Unless we make ourselves available, we cannot expect God’s promise to be fulfilled in our life
Saturday, 31 December 2022
Experience
There is no teacher who can teach you like an experience can in life! Lots of failures and betrayals are the main lessons of your experience!.
Focus on what brings blessings
Sometimes we have to forget and move on; What we lost and what others spoke about us is good to forget so you can focus on what brings blessings to our life!
Idea that is good
If you have an idea that is good for you and others, try it! Because the best thing you can do is only when you want to do it!
You cannot buy respect
You cannot buy respect or make people respect you! Care comes from how you influence their life!
Intentions
Keep your intentions right and pure; if you lose someone for that, it's not your mistake or loss!
Be comfortable being uncomfortable
Be comfortable being uncomfortable; that will keep you pushing to the next level!
Someone's accomplishments
Don’t get amazed by seeing someone's accomplishments; you can try to understand their success path, but when you start getting amazed about others, you start losing your confidence!
Right Action
Life is easy when we take the right action and understand others' intentions! But we always judge others' actions, failing to think about their intentions!
Father's Love
The day when you realize your father’s anger is because of your father’s greatest love is the day you were born as Father!
Good and bad
Everyone has good and bad; if you need strong relationships in life, focus on the good and correct the bad in them!
Keep God first
The more you express your love for something, the more opportunities you give to our enemies! After a few days, we stop loving it and started worrying about what our enemies will do! Remember to keep God first, rest he takes care!
Perspective
If you feel God not answering your prayer and your situation is still the same, the problem is with our perspective! Try changing your perspective today
Reconciliation
A conciliation is a daily act, but reconciliation is an emotional bonding that you like to rebuild, which can only happen after you realize your own mistakes and flaws in a relationship!
Conciliation
We do conciliation with others many times in our lifetime! But we do “reconciliation” only with whom we like to get close again!
What makes us happy
Remember we cannot make everyone happy! But the important in life is to make sure you do what makes you happy! Figure it out sooner than later!
Thought process
Remember, if you know your enemy, you should also know he would have defeated/ destroyed you by now, if not remember your power is greater than him! So change your thought process to worry about threats!
Expectations
one we love the most, Is who hurt the most in our life;
If so, stop your *expectations* and show your love; you will never get hurt!
People raise against you
When people raise against you, that’s when you move towards your purpose in life; so stop taking it personally!
Desire into greed
Desire* is the base for all our accomplishments in life, but when it becomes *Greed*, we see massive destruction in the same person’s life ; *thinking selfishly *in a relationship or family is the spark to turn desire into greed! Think!
Don’t forget
In our low God is our hope! In our weakest, God is our strength!
In our darkest phase, God is our light!
Once you get hope, strength, and light, don’t forget who gave those! God! Because human tends to forget the help received and the helper when are successful!
What is trust?
What is trust? Believing one will do anything for me? or believing he would not have done that against me? Both are different! The latter is more powerful than the former!
Remember both will fail one day! Then he will realize to trust God! 🤷♂️
Escapism
Blaming is step 1 for our escapism! But we forget same blaming will enslave us! Let’s not blame others for our weakness!
Praises and criticism
Praises and criticism are double sword knives; always be far away from people who praise, and similarly, always be away from people who criticize; both affect one’s peace!
Self-praise is more dangerous than all! Always learn to be Humble!
Patience
Patience is key to many accomplishments in life; when we are patient after asking God it increases our faith; When we are patient that increases our self-confidence; When we are patient in a relationship, increases our Love; Never lose patience in life; one day you will be rewarded
2 ways to get success
There are 2 ways to get success, one way could be speedy which builds ego within us, and another way could be slow but it makes our character! Former fails soon than later!
Our abilities
We overlook sometimes our ability to touch, feel, taste, see, hear, laugh, and love! If you have all the abilities then definitely you are blessed, so don’t misuse or lose them because of our carelessness! The problem with us is we only understand after we lose!
Stop complaining
When u have bigger dreams then you have to be on the field working 24*7 than the average person who doesn’t work all time! Stop complaining you working, others are not to get sympathy! You have to love doing what you do even when you are not interested to do! That's when you will keep chasing your dream!
How you are Identified
The world identifies you by the way you handle your failures and tough times!
You might lose many, but when you keep fighting till the end, you will be identified for what you went through! Stop giving up!
Word is powerful
When you react, your word becomes useless; but when you respond, your word becomes powerful; but sometimes being silent is more powerful! Remember, if one is silent, it's not that they don't know to react or respond!
Instability
Instability in life is not bad; it keeps you stable to walk in faith! Stop worrying and move forward in confidence!
