Authenticity is essential in life; it’s tough, but once you build it, you will always have someone to help. But if you fail to do so, even if you keep repeating the truth, no one will be ready to listen!
Thursday, 31 March 2022
Bitterness vs Betterness
one who stands with you in your bitterness, uphold him during your betterness!
Struggle
We might have everything we need in life but there will be one struggle that you go through that will keep you in control! you will realize that control is good later part of life when you walk and live humble! Sometimes good to have a struggle because it teaches you more than success!
Don't react immediately, wait to respond
The recent Oscar incident again reminds me of “ don't react immediately, wait to respond, “ which is must needed quality to learn! Because we are controlled more by emotions! Even if it's Your opponent's mistake, learn to respond!
Lot to learn 🙏
Don't miss what you love
Everything you love comes along with the part you dislike/ pain/ stress etc. If you run away thinking about the part you don't like, then you will be missing what you love;
Skilled person
If you like to be a skilled person, then don't expect a smooth career; a captain has nothing to learn/ act if the sea is smooth and calm to sail a ship!
Words
Be careful with your words; it is more powerful than a fire; if your words make a wound, it can be healed, but when it becomes scars, it remains forever!
Esteem others
When you esteem others better than you, your esteem grows automatically; stop being strife necked or self praised in life!
Forgiveness
If we say we forgive a person but still that anger, pain, hurt runs in our heart and mind, it means we realize we have never forgiven them! Real forgiveness is to let what hurt us or the pain we went through go away, which will keep you moving to the next level than who you forgive!
Easy to say, but tough to even think how to follow it! Forgive formula is to forget but remember the lesson learned!
Pride in Mind
When we say we need to be humble in life, if we need to be, it needs to start by “*stop having pride in Mind!”*
Turn back moment
Every one of us has a moment to go forward or give up; a “turn back moment” in life, That pushes you further, if you are going to keep fighting, you will reach your goal one day, but if you give up/ quit, you are going to go far away from it! So, turn back to realize how far you traveled that will push you to the next step!
Life Values
Don't leave more wealth to your kids; instead, leave more IN them on life values; they go out to make double the portion of what you planned! Life is all about what we teach and how we behave in front of kids than the bank balance!
Betray is common
Don't trust that some are never going to betray you. But trust, if they do, you can handle it! That's more important than worrying and wasting time! So it's all based on the timing and situation that makes trust get betrayed!
If Jesus was betrayed, we are not exempted!
Why does it happen? Normally for power/money but the main reason is “insecurity” of your presence!
God gives us grace
God gives us grace, but we think we are wiser than God and try to accomplish what is beyond our situation and end up in trouble! So always remember to live within the blessings God has given and be humble!
Trust God
Trust God; then trust yourself! The remaining all will fall in place on time but don't stop, do what you have to perform!
Beyond the repairs
Life can never become “Beyond the repairs”; it's all about how we approach it; it becomes complicated when we are not checking or searching for Restoration steps!
Raise Stronger
It can take a day, years, decades but your goal is to raise again stronger! It takes Chinese bamboo 5 years to see its growth!
Keep working towards your goal
If you work towards your goal, you will need to face the challenge and shame; that does not mean it’s over; remember, the sun rises again, so stop tripping in the middle of your process!
Enemy attack
The easy way enemy attack by increasing your desire; if you fall prey to it, you need to face the consequence! Be aware!
Secret pleasure
when you realize people get a secret pleasure from your failure and struggle! Allow them to go through!
Keep the mind in control
If we fail to keep the mind in our control, the mind will control you for which you are not ready! Mostly you will realize it after it happens in life!
A true friend
A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths, feels your fears but fortifies your faith, sees your anxieties but frees your spirit, recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities! - #johnmaxwell
You will
The one who says “you can't” and “ you won't” are the ones who predicted “you will “ do it! It's a sad, scary truth!
Differentiate between people
People might have the desire, but only those who love and care will be concerned about you! So, be careful to differentiate between people who desire and are concerned about you!
Be kind
“ Just because someone carries it well doesn't mean it isn't heavy!“
what you see and what they go through never match! So, be kind!
Highlights
Highlights are interesting to watch, but the problem is we forget the match is not won based on 5 mins highlights! Don’t judge a person based on his 5 mins speech! There could be years of hard work!
Monday, 14 March 2022
Feeling insecure
If you feel insecure, the problem is not with the person who stands in front of you; it’s in you! So correct/learn/practice what is needed to be secure within you! If you feel confident, you will be bold enough to face who stands in front of you! Insecurity starts within us!
prestige
Don’t let your prestige decide or end your future! If God gives you an opportunity, focus and makes use of it; instead, we ignore and keep waiting and say waiting for a better one that fits my prestige! The opportunity once lost is lost forever! Remember always a small opportunity can bring greater prestige in life!
Stop Quitting
If you are struggling and you know you are right! If you are ready to quit, remember there is something possible always, when you have hope and fight for it! Don’t give up if you are right!
Learn to be calm!
When things are going well, learn to be calm! Never think you are top of the world, be wary always! Everything can be dismantled easily one day! Thank God and do your duties!
Go through the pain
Strive to go through the pain to reach where you desire! If you are lazy to face the pain, stop blaming others and God!
Thankful heart
When you forget the benefits, you received when you struggle, your heart gets lifted up once you reach high positions and power, and you lose your thankful heart! It’s like we are inviting God’s wrath on us!
Let’s always remember where we started; it will keep you thankful for what you are now!
The finest lawn soonest stains
If you are getting hit badly in life, review if you were getting hit because you were doing good; if so, find a way to do more!
“The finest lawn soonest stains.”
