Unless we make ourselves available, we cannot expect God’s promise to be fulfilled in our life
Saturday, 31 December 2022
Experience
There is no teacher who can teach you like an experience can in life! Lots of failures and betrayals are the main lessons of your experience!.
Focus on what brings blessings
Sometimes we have to forget and move on; What we lost and what others spoke about us is good to forget so you can focus on what brings blessings to our life!
Idea that is good
If you have an idea that is good for you and others, try it! Because the best thing you can do is only when you want to do it!
You cannot buy respect
You cannot buy respect or make people respect you! Care comes from how you influence their life!
Intentions
Keep your intentions right and pure; if you lose someone for that, it's not your mistake or loss!
Be comfortable being uncomfortable
Be comfortable being uncomfortable; that will keep you pushing to the next level!
Someone's accomplishments
Don’t get amazed by seeing someone's accomplishments; you can try to understand their success path, but when you start getting amazed about others, you start losing your confidence!
Right Action
Life is easy when we take the right action and understand others' intentions! But we always judge others' actions, failing to think about their intentions!
Father's Love
The day when you realize your father’s anger is because of your father’s greatest love is the day you were born as Father!
Good and bad
Everyone has good and bad; if you need strong relationships in life, focus on the good and correct the bad in them!
Keep God first
The more you express your love for something, the more opportunities you give to our enemies! After a few days, we stop loving it and started worrying about what our enemies will do! Remember to keep God first, rest he takes care!
Perspective
If you feel God not answering your prayer and your situation is still the same, the problem is with our perspective! Try changing your perspective today
Reconciliation
A conciliation is a daily act, but reconciliation is an emotional bonding that you like to rebuild, which can only happen after you realize your own mistakes and flaws in a relationship!
Conciliation
We do conciliation with others many times in our lifetime! But we do “reconciliation” only with whom we like to get close again!
What makes us happy
Remember we cannot make everyone happy! But the important in life is to make sure you do what makes you happy! Figure it out sooner than later!
Thought process
Remember, if you know your enemy, you should also know he would have defeated/ destroyed you by now, if not remember your power is greater than him! So change your thought process to worry about threats!
Expectations
one we love the most, Is who hurt the most in our life;
If so, stop your *expectations* and show your love; you will never get hurt!
People raise against you
When people raise against you, that’s when you move towards your purpose in life; so stop taking it personally!
Desire into greed
Desire* is the base for all our accomplishments in life, but when it becomes *Greed*, we see massive destruction in the same person’s life ; *thinking selfishly *in a relationship or family is the spark to turn desire into greed! Think!
Don’t forget
In our low God is our hope! In our weakest, God is our strength!
In our darkest phase, God is our light!
Once you get hope, strength, and light, don’t forget who gave those! God! Because human tends to forget the help received and the helper when are successful!
What is trust?
What is trust? Believing one will do anything for me? or believing he would not have done that against me? Both are different! The latter is more powerful than the former!
Remember both will fail one day! Then he will realize to trust God! 🤷♂️
Escapism
Blaming is step 1 for our escapism! But we forget same blaming will enslave us! Let’s not blame others for our weakness!
Praises and criticism
Praises and criticism are double sword knives; always be far away from people who praise, and similarly, always be away from people who criticize; both affect one’s peace!
Self-praise is more dangerous than all! Always learn to be Humble!
Patience
Patience is key to many accomplishments in life; when we are patient after asking God it increases our faith; When we are patient that increases our self-confidence; When we are patient in a relationship, increases our Love; Never lose patience in life; one day you will be rewarded
2 ways to get success
There are 2 ways to get success, one way could be speedy which builds ego within us, and another way could be slow but it makes our character! Former fails soon than later!
Our abilities
We overlook sometimes our ability to touch, feel, taste, see, hear, laugh, and love! If you have all the abilities then definitely you are blessed, so don’t misuse or lose them because of our carelessness! The problem with us is we only understand after we lose!
Stop complaining
When u have bigger dreams then you have to be on the field working 24*7 than the average person who doesn’t work all time! Stop complaining you working, others are not to get sympathy! You have to love doing what you do even when you are not interested to do! That's when you will keep chasing your dream!
How you are Identified
The world identifies you by the way you handle your failures and tough times!
You might lose many, but when you keep fighting till the end, you will be identified for what you went through! Stop giving up!