Anxiety
Cast all your anxiety on God and humble yourself if you need to be lifted; if you raise high in pride, even God cannot lift you!
Opportunity that was rejected
The opportunity that was rejected is the first step for your next phase in life; when you realize it, you will stop worrying and start focusing on the next step to grow!
Hope is on God
When your hope is on God, whether your life goes up or down, you will stay calm and focused, irrespective of success!
Our thought
Our thought decides what is capable of us! It is essential to renew our thoughts/minds, which will change our life! So don’t allow your mind to stop your growth!
Do little things
Life becomes meaningful if we do little things that are more significant for others' life, than our success!
Leader
“The day you start working for others' success and put yourself second, you will truly have emerged as a #leader and will be #invincible”
God wakes you up
No matter what happens to you, it isn’t over yet! When God wakes you up, it means you got an action to perform and correct your mistakes, and move on to succeed!
what next
We obsessing ourselves too much about “what next” stops us from living our life at this moment!
Flaw in life
We all have a flaw in life; when we start to zoom in on others' flaws, it gets complicated! When we begin forgiving, understanding, respect each other, life becomes easy to handle!
Focus on the few
We diminish our thoughts on what is given or what we have! Stop looking or liking what others do or have! Focus on the few that you have! Remember few you have is more valuable than the many that you don’t!
Wood is burnt for good
How good wood is burnt decides how good food is getting cooked! How well you handle your pain decides how mature you are getting in life! So don’t worry that you are getting burnt or going through struggles; that’s what will keep you mature & life meaningful!
Set a hedge
Always set a hedge around the boundaries in life; guard ourselves in the way we talk, the way we behave in public, and the way we interact! When we are within limits, it safeguards us from shamefulness!
Affliction Vs Affection
When you are afflicted, you get multiplied! Afflictions do not destroy you; it gives grief to the one who waits for you to fall! When *Affliction* comes, it exposes the right person who shows *Affection*!
Commitment
Commitment begins when you trust! When it gets committed nothing can break your relationship!
Bitterness
Our blessings are stopped because of our mental bitterness! Let’s not mix old leaven with unleavened!
We have something to live for!
We have something to live for! If you think we lost a lot! Remember, you have a lot more left! Stop worrying about what is lost, focus on what is left!
Our pattern
Our pattern must be changed if we need to see the change in life! Blaming could never help you grow!
For granted
Many times we take things for granted! Each day what we learn determines who we are! yesterday’s mistakes are today's lessons and tomorrow’s reference! Focus on not repeating your mistakes!
Feelings
Don’t allow your feelings to determine your faith! Because faith changes when feeling changes! Instead, be faithful, irrespective of your feelings!
Where you started and how you started!
When you make decisions, not only consider your current circumstances but always remember where you started and how you started! That will always help you to make the right decisions!
Maintain one identity
Our identity drives our future; one sees and decides our identity based on how we behave and treat them! If one misunderstands your identity, it is easy to make them understand that you are right, but when your identity is understood as good, later, if they realize it’s wrong, it’s harder to make them trust you!
Maintain one identity against your name, which helps us in the long run!
Sincerity
Our sincerity in the small act will always add responsibility for the more significant action; let’s not worry about how we will be successful; instead, let’s focus on the next step to be sincere and obedient, then God will lift you and protects you!
face it boldly!
What happens is 10% but how we react determines the rest 90%, which defines our next step! Think before you react; if you reacted, then face it boldly!
stagnant life!
If your fear of consequence stops you from moving forward; remember, it's your first reason for stagnant life!
Thanking God
Thanking God for your failure/ struggle is more important when compared to your success! Remember you survived your failures, to taste the success that lasts for a few hours/ days!
Monday, 26 December 2022
What is wrong?
Doing wrong is always ok, the only way to learn!
Thinking always I am right is wrong, will demolish us!
Guilty
Sometimes we express our anger to loved ones in a way that makes them feel guilty; it is more dangerous than the anger we express toward our enemies!
Memory
What we do today is the memory for tomorrow; if we realize that, we never make a mistake or hate others! Because human likes to recall only the good part of life!
Be wise to listen
Be cautious about who we reprove! scorner hates and wise loves to meditate on what was told! Be wise to listen
Word
Make sure others' words do not ruin your peace; more importantly, be careful that your word shouldn't ruin others' peace!
Silent
A powerful weapon in our life is “silent”; being silent is not weak; control the temptation that makes you react! Remember, you learn more about the circumstance and the truth when you are silent!
Popcorn
Popcorn is always more costly than kernels! only when dried kernels are heated up it turns out to be popcorn! If you have to be flourished and be placed high, you have to face the struggles! Remember, kernels that fail to pop he no value! So, Don't be afraid to face your challenges!
