Expectations

 Expectations are the main reason for disappointment! I can't control what others do to me, but I can control what to expect from them!  Minimize your expectation; to do so, understand what they are capable of! Let’s not blame others for your lofty expectations!

Comfortness

 If you expect growth in life, don’t expect to be comfortable; comfortness makes us feel secure but no growth!

Stiff

 When your life is like a full-stop or period(.), try to bend yourself before God, so you can see your life becomes a “comma”, get up and continue towards your goal! don't be stiff; when you bend you win! Be (,) not (.)👍

Stop expecting perfection

 Sometimes we think we have to dismiss a few people from our life, but remember, if you dismiss everyone who mistreated you, you will have nobody around! So stop expecting perfection from others, and realize even we are imperfect in their eye! Pettiness keeps us always in dark! 

Pettiness

 It’s not our enemy holding us back, it’s our pettiness holding us back! As we get stuck in the imagination of the results and are not strong enough to realize our position 

Mirror

 Stop sharing your vision with others! If God gives you a vision it’s for you to hold on to it! But remember you can look for advice or feedback from others that will help you prepare yourself for your vision

People around might come and go, just stay and think good, to the person who you see in the mirror! 

U-turn

 Don’t worry about how long you traveled in the wrong direction; When you realize it's the wrong direction, take a U-turn immediately and start traveling towards the right destination! Stop worrying, stop overthinking, and keep it as simple as that, take a U-turn!

Our preference fails

 God doesn’t give something based on our preference, but he gives it in our life based on its purpose! So if our plan fails, we never know if it is good or not! But remember, our failed plans 99% later made us feel right about the failure! 

Third-person standpoint

 When you face pain, try to approach it sometimes from the third-person standpoint, your solution could be easily derived 

Our endurance

 Our endurance is directly proportional to our love; if we love more, we endure more than others! for us to sustain in life, we need more endurance that comes through love🙏