Word is powerful
When you react, your word becomes useless; but when you respond, your word becomes powerful; but sometimes being silent is more powerful! Remember, if one is silent, it's not that they don't know to react or respond!
Instability
Instability in life is not bad; it keeps you stable to walk in faith! Stop worrying and move forward in confidence!
Anxiety
Cast all your anxiety on God and humble yourself if you need to be lifted; if you raise high in pride, even God cannot lift you!
Opportunity that was rejected
The opportunity that was rejected is the first step for your next phase in life; when you realize it, you will stop worrying and start focusing on the next step to grow!
Hope is on God
When your hope is on God, whether your life goes up or down, you will stay calm and focused, irrespective of success!
Our thought
Our thought decides what is capable of us! It is essential to renew our thoughts/minds, which will change our life! So don’t allow your mind to stop your growth!
Do little things
Life becomes meaningful if we do little things that are more significant for others' life, than our success!
Leader
“The day you start working for others' success and put yourself second, you will truly have emerged as a #leader and will be #invincible”
God wakes you up
No matter what happens to you, it isn’t over yet! When God wakes you up, it means you got an action to perform and correct your mistakes, and move on to succeed!
what next
We obsessing ourselves too much about “what next” stops us from living our life at this moment!
Flaw in life
We all have a flaw in life; when we start to zoom in on others' flaws, it gets complicated! When we begin forgiving, understanding, respect each other, life becomes easy to handle!
Focus on the few
We diminish our thoughts on what is given or what we have! Stop looking or liking what others do or have! Focus on the few that you have! Remember few you have is more valuable than the many that you don’t!
Wood is burnt for good
How good wood is burnt decides how good food is getting cooked! How well you handle your pain decides how mature you are getting in life! So don’t worry that you are getting burnt or going through struggles; that’s what will keep you mature & life meaningful!
Set a hedge
Always set a hedge around the boundaries in life; guard ourselves in the way we talk, the way we behave in public, and the way we interact! When we are within limits, it safeguards us from shamefulness!
Affliction Vs Affection
When you are afflicted, you get multiplied! Afflictions do not destroy you; it gives grief to the one who waits for you to fall! When *Affliction* comes, it exposes the right person who shows *Affection*!
Commitment
Commitment begins when you trust! When it gets committed nothing can break your relationship!
Bitterness
Our blessings are stopped because of our mental bitterness! Let’s not mix old leaven with unleavened!
We have something to live for!
We have something to live for! If you think we lost a lot! Remember, you have a lot more left! Stop worrying about what is lost, focus on what is left!
Our pattern
Our pattern must be changed if we need to see the change in life! Blaming could never help you grow!
For granted
Many times we take things for granted! Each day what we learn determines who we are! yesterday’s mistakes are today's lessons and tomorrow’s reference! Focus on not repeating your mistakes!
Feelings
Don’t allow your feelings to determine your faith! Because faith changes when feeling changes! Instead, be faithful, irrespective of your feelings!
Where you started and how you started!
When you make decisions, not only consider your current circumstances but always remember where you started and how you started! That will always help you to make the right decisions!
Maintain one identity
Our identity drives our future; one sees and decides our identity based on how we behave and treat them! If one misunderstands your identity, it is easy to make them understand that you are right, but when your identity is understood as good, later, if they realize it’s wrong, it’s harder to make them trust you!
Maintain one identity against your name, which helps us in the long run!
Sincerity
Our sincerity in the small act will always add responsibility for the more significant action; let’s not worry about how we will be successful; instead, let’s focus on the next step to be sincere and obedient, then God will lift you and protects you!
face it boldly!
What happens is 10% but how we react determines the rest 90%, which defines our next step! Think before you react; if you reacted, then face it boldly!
stagnant life!
If your fear of consequence stops you from moving forward; remember, it's your first reason for stagnant life!
Thanking God
Thanking God for your failure/ struggle is more important when compared to your success! Remember you survived your failures, to taste the success that lasts for a few hours/ days!
Monday, 26 December 2022
What is wrong?
Doing wrong is always ok, the only way to learn!
Thinking always I am right is wrong, will demolish us!
Guilty
Sometimes we express our anger to loved ones in a way that makes them feel guilty; it is more dangerous than the anger we express toward our enemies!
Memory
What we do today is the memory for tomorrow; if we realize that, we never make a mistake or hate others! Because human likes to recall only the good part of life!