Retrograde
Retrograde is very dangerous in life! Sometimes it’s good to take a break to recollect what went wrong!
Suffering
The difference between people who suffer and those who do not; people who suffer is the one who helps first the other suffering!
Face the world?
How do I know if I can face the world? When you face a question for which you have no answer you are bold enough to respond!
Joyful
We all have a day of prosperity and days of adversity! We can not identify when it comes but learn to be joyful when you go through prosperity and be thoughtful in your lows!
Struggle& pain!
When you get an opportunity, you get struggle/pain, too; if you are worried about the pain, there is no use in worrying about growth in life! The battle is more important than success! Success always includes 99% of struggle& pain!
Our expectations
Our expectations don't make us look excellent! If you need to excel, stop expecting and think about what you need to do next!
Stop worrying
If we worry God didn’t meet our expectations then we will never go to see his excellence in our life! we worry about today but he knows what will be tomorrow!
Opportunity knocks
Opportunity knocks very rarely but preparation is needed each day! Keep learning in life, it could be behavior, communication, way of respecting others! When your time comes grab to the fullest
Journey counts!
If you closely notice, successful people don’t celebrate their success for more than an hour. Instead, they recall and Cherish their journey to attain it! Make your journey count!
Potential
One with the greatest potential will experience the greatest pain in life! The more you trust, the greater the pain! lowest moments reveal the greatest love of your loved ones!
Your motive
If your motive is right, you will never have regrets! The right motive takes time for you to accomplish and for others to understand! It needs patience!
who are we thankful to?
who are we thankful to? friends or to our enemies! friends never will help you to reach your destiny, but your enemy will!
Arguments
Vain arguments are the distractions your enemies create; if you understand them better, your focus will never slip from your goal! Remember, healthy arguments are different from vain arguments!
Faith
Faith is not a formula for life; a formula has a step-by-step method to achieve! Faith grows when you do not know what your next step is, but your instinct says God has a way to cross!
Disrespect
If you don’t like your close relation or person's advice, comments or response, try to *disagree* but don’t *disrespect*;
Withhold your strength
Withhold your strength when you are oppressed or afflicted; being quiet is more important than expressing your power; when your time comes, God raises you to demonstrate your strength to others! The quiet period is your preparation time!
Acknowledge right one
If you have 1 person to praise there are 10 people to curse; whom you going to acknowledge in life
Perspective will always change
Our situation might look the same, but our perspective will always change! Stop assuming based on the situation and start focusing on prospects!
Know you're significant!
There is a significant reason for your success or failure; try to understand it, then you will handle it better! Know you're significant!
Let’s not assume
Let’s not assume based on how others react! what you see might be the reaction to what they are going through, that you have not seen!
Meekness
Meekness is not a weakness; learn to be meek in any circumstance that will help us to inherit what we aim for!
Struggle
Remember, when you struggle, no one will be around, but when you reach a high position, 2 will be on your side, and 10 will be standing opposite; 2 is more dangerous than 10, but be vigilant to handle all 12! Don’t forget who was with you when you had nothing(God)!
Face the problem
We always think this is our end as we go through problems but we forget that’s the start of our future! Face the problem to find your future!
Future promotions!
Your problem is not your end, fight with it, so it becomes your future promotions!
Face it!
Are we able to accept and handle the situation when people say “NO,” “Rejected,” and “unfit”!
Success can never teach you what the above three can teach in life! Face it!
Expectations
Expectations are the main reason for disappointment! I can't control what others do to me, but I can control what to expect from them! Minimize your expectation; to do so, understand what they are capable of! Let’s not blame others for your lofty expectations!
Comfortness
If you expect growth in life, don’t expect to be comfortable; comfortness makes us feel secure but no growth!
Stiff
When your life is like a full-stop or period(.), try to bend yourself before God, so you can see your life becomes a “comma”, get up and continue towards your goal! don't be stiff; when you bend you win! Be (,) not (.)👍
Stop expecting perfection
Sometimes we think we have to dismiss a few people from our life, but remember, if you dismiss everyone who mistreated you, you will have nobody around! So stop expecting perfection from others, and realize even we are imperfect in their eye! Pettiness keeps us always in dark!
Pettiness
It’s not our enemy holding us back, it’s our pettiness holding us back! As we get stuck in the imagination of the results and are not strong enough to realize our position
Mirror
Stop sharing your vision with others! If God gives you a vision it’s for you to hold on to it! But remember you can look for advice or feedback from others that will help you prepare yourself for your vision
People around might come and go, just stay and think good, to the person who you see in the mirror!
