never assume;

Trust

 “Trust” is earned over years of faithful obedience, not by love, Trust can be easily broken in a second; When love fails, you can regain by forgiveness but faithfulness fails it’s hard to gain trust again; keep maintaining faith daily

We don’t trust sometimes whom we love, but we cannot stop loving whom we trust; The stronger the trust, the deeper the love; but the hardest part is to love again the person who broke the trust; maintaining trust is a never-ending rule. 

Without Trustworthy, a relationship cannot be built; if we have to rebuild trust again, be open to talk, not  be silent, leave EGO, don't argue/hide but explain them in person;

Once you lose trust in a person it’s hard to share/ talk/ discuss; 

Someone nice to you and rude to others. Remember, it is just a matter of time, you will be soon treated the same! So trust one whose character treats everyone the same!

Love your enemies

 Show love to your friend & neighbor, it’s easy, good deal; "Love your enemies," is it possible? 🙌 Yes, If we are ready to forget about vengeance in heart,  forgive through our sayings, give them what they ask, bless them what they need! That said, we also need to know who is our enemy! (We are not only surrounded by friends & enemies)

How do we protect ourself from enemies attack? Know your enemy! Renew our mind, do a study about our enemy's mind, learn the truth, But we get easily deceived because the enemy takes time to read us and attack when you are not attentive; God is the only source to protect us from all the unseen enemies around us!

If the enemy cannot distract you, he will discourage you! 

keep doing good

 Tortoise vs scorpion: When a scorpion stuck in the middle of a river, the Tortoise helps it to reach the shore, on its way, the Scorpion started biting the Tortoiseshell; When it asked why you are biting, it said, that's my nature; Same way,  keep doing good, don't stop because you are getting mistreated, or ignored.  Don't stop doing good, it really affects when someone really waiting for it; ignore the negative people, and keep doing good!

satisfaction

 When we have a Heart of satisfaction in what we have right now in hand! That’s a real blessing!

Face it

 Always to remember; when we are failing, need to face it; when we are betrayed, learn to forgive him; when we are successful, need to be humble; when you learn to show-up all 3 qualities, that’s when the maturity of one's life speaks automatically; 

Murmuring

 Do good to others without murmuring; it begins  when a person starts to disobey the master; it always deals with negative consequences; Better to be away from murmuring people;

Most of the time we keep on murmuring in life for everything; because we keep comparing ourselves to others! When we  realize to be happy with what we have or do, it will change the way you lead  your life

what happens to us in our life

 There is a reason behind” what happens to us in our life”, some we realize in a day, some it takes a year; some ends well because we like it; we fail to develop a mindset to accept and grow ourself from things that we don’t like or not good;

Are we asking the right questions in life?

 Are we asking the right questions in life? We question our situation or our problems by pointing others, which we never get an answer! The right question is the one which we can control or change; instead of asking “ why is my friend not talking to me”, “ why can’t I have a conversation with my friend?”

comparing

 Everyone has a unique talent; when we fail to realize our own talent, we start to compare with others; others comparing us cannot be changed, ignore that, stop comparing our-self with others; most of the time it takes time to find our talent, once you know, nothing can stop you!

EGO

 At a certain point in life, Success boost  our “EGO”, but failures keep us running and leaning every second!  That's when failure takeover over the success

We battle daily and struggle to overcome, but it always wins! When we learn to forgive, forget the past, ignore negativity, love others, then we have a chance to bless ourselves by letting go of our ”EGO”;  it's like a weed in a garden; no one knows when/ how it grows in us!  When EGO grows, our self-identity dies! 

We believe taking garland to the grave is true love and respect! But we fail to know showing love and speaking a kind word when they are alive is more valuable than visiting a grave! Throw away “EGO”

Our joy & happiness

 Our joy & happiness depends on, “How do we treat people”, Selfish people cannot be happy; we are selfish for somethings in life, but when we refuse to help or mistreat or ignore their needs, this selfishness kills our own happiness;

A cheerful heart is the best medicine for a person; when we learn to be happy with what we have, we will never miss our happiness; 

When you are happy, never make promises; similarly when you are angry, never make any decisions; 

Instead of traveling towards happiness! Learn to travel with happiness! In life. Be happy with what we have at this moment, which will lead you to greater success, than worrying about what we lost in past!