Be wise to listen
Be cautious about who we reprove! scorner hates and wise loves to meditate on what was told! Be wise to listen
Word
Make sure others' words do not ruin your peace; more importantly, be careful that your word shouldn't ruin others' peace!
Silent
A powerful weapon in our life is “silent”; being silent is not weak; control the temptation that makes you react! Remember, you learn more about the circumstance and the truth when you are silent!
Popcorn
Popcorn is always more costly than kernels! only when dried kernels are heated up it turns out to be popcorn! If you have to be flourished and be placed high, you have to face the struggles! Remember, kernels that fail to pop he no value! So, Don't be afraid to face your challenges!
Retrograde
Retrograde is very dangerous in life! Sometimes it’s good to take a break to recollect what went wrong!
Suffering
The difference between people who suffer and those who do not; people who suffer is the one who helps first the other suffering!
Face the world?
How do I know if I can face the world? When you face a question for which you have no answer you are bold enough to respond!
Joyful
We all have a day of prosperity and days of adversity! We can not identify when it comes but learn to be joyful when you go through prosperity and be thoughtful in your lows!
Struggle& pain!
When you get an opportunity, you get struggle/pain, too; if you are worried about the pain, there is no use in worrying about growth in life! The battle is more important than success! Success always includes 99% of struggle& pain!
Our expectations
Our expectations don't make us look excellent! If you need to excel, stop expecting and think about what you need to do next!
Stop worrying
If we worry God didn’t meet our expectations then we will never go to see his excellence in our life! we worry about today but he knows what will be tomorrow!
Opportunity knocks
Opportunity knocks very rarely but preparation is needed each day! Keep learning in life, it could be behavior, communication, way of respecting others! When your time comes grab to the fullest
Journey counts!
If you closely notice, successful people don’t celebrate their success for more than an hour. Instead, they recall and Cherish their journey to attain it! Make your journey count!
Potential
One with the greatest potential will experience the greatest pain in life! The more you trust, the greater the pain! lowest moments reveal the greatest love of your loved ones!
Your motive
If your motive is right, you will never have regrets! The right motive takes time for you to accomplish and for others to understand! It needs patience!
who are we thankful to?
who are we thankful to? friends or to our enemies! friends never will help you to reach your destiny, but your enemy will!
Arguments
Vain arguments are the distractions your enemies create; if you understand them better, your focus will never slip from your goal! Remember, healthy arguments are different from vain arguments!
Faith
Faith is not a formula for life; a formula has a step-by-step method to achieve! Faith grows when you do not know what your next step is, but your instinct says God has a way to cross!
Disrespect
If you don’t like your close relation or person's advice, comments or response, try to *disagree* but don’t *disrespect*;
Withhold your strength
Withhold your strength when you are oppressed or afflicted; being quiet is more important than expressing your power; when your time comes, God raises you to demonstrate your strength to others! The quiet period is your preparation time!
Acknowledge right one
If you have 1 person to praise there are 10 people to curse; whom you going to acknowledge in life
Perspective will always change
Our situation might look the same, but our perspective will always change! Stop assuming based on the situation and start focusing on prospects!
Know you're significant!
There is a significant reason for your success or failure; try to understand it, then you will handle it better! Know you're significant!
Let’s not assume
Let’s not assume based on how others react! what you see might be the reaction to what they are going through, that you have not seen!
Meekness
Meekness is not a weakness; learn to be meek in any circumstance that will help us to inherit what we aim for!
Struggle
Remember, when you struggle, no one will be around, but when you reach a high position, 2 will be on your side, and 10 will be standing opposite; 2 is more dangerous than 10, but be vigilant to handle all 12! Don’t forget who was with you when you had nothing(God)!
Face the problem
We always think this is our end as we go through problems but we forget that’s the start of our future! Face the problem to find your future!
Future promotions!
Your problem is not your end, fight with it, so it becomes your future promotions!
Face it!
Are we able to accept and handle the situation when people say “NO,” “Rejected,” and “unfit”!
Success can never teach you what the above three can teach in life! Face it!
Expectations
Expectations are the main reason for disappointment! I can't control what others do to me, but I can control what to expect from them! Minimize your expectation; to do so, understand what they are capable of! Let’s not blame others for your lofty expectations!
Comfortness
If you expect growth in life, don’t expect to be comfortable; comfortness makes us feel secure but no growth!