U-turn
Don’t worry about how long you traveled in the wrong direction; When you realize it's the wrong direction, take a U-turn immediately and start traveling towards the right destination! Stop worrying, stop overthinking, and keep it as simple as that, take a U-turn!
Our preference fails
God doesn’t give something based on our preference, but he gives it in our life based on its purpose! So if our plan fails, we never know if it is good or not! But remember, our failed plans 99% later made us feel right about the failure!
Third-person standpoint
When you face pain, try to approach it sometimes from the third-person standpoint, your solution could be easily derived
Our endurance
Our endurance is directly proportional to our love; if we love more, we endure more than others! for us to sustain in life, we need more endurance that comes through love🙏
Love makes us endure!
sometimes, if we lost our love for others, we cannot tolerate their reactions; love makes us endure!
Peacemaker
Be a peacemaker; our presence should bring in peace; if not, whatever you do, you don’t see the blessings or improvement in life; let’s not be the person who is bringing antagonism!
Iignore and move on!
Most of the time, the mind says that you have to prove you are right to people who said you are wrong, but when you experience it for some time, you will hear a voice from your heart saying, ignore and move on! So, life is nothing to prove. Just do what is right! God deals the rest!
Control emotions
Oscar! 99% world says A is wrong! The other 1% says he was tempted because it was about his wife! 100% world said he is the best hero for 2022( for his past acting), and 90% of his contract are halted for the future! It’s all the outcome of 1-sec action! Personally important lesson “yes you or your loved ones are insulted in public or meetings or team, anywhere, if it is more than 2 people your reaction has more importance! Learn to control emotions.
Humility or ego?
What do we express the most, humility or ego? Sometimes it is good to self-realize! Always one thing to remember, the difference that makes you more significant in any position is that what you know is just 1% more than others! The day your ego comes out, you will see someone taking over that 1 %!
Stop grieving
Don’t let your grief take away your happiness; it’s not over yet. Stop grieving and start looking for your good!
Pray more!
When you are at the highs of your life, that’s when you need to talk less, interact with people less, and pray more!
Perfect time
Let’s remember that God always knows us more than anyone, he will place everything in order at the perfect time when we need it! Don’t waste time on worries, the past, and thinking of the future!
Forget
Forget what hurts you, but never forget what it taught!
Forgiveness is step 1 to forgetting what is hurting us!
Discipline
When we try to be disciplined, it changes into desire! Once it becomes more desirable, it urges to make you do it without fail!
Stop asking How?
Ask ! Believe ! Receive!
Ask what you need! Believe what you ask!
Receive what you believed!
Finally, Stop asking How? It’s God’s job!
LetGo
We need more ability and willingness to LetGo a few things in life to see new things! Don’t keep holding that stopping your growth!
2 ways to live life
There are 2 ways to live life,
1. Born blessed with wisdom, and treasures, after a certain period forgetting the source who blessed and ending in suffering and life becomes a tragedy! (Solomon)
2. Suffering initially, getting blessed holding on to it as he realizes the pain of suffering and who blesses him more than the blessings till the end!
how we start doesn’t matter but how we end is! because it’s in our hands to end right!
Root
We could have spent years growing but one day everything could vanish as a tree; Remember, only the visible wealth is lost not the root; if you have even very small faith & confidence in yourself, you could be better fruit (person) in life than before! Finally, make sure the root(your trust) is always holding water(God) in it!
Covenant
When we made a Covenant, we should never break, how tougher the situation turns too! if we fail, that would be the starting point of our fall! Remember, never get into a covenant, when you are not clear!
Coaches
Coaches are paid to correct us; we are the ones who perform but if we fail to listen to corrections said, we fail; corrections are important for our growth! we could be masters but when we listen and correct ourselves, we grow in the right direction! Decide who is our coach & who we listen to!
Expectations, asking & giving!
Be clear on expectations, asking & giving! When we ask, we receive it! When we give, both get blessed! But the expectation is within ourselves, we never expose ourselves to others what we expect which always makes us frustrated! One of the best ways to avoid frustration is to learn to give and ask what they need, but never be blindfolded in expecting!
Humble
caste your pr”i”de , anx”i”ety and “H”umble yourself! If we remove pride(I), anxiety disappears! “I” is like a stiff neck, but “H” is like 2 I’s(2 people) joined to deliver! Never forget the others who helped you!
Have faith in God!
Don't let your heart be troubled! Stop worrying, don’t be confused!
Have faith in God! he will show you the path!
what we speak?
We are good until we are silent but when we open our mouths, each word that we speak determines who we are! Communication matters a lot! So keep your thoughts right, if so you end up speaking/ communicating right!