Life

 Life is like  a train; it goes smooth until it is on track(trust &love), irrespective of burdens it carries behind it; when it slightly goes away from the track, the train stops moving even an inch forward;

Life is not about what we see; it’s all about what the one goes through within;  that’s why people say, pray when you’re alone!  And Remember, God is beside you always! 

Life doesn’t become more comfortable when we grow; we need to make sure we grow stronger, focus on our goal, and keep moving forward! 

Life is a decoration of failures and shame; we are not seated in a place where we are now, just like that; always remember to look back on what you have gone through; it will push you ahead;

what privilege we have in life

 We should always remember“what privilege we have in life” is someone’s dream; Be thankful for what we have, at this moment!

Let go

 Let go of what you cannot fix, but hold firm to what you know;

Complaining

Never complain to a person who has no power to change it. It keeps us stuck, instead find little things to rejoice, which will change entire circumstances;

when we fail to adapt or our focus deviates or even little things divert our path from achieving our goal, we just keep complaining; we need to learn to be grateful for what we have and what we do! 

Arguing

 “Arguing” keeps us away from experiencing true connections with those we love; when we realize, we won an argument, it’s the first step they started moving away from us!

Our thought

 “our thought”, drives us; when we start controlling our thoughts in the right direction, it leads our life in a better way! Start thinking from goodness god did in life;

Targeted by our own people

 Some times we might be targeted by our own people; the worst part is we never realize it till the last minute

Right decisions, in right time

 “Right decisions, in the right time”; we cannot live without adjustments in our life, but sometimes others use those adjustments take advantage of us; that’s when we need to take strong decisions; if we fail, we get drained in it; 

Most of the time we/ (we made to) feel we are always wrong! Remember always “Stop clock shows the right time twice a day!” 

Lookback

 Lookback; Sometimes before keeping one step ahead, we need Lookback 10 steps behind; it’s not because I am scared, it’s precaution;

Give and take

 “Give and take”, happiness and love, when you first give, you will get it back in 100%.

Being Alert

 "Being Alert", In modern-day, we cannot live without trusting others; there are many characters around us, who are waiting for us to get fooled, sometimes it could be who is close to us. The only way is to identify those characters at the right time, "being alert" and safeguard our-self. If fooled, keep crossing them and move on! God is with you!

Focus

 Focus; focusing on what’s broken will not help us to move forward; our focus has to be on our next action;

Please focus on the certainty of what we know/ see; instead of focusing on what is uncertain around us! 

Focus on what was broken/lost will never give us peace or allow us to grow; instead, our focus has to be on “what we need to do next?” 

When we feel out of control, we need to start focusing and search for reference; “focus with references” helps to find what to do next; 

Release

 There is always a time gap between reveal and release; To be successful, our hope/faith/trust should grow in between revealing and release;

Distractions

 “Distractions”, not every disruption are distractions in life; we fail easily when we are distracted, we need to learn more on deciding/ understanding our distractions;

Obedience

Obeying the word of god, you will go through difficulties, sorrow; but you will be blessed. It’s easy to hear, difficult to follow; we always talk or listen to people  who have overcome difficulties; obedience leads to one straight path to success;

Obedience is not an easy task; we go through pain when we start obeying the word of god, but when we go through it, remember the result is his blessing will fill us;

Living a life of obedience is  more important than living in comfort;

Obedient life comes only when we have an obedient thought;

Praise

 Don’t "love praise ”; don’t be among people who always “praise” you; if not,both will lead our life towards failure; Better to be “humble”  or best to be silent and walk away; “praise is like medicine, if dosage is high  then it’s the poison”

Confidence

“Confidence comes from consistency” don’t lose your confidence, keep working, keep moving, keep learning! We might fail every step we take forward but surely we will be rewarded one day! don’t forget in all the struggles keep moving in the will of God(being good/ doing good)!

when you fail to think that you can overcome the problem, then you  fail in life;   when you trust in God and move forward with confidence, “You are stronger than you think”;