There is a reason behind” what happens to us in our life”, some we realize in a day, some it takes a year; some ends well because we like it; we fail to develop a mindset to accept and grow ourself from things that we don’t like or not good;
Wednesday, 14 October 2020
Are we asking the right questions in life?
Are we asking the right questions in life? We question our situation or our problems by pointing others, which we never get an answer! The right question is the one which we can control or change; instead of asking “ why is my friend not talking to me”, “ why can’t I have a conversation with my friend?”
comparing
Everyone has a unique talent; when we fail to realize our own talent, we start to compare with others; others comparing us cannot be changed, ignore that, stop comparing our-self with others; most of the time it takes time to find our talent, once you know, nothing can stop you!
EGO
At a certain point in life, Success boost our “EGO”, but failures keep us running and leaning every second! That's when failure takeover over the success
We battle daily and struggle to overcome, but it always wins! When we learn to forgive, forget the past, ignore negativity, love others, then we have a chance to bless ourselves by letting go of our ”EGO”; it's like a weed in a garden; no one knows when/ how it grows in us! When EGO grows, our self-identity dies!
We believe taking garland to the grave is true love and respect! But we fail to know showing love and speaking a kind word when they are alive is more valuable than visiting a grave! Throw away “EGO”
Our joy & happiness
Our joy & happiness depends on, “How do we treat people”, Selfish people cannot be happy; we are selfish for somethings in life, but when we refuse to help or mistreat or ignore their needs, this selfishness kills our own happiness;
A cheerful heart is the best medicine for a person; when we learn to be happy with what we have, we will never miss our happiness;
When you are happy, never make promises; similarly when you are angry, never make any decisions;
Instead of traveling towards happiness! Learn to travel with happiness! In life. Be happy with what we have at this moment, which will lead you to greater success, than worrying about what we lost in past!
Life
Life is like a train; it goes smooth until it is on track(trust &love), irrespective of burdens it carries behind it; when it slightly goes away from the track, the train stops moving even an inch forward;
Life is not about what we see; it’s all about what the one goes through within; that’s why people say, pray when you’re alone! And Remember, God is beside you always!
Life doesn’t become more comfortable when we grow; we need to make sure we grow stronger, focus on our goal, and keep moving forward!
Life is a decoration of failures and shame; we are not seated in a place where we are now, just like that; always remember to look back on what you have gone through; it will push you ahead;
what privilege we have in life
We should always remember“what privilege we have in life” is someone’s dream; Be thankful for what we have, at this moment!
Complaining
Never complain to a person who has no power to change it. It keeps us stuck, instead find little things to rejoice, which will change entire circumstances;
when we fail to adapt or our focus deviates or even little things divert our path from achieving our goal, we just keep complaining; we need to learn to be grateful for what we have and what we do!
Arguing
“Arguing” keeps us away from experiencing true connections with those we love; when we realize, we won an argument, it’s the first step they started moving away from us!