Our choice should be to perceive
If Our focus is on obstacles we will be facing obstacles. Our choice should be to perceive
Everything is not perfect
Everything is not perfect, we do have a bad days in life but remember you have overcome many bad days in the past, if God can make you overcome in past, he can make you overcome this one as well! Never quit!
Perception
Our decisions are based on our perception, but we fail to include current and future circumstances as part of our perception, which ends us to feel regret later part of life!
Right attitude
when we have the right attitude, we get the fortitude to deal with any circumstances in life! being gratitude is the base!
Stop Overthinking
Stop Overthinking, when we start thinking about what others think about us or thinking about everything that happened in past, or anxious about the future just creates depression! Rest everything on God and move on in life, watch your next step alone!
remember the day 1 love
When you always remember the love we had on day 1 which will keep your relationship stronger than ever because it never judges, expect, ego, jealousy, etc! Never allow our intermittent emotions to spoil our life! Remember everyone who lost the relationship remembers only the day 1 love, not the intermittent struggles! Better to fix the relationship than lose it!
Preparation is the base!
Opportunities knock on our door, but the question is are we prepared to receive them? Preparation is the base! God gives you the opportunity but if we are not prepared it becomes misfortune!
Never become tired during the preparation phase!
Scars
Scars remind us of our past struggles and wounds that we came through! Never hide your scars, that proves we are not perfect but God is!
Blaming is a weapon
Blaming has been a weapon to escape from our situation that we are not comfortable with! Soon we become a slave to it. Instead let us hold ourselves responsible for what we commit, which will teach us the best lessons in life!
Change our focus!
We cannot change our feeling, but we can change our focus! when we change our focus, faith increases, which elevates our confidence level which in turn changes our feeling! Where is our focus matter, in God or in our talents?
Lucky vs Blessed
When god answers our prayers, we are lucky, when God doesn't answer our prayers we are blessed! Read again, think, what would you be now if he listened to all our prayers 🤷♂️
Why we fall?
We are always cautious about big things in our life, but we fall because of our slight indifference, anger, irritation, small misunderstanding, and mistakes! One small dead fly will stink up the entire essential oil!
In any circumstance, be patient!
Right things always take time!
Right things always take time! Remember right thing to do is not easy! But if you get used to easy things it’s not always right! Always remember to do what is right for you!
Our Intentions
Doing good or helping others is always right until we don’t have the intention to benefit from it! Our Intentions decide our action steps!
Elevation in life
There is a purpose for your elevation in life from God, no matter what happened in the past, but there are two ways to end in the future, 1. If we change ourselves from the past and become humble, we get recognized 2. If we get conceited, we will be overlooked one day! The best part is both options are in our hands to select!
Thanksgiving
Nothing can be given free to others without having hidden expectations! But one thing we can provide which we never expect back that’s “Thanksgiving “!
Bad mood, stay silent
When you are in a bad mood, stay away from everyone; stay silent! Mood can change, but the words spoken cannot be reverted!
Our Thoughts
Whatever may be the situation, if your thoughts are good and right, you never get depressed or make wrong decisions!
Teach your kids to be strong
Tough time creates a strong person! A strong person finds easy ways!
The easy way creates a weak person! A weak person faces tough times!
Teach our kids tough times, not the easy, luxurious life!
Just think about how we grew; you will get an answer!
Weeds and Crops
Weeds and crops grow together; weeds grow taller, more robust, and fresh than crops; but remember, the owner(God)will remove one-day weeds(enemies), but crops will be harvested!
Everything works for good!
Many things that we go through now might not look good but don’t forget everything works for good!
Never expects it in return
If you do good, make sure 3rd person never knows it and never expects it in return! If you do it, you will be protected from your troubles!
2 faces of life
Everyone has 2 faces failure and success! People who see the failure face never see the success part and people who see the success face never see the failure part! The person who faces both treats others with a smiling face!
Waiting build's character
Waiting is frustrating and we all hate it, but when you realize God keeps you waiting for years because that’s the period your character is built!
key to surviving
Offer praise to God in the midst of your battle; that’s the key to surviving till the end!
Do better things in life
Whatever we do, if we realize, what we do brings glory to God! We do better things in life!
I
Always remember not to say that I/me was successful but there is 1 soul praying for you, 1 soul guiding you, and 1 soul mentoring you! So don’t lose them in life!
Be a person who deserves
Be a person who deserves to receive it, not the one who needs it! Everyone has needs but only those who deserve to receive them!
What drives us ?
What drives us determines the direction of life! So always check what drives/motivate us! Could be money & pride or attention & humbleness & generosity etc..
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