Stiff
When your life is like a full-stop or period(.), try to bend yourself before God, so you can see your life becomes a “comma”, get up and continue towards your goal! don't be stiff; when you bend you win! Be (,) not (.)👍
Stop expecting perfection
Sometimes we think we have to dismiss a few people from our life, but remember, if you dismiss everyone who mistreated you, you will have nobody around! So stop expecting perfection from others, and realize even we are imperfect in their eye! Pettiness keeps us always in dark!
Pettiness
It’s not our enemy holding us back, it’s our pettiness holding us back! As we get stuck in the imagination of the results and are not strong enough to realize our position
Mirror
Stop sharing your vision with others! If God gives you a vision it’s for you to hold on to it! But remember you can look for advice or feedback from others that will help you prepare yourself for your vision
People around might come and go, just stay and think good, to the person who you see in the mirror!
U-turn
Don’t worry about how long you traveled in the wrong direction; When you realize it's the wrong direction, take a U-turn immediately and start traveling towards the right destination! Stop worrying, stop overthinking, and keep it as simple as that, take a U-turn!
Our preference fails
God doesn’t give something based on our preference, but he gives it in our life based on its purpose! So if our plan fails, we never know if it is good or not! But remember, our failed plans 99% later made us feel right about the failure!
Third-person standpoint
When you face pain, try to approach it sometimes from the third-person standpoint, your solution could be easily derived
Our endurance
Our endurance is directly proportional to our love; if we love more, we endure more than others! for us to sustain in life, we need more endurance that comes through love🙏
Love makes us endure!
sometimes, if we lost our love for others, we cannot tolerate their reactions; love makes us endure!
Peacemaker
Be a peacemaker; our presence should bring in peace; if not, whatever you do, you don’t see the blessings or improvement in life; let’s not be the person who is bringing antagonism!
Iignore and move on!
Most of the time, the mind says that you have to prove you are right to people who said you are wrong, but when you experience it for some time, you will hear a voice from your heart saying, ignore and move on! So, life is nothing to prove. Just do what is right! God deals the rest!
Control emotions
Oscar! 99% world says A is wrong! The other 1% says he was tempted because it was about his wife! 100% world said he is the best hero for 2022( for his past acting), and 90% of his contract are halted for the future! It’s all the outcome of 1-sec action! Personally important lesson “yes you or your loved ones are insulted in public or meetings or team, anywhere, if it is more than 2 people your reaction has more importance! Learn to control emotions.
Humility or ego?
What do we express the most, humility or ego? Sometimes it is good to self-realize! Always one thing to remember, the difference that makes you more significant in any position is that what you know is just 1% more than others! The day your ego comes out, you will see someone taking over that 1 %!
Stop grieving
Don’t let your grief take away your happiness; it’s not over yet. Stop grieving and start looking for your good!
Pray more!
When you are at the highs of your life, that’s when you need to talk less, interact with people less, and pray more!
Perfect time
Let’s remember that God always knows us more than anyone, he will place everything in order at the perfect time when we need it! Don’t waste time on worries, the past, and thinking of the future!
Forget
Forget what hurts you, but never forget what it taught!
Forgiveness is step 1 to forgetting what is hurting us!
Discipline
When we try to be disciplined, it changes into desire! Once it becomes more desirable, it urges to make you do it without fail!
Stop asking How?
Ask ! Believe ! Receive!
Ask what you need! Believe what you ask!
Receive what you believed!
Finally, Stop asking How? It’s God’s job!
LetGo
We need more ability and willingness to LetGo a few things in life to see new things! Don’t keep holding that stopping your growth!
2 ways to live life
There are 2 ways to live life,
1. Born blessed with wisdom, and treasures, after a certain period forgetting the source who blessed and ending in suffering and life becomes a tragedy! (Solomon)
2. Suffering initially, getting blessed holding on to it as he realizes the pain of suffering and who blesses him more than the blessings till the end!
how we start doesn’t matter but how we end is! because it’s in our hands to end right!
Root
We could have spent years growing but one day everything could vanish as a tree; Remember, only the visible wealth is lost not the root; if you have even very small faith & confidence in yourself, you could be better fruit (person) in life than before! Finally, make sure the root(your trust) is always holding water(God) in it!
Covenant
When we made a Covenant, we should never break, how tougher the situation turns too! if we fail, that would be the starting point of our fall! Remember, never get into a covenant, when you are not clear!