Fail to learn
Don't always expect your children to win or be successful. One day when you are not around, if they fail, they suffer miserably. So when you are with them, if they fail, allow them to face it and go through the path of struggle, and you guide them to overcome; that's how they learn! Success doesn't teach what life is! Success is good but not always!
Mean & Mind
Always say what you mean and mean what you say! because Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!
The parent
The parent is not the one who gives whatever a child asks; instead, they should be Giving what is needed for the child! The child should be in parents' control, but it became reverse now, which is dangerous for the child, which they realize after it went out of their control!
Humble
If you are humble, you get exalted, but if you exalt, you get degradation! God is the only person to exalt! How do you humble? First, we need to do what we expect from others!
Happy women's day
Who can bear maximum pain in life; Who can face any circumstances in life;
Who can still laugh in public irrespective of issues running in mind; Who can do multitasking 100% perfect; Who can build a family to be successful even starting from zero;
That's only possible by her! Nothing comes easy for her, but when she receives a reward/something, she shares it with dad/ husband/brother/ son. They just expect only Respect!
Happy women's day! 🙏
Stop Worrying
Standing on a thorn, while knife hanging around the neck, he still making decisions for his country! Your problem doesn’t even match it, so stop worrying and start finding answers!
Silence
In a relationship, It is good to be silent and Sometimes not react to the situations because it could worsen others more! good to stop stressing the truth that hurt them! Remember your silence or truth you stop stressing will be realized by them one day! It could take months/years/decades! Truth is a truth that will never diminish!
Power in position
When we grow higher in the power position, we suddenly turn back to ask people, who can question me now? That arrogance and pride is the starting point of our destruction which makes our hearts deceived! Gaurd your tongue and mainly the heart!
God's plan
One thing that we never able to understand is God's plan! Don’t rebel with it! The bigger problem is we don’t know which one is God's plan!
Understanding Vs Misunderstanding
If one understands and others misunderstand the same person, then remember it’s a thin layer of difference; what you know to understand them, that they do not know!
Stop sharing
Stop sharing everything about you with others! People react to what you share instead of treating you better!
Loyalty
Loyalty expires if your status changes! True loyalty withstands even during adversity! Loyalty doesn’t establish between people in recent days, which is sad to see!
Render(Do) your duties
Render(Do) your duties: pay your tribute and custom to whom it is due; fear whom you need to fear; honor whom you need to honor.
Commit
Important quality everyone looks upon others “ is he doing what he commits! “ don’t commit until you are 100% clear on what you are going to commit!
Man Success starts from Home
If a man has to be successful in the world, his first support should start from his home; if he is very successful outside but no support and peace in his home, no use everything will be wasted!
Assumptions
What you see when you meet a person is your assumptions about them, based on your 4 to 10 mins conversation experience! But they have challenges and hardships running behind them!
Value when you lose
We do no the value of what/ whom we have until we lose it/them! So first listen/understand what they go through before reacting to them!
Qualifications
We are disqualified by Our qualifications but when you practice and prepare yourself, God uses you in a mighty way!
Stop pretending
If we keep pretending, we delay our next course of action, and it prolongs our suffering, so accept your situation and move on!
Dream has a purpose
If God gives you a dream, it should have a purpose that pushes you to achieve it! It needs your commitment with consistency! Don’t get crushed in failure!
Parents sacrifice
If you thank God for what you are now is because of your parent's sacrifice and prayer, now it’s time to sacrifice and pray God for your children!
True Leader suffers when people suffer
A person who suffers more, when his family/team/ country suffers is the true leader!
A person who suffers more when his team/ country suffers is the true leader! He stands at the last row during success and first during failure/suffering etc.
The leader is not the one who dictates! He leads his people, and when there is an issue, he stands first to face it! later in life, we regret most of the time for the only reason “we didn’t try even once”;
Do not be discouraged
Do not be discouraged/ disappointed for the mistakes you made or the pain you go through for which you are not the reason! Focus on steps to correct your mistakes and overcome the pain! Nothing we gain by worrying! Have God as your strength!
Decisions
Some of the decisions we make are due to mere pressure from surrounding people; 99% of it goes against us. Remember, consequences will be faced by us, not our surroundings! Let your decision be wise!
Temptation
Temptation is the invitation sent by the people Who like to see your phase of failure; if you are attracted, then be ready to face the uncalculated risk
Believe
Stop being an unbeliever; believe in God, who has given a purpose; believe in you to find that purpose! Faith over fear!
Pot Life
If we need to make a pot, we need to mold the clay well! if our life has to be perfect, then our character gets molded by going through the path of problems, tribulations, and pain
I - the killer!
When you do your duty, there is nothing to be proud of! Avoid saying “I” did it! that will make you feel superior! So be thankful to God, who has given you the opportunity to deliver! Just focus on the duty!
Behavior
Your behavior drives your identity; if you make one mistake, even after years, it always comes to mind as an identity when they see you! thinks twice before reacting, but always good to respond!
Not to worry for a critic
Sometimes who does nothing will be good when compared to who does something gets criticized
No means No
No means No: No is not a word it’s a sentence: No means not interested to discuss further
One wrong move!
Be proud for being patient; No use in worrying after taking one wrong move! It’s better to wait than lose!
Heart is like a water
Worst experience but a better lesson, water(heart), when it comes down as snow even for two days we are good to stay calm and chill, but when same turns hard and hits you for 2 minutes, that’s a nightmare! The heart is like water; keep your heart lite always, if it becomes harder tough to survive long!
Stop Worrying!
One thing that stops you perform, thinking, and succeeding is worry! you need to realize that not going to help us in any way, that’s the only way to stop worrying!
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