Coaches
Coaches are paid to correct us; we are the ones who perform but if we fail to listen to corrections said, we fail; corrections are important for our growth! we could be masters but when we listen and correct ourselves, we grow in the right direction! Decide who is our coach & who we listen to!
Expectations, asking & giving!
Be clear on expectations, asking & giving! When we ask, we receive it! When we give, both get blessed! But the expectation is within ourselves, we never expose ourselves to others what we expect which always makes us frustrated! One of the best ways to avoid frustration is to learn to give and ask what they need, but never be blindfolded in expecting!
Humble
caste your pr”i”de , anx”i”ety and “H”umble yourself! If we remove pride(I), anxiety disappears! “I” is like a stiff neck, but “H” is like 2 I’s(2 people) joined to deliver! Never forget the others who helped you!
Have faith in God!
Don't let your heart be troubled! Stop worrying, don’t be confused!
Have faith in God! he will show you the path!
what we speak?
We are good until we are silent but when we open our mouths, each word that we speak determines who we are! Communication matters a lot! So keep your thoughts right, if so you end up speaking/ communicating right!
Our choice should be to perceive
If Our focus is on obstacles we will be facing obstacles. Our choice should be to perceive
Everything is not perfect
Everything is not perfect, we do have a bad days in life but remember you have overcome many bad days in the past, if God can make you overcome in past, he can make you overcome this one as well! Never quit!
Perception
Our decisions are based on our perception, but we fail to include current and future circumstances as part of our perception, which ends us to feel regret later part of life!
Right attitude
when we have the right attitude, we get the fortitude to deal with any circumstances in life! being gratitude is the base!
Stop Overthinking
Stop Overthinking, when we start thinking about what others think about us or thinking about everything that happened in past, or anxious about the future just creates depression! Rest everything on God and move on in life, watch your next step alone!
remember the day 1 love
When you always remember the love we had on day 1 which will keep your relationship stronger than ever because it never judges, expect, ego, jealousy, etc! Never allow our intermittent emotions to spoil our life! Remember everyone who lost the relationship remembers only the day 1 love, not the intermittent struggles! Better to fix the relationship than lose it!
Preparation is the base!
Opportunities knock on our door, but the question is are we prepared to receive them? Preparation is the base! God gives you the opportunity but if we are not prepared it becomes misfortune!
Never become tired during the preparation phase!
Scars
Scars remind us of our past struggles and wounds that we came through! Never hide your scars, that proves we are not perfect but God is!
Blaming is a weapon
Blaming has been a weapon to escape from our situation that we are not comfortable with! Soon we become a slave to it. Instead let us hold ourselves responsible for what we commit, which will teach us the best lessons in life!
Change our focus!
We cannot change our feeling, but we can change our focus! when we change our focus, faith increases, which elevates our confidence level which in turn changes our feeling! Where is our focus matter, in God or in our talents?
Lucky vs Blessed
When god answers our prayers, we are lucky, when God doesn't answer our prayers we are blessed! Read again, think, what would you be now if he listened to all our prayers 🤷♂️
Why we fall?
We are always cautious about big things in our life, but we fall because of our slight indifference, anger, irritation, small misunderstanding, and mistakes! One small dead fly will stink up the entire essential oil!
In any circumstance, be patient!
Right things always take time!
Right things always take time! Remember right thing to do is not easy! But if you get used to easy things it’s not always right! Always remember to do what is right for you!
Our Intentions
Doing good or helping others is always right until we don’t have the intention to benefit from it! Our Intentions decide our action steps!
Elevation in life
There is a purpose for your elevation in life from God, no matter what happened in the past, but there are two ways to end in the future, 1. If we change ourselves from the past and become humble, we get recognized 2. If we get conceited, we will be overlooked one day! The best part is both options are in our hands to select!
Thanksgiving
Nothing can be given free to others without having hidden expectations! But one thing we can provide which we never expect back that’s “Thanksgiving “!
Bad mood, stay silent
When you are in a bad mood, stay away from everyone; stay silent! Mood can change, but the words spoken cannot be reverted!
Our Thoughts
Whatever may be the situation, if your thoughts are good and right, you never get depressed or make wrong decisions!
Teach your kids to be strong
Tough time creates a strong person! A strong person finds easy ways!
The easy way creates a weak person! A weak person faces tough times!
Teach our kids tough times, not the easy, luxurious life!
Just think about how we grew; you will get an answer!
Weeds and Crops
Weeds and crops grow together; weeds grow taller, more robust, and fresh than crops; but remember, the owner(God)will remove one-day weeds(enemies), but crops will be harvested!
Everything works for good!
Many things that we go through now might not look good but don’t forget everything works for good!
Never expects it in return
If you do good, make sure 3rd person never knows it and never expects it in return! If you do it, you will be protected from your troubles!
2 faces of life
Everyone has 2 faces failure and success! People who see the failure face never see the success part and people who see the success face never see the failure part! The person who faces both treats others with a smiling face!
Waiting build's character
Waiting is frustrating and we all hate it, but when you realize God keeps you waiting for years because that’s the period your character is built!
key to surviving
Offer praise to God in the midst of your battle; that’s the key to surviving till the end!
Do better things in life
Whatever we do, if we realize, what we do brings glory to God! We do better things in life!
I
Always remember not to say that I/me was successful but there is 1 soul praying for you, 1 soul guiding you, and 1 soul mentoring you! So don’t lose them in life!
Be a person who deserves
Be a person who deserves to receive it, not the one who needs it! Everyone has needs but only those who deserve to receive them!
What drives us ?
What drives us determines the direction of life! So always check what drives/motivate us! Could be money & pride or attention & humbleness & generosity etc..
Thursday, 31 March 2022
Authenticity
Authenticity is essential in life; it’s tough, but once you build it, you will always have someone to help. But if you fail to do so, even if you keep repeating the truth, no one will be ready to listen!
Bitterness vs Betterness
one who stands with you in your bitterness, uphold him during your betterness!
Struggle
We might have everything we need in life but there will be one struggle that you go through that will keep you in control! you will realize that control is good later part of life when you walk and live humble! Sometimes good to have a struggle because it teaches you more than success!
Don't react immediately, wait to respond
The recent Oscar incident again reminds me of “ don't react immediately, wait to respond, “ which is must needed quality to learn! Because we are controlled more by emotions! Even if it's Your opponent's mistake, learn to respond!
Lot to learn 🙏
Don't miss what you love
Everything you love comes along with the part you dislike/ pain/ stress etc. If you run away thinking about the part you don't like, then you will be missing what you love;
Skilled person
If you like to be a skilled person, then don't expect a smooth career; a captain has nothing to learn/ act if the sea is smooth and calm to sail a ship!
Words
Be careful with your words; it is more powerful than a fire; if your words make a wound, it can be healed, but when it becomes scars, it remains forever!
Esteem others
When you esteem others better than you, your esteem grows automatically; stop being strife necked or self praised in life!
Forgiveness
If we say we forgive a person but still that anger, pain, hurt runs in our heart and mind, it means we realize we have never forgiven them! Real forgiveness is to let what hurt us or the pain we went through go away, which will keep you moving to the next level than who you forgive!
Easy to say, but tough to even think how to follow it! Forgive formula is to forget but remember the lesson learned!
Pride in Mind
When we say we need to be humble in life, if we need to be, it needs to start by “*stop having pride in Mind!”*
Turn back moment
Every one of us has a moment to go forward or give up; a “turn back moment” in life, That pushes you further, if you are going to keep fighting, you will reach your goal one day, but if you give up/ quit, you are going to go far away from it! So, turn back to realize how far you traveled that will push you to the next step!
Life Values
Don't leave more wealth to your kids; instead, leave more IN them on life values; they go out to make double the portion of what you planned! Life is all about what we teach and how we behave in front of kids than the bank balance!
Betray is common
Don't trust that some are never going to betray you. But trust, if they do, you can handle it! That's more important than worrying and wasting time! So it's all based on the timing and situation that makes trust get betrayed!
If Jesus was betrayed, we are not exempted!
Why does it happen? Normally for power/money but the main reason is “insecurity” of your presence!
God gives us grace
God gives us grace, but we think we are wiser than God and try to accomplish what is beyond our situation and end up in trouble! So always remember to live within the blessings God has given and be humble!
Trust God
Trust God; then trust yourself! The remaining all will fall in place on time but don't stop, do what you have to perform!
Beyond the repairs
Life can never become “Beyond the repairs”; it's all about how we approach it; it becomes complicated when we are not checking or searching for Restoration steps!
Raise Stronger
It can take a day, years, decades but your goal is to raise again stronger! It takes Chinese bamboo 5 years to see its growth!
Keep working towards your goal
If you work towards your goal, you will need to face the challenge and shame; that does not mean it’s over; remember, the sun rises again, so stop tripping in the middle of your process!
Enemy attack
The easy way enemy attack by increasing your desire; if you fall prey to it, you need to face the consequence! Be aware!
Secret pleasure
when you realize people get a secret pleasure from your failure and struggle! Allow them to go through!
Keep the mind in control
If we fail to keep the mind in our control, the mind will control you for which you are not ready! Mostly you will realize it after it happens in life!
A true friend
A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths, feels your fears but fortifies your faith, sees your anxieties but frees your spirit, recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities! - #johnmaxwell
You will
The one who says “you can't” and “ you won't” are the ones who predicted “you will “ do it! It's a sad, scary truth!
Differentiate between people
People might have the desire, but only those who love and care will be concerned about you! So, be careful to differentiate between people who desire and are concerned about you!
Be kind
“ Just because someone carries it well doesn't mean it isn't heavy!“
what you see and what they go through never match! So, be kind!
Highlights
Highlights are interesting to watch, but the problem is we forget the match is not won based on 5 mins highlights! Don’t judge a person based on his 5 mins speech! There could be years of hard work!
Monday, 14 March 2022
Feeling insecure
If you feel insecure, the problem is not with the person who stands in front of you; it’s in you! So correct/learn/practice what is needed to be secure within you! If you feel confident, you will be bold enough to face who stands in front of you! Insecurity starts within us!
prestige
Don’t let your prestige decide or end your future! If God gives you an opportunity, focus and makes use of it; instead, we ignore and keep waiting and say waiting for a better one that fits my prestige! The opportunity once lost is lost forever! Remember always a small opportunity can bring greater prestige in life!
Stop Quitting
If you are struggling and you know you are right! If you are ready to quit, remember there is something possible always, when you have hope and fight for it! Don’t give up if you are right!
Learn to be calm!
When things are going well, learn to be calm! Never think you are top of the world, be wary always! Everything can be dismantled easily one day! Thank God and do your duties!
Go through the pain
Strive to go through the pain to reach where you desire! If you are lazy to face the pain, stop blaming others and God!
Thankful heart
When you forget the benefits, you received when you struggle, your heart gets lifted up once you reach high positions and power, and you lose your thankful heart! It’s like we are inviting God’s wrath on us!
Let’s always remember where we started; it will keep you thankful for what you are now!
The finest lawn soonest stains
If you are getting hit badly in life, review if you were getting hit because you were doing good; if so, find a way to do more!
“The finest lawn soonest stains.”
Fail to learn
Don't always expect your children to win or be successful. One day when you are not around, if they fail, they suffer miserably. So when you are with them, if they fail, allow them to face it and go through the path of struggle, and you guide them to overcome; that's how they learn! Success doesn't teach what life is! Success is good but not always!
Mean & Mind
Always say what you mean and mean what you say! because Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!
The parent
The parent is not the one who gives whatever a child asks; instead, they should be Giving what is needed for the child! The child should be in parents' control, but it became reverse now, which is dangerous for the child, which they realize after it went out of their control!
Humble
If you are humble, you get exalted, but if you exalt, you get degradation! God is the only person to exalt! How do you humble? First, we need to do what we expect from others!
Happy women's day
Who can bear maximum pain in life; Who can face any circumstances in life;
Who can still laugh in public irrespective of issues running in mind; Who can do multitasking 100% perfect; Who can build a family to be successful even starting from zero;
That's only possible by her! Nothing comes easy for her, but when she receives a reward/something, she shares it with dad/ husband/brother/ son. They just expect only Respect!
Happy women's day! 🙏
Stop Worrying
Standing on a thorn, while knife hanging around the neck, he still making decisions for his country! Your problem doesn’t even match it, so stop worrying and start finding answers!
Silence
In a relationship, It is good to be silent and Sometimes not react to the situations because it could worsen others more! good to stop stressing the truth that hurt them! Remember your silence or truth you stop stressing will be realized by them one day! It could take months/years/decades! Truth is a truth that will never diminish!
Power in position
When we grow higher in the power position, we suddenly turn back to ask people, who can question me now? That arrogance and pride is the starting point of our destruction which makes our hearts deceived! Gaurd your tongue and mainly the heart!
God's plan
One thing that we never able to understand is God's plan! Don’t rebel with it! The bigger problem is we don’t know which one is God's plan!
Understanding Vs Misunderstanding
If one understands and others misunderstand the same person, then remember it’s a thin layer of difference; what you know to understand them, that they do not know!
Stop sharing
Stop sharing everything about you with others! People react to what you share instead of treating you better!
Loyalty
Loyalty expires if your status changes! True loyalty withstands even during adversity! Loyalty doesn’t establish between people in recent days, which is sad to see!
Render(Do) your duties
Render(Do) your duties: pay your tribute and custom to whom it is due; fear whom you need to fear; honor whom you need to honor.
Commit
Important quality everyone looks upon others “ is he doing what he commits! “ don’t commit until you are 100% clear on what you are going to commit!
Man Success starts from Home
If a man has to be successful in the world, his first support should start from his home; if he is very successful outside but no support and peace in his home, no use everything will be wasted!
Assumptions
What you see when you meet a person is your assumptions about them, based on your 4 to 10 mins conversation experience! But they have challenges and hardships running behind them!
Value when you lose
We do no the value of what/ whom we have until we lose it/them! So first listen/understand what they go through before reacting to them!
Qualifications
We are disqualified by Our qualifications but when you practice and prepare yourself, God uses you in a mighty way!
Stop pretending
If we keep pretending, we delay our next course of action, and it prolongs our suffering, so accept your situation and move on!
Dream has a purpose
If God gives you a dream, it should have a purpose that pushes you to achieve it! It needs your commitment with consistency! Don’t get crushed in failure!
Parents sacrifice
If you thank God for what you are now is because of your parent's sacrifice and prayer, now it’s time to sacrifice and pray God for your children!
True Leader suffers when people suffer
A person who suffers more, when his family/team/ country suffers is the true leader!
A person who suffers more when his team/ country suffers is the true leader! He stands at the last row during success and first during failure/suffering etc.
The leader is not the one who dictates! He leads his people, and when there is an issue, he stands first to face it! later in life, we regret most of the time for the only reason “we didn’t try even once”;
Do not be discouraged
Do not be discouraged/ disappointed for the mistakes you made or the pain you go through for which you are not the reason! Focus on steps to correct your mistakes and overcome the pain! Nothing we gain by worrying! Have God as your strength!
Decisions
Some of the decisions we make are due to mere pressure from surrounding people; 99% of it goes against us. Remember, consequences will be faced by us, not our surroundings! Let your decision be wise!
Temptation
Temptation is the invitation sent by the people Who like to see your phase of failure; if you are attracted, then be ready to face the uncalculated risk
Believe
Stop being an unbeliever; believe in God, who has given a purpose; believe in you to find that purpose! Faith over fear!
Pot Life
If we need to make a pot, we need to mold the clay well! if our life has to be perfect, then our character gets molded by going through the path of problems, tribulations, and pain
I - the killer!
When you do your duty, there is nothing to be proud of! Avoid saying “I” did it! that will make you feel superior! So be thankful to God, who has given you the opportunity to deliver! Just focus on the duty!
Behavior
Your behavior drives your identity; if you make one mistake, even after years, it always comes to mind as an identity when they see you! thinks twice before reacting, but always good to respond!
Not to worry for a critic
Sometimes who does nothing will be good when compared to who does something gets criticized
No means No
No means No: No is not a word it’s a sentence: No means not interested to discuss further
One wrong move!
Be proud for being patient; No use in worrying after taking one wrong move! It’s better to wait than lose!
Heart is like a water
Worst experience but a better lesson, water(heart), when it comes down as snow even for two days we are good to stay calm and chill, but when same turns hard and hits you for 2 minutes, that’s a nightmare! The heart is like water; keep your heart lite always, if it becomes harder tough to survive long!
Stop Worrying!
One thing that stops you perform, thinking, and succeeding is worry! you need to realize that not going to help us in any way, that’s the only way to stop worrying!
Monday, 21 February 2022
What keeps you winning?
Everyone wants to be first and winner; but remember the winner is the one who bends more to receive the medal, shares his floor with others for pics. When you go high, your character/attitude should bend, not stiff! Share what you can to the poor/who need it! It will keep you always winning!
Don't Please
Don’t do something to please a friend; similarly, be aware of people who please you! Both are wrong, which gets you into trouble! Always speak the truth and be strict if needed! easily It can be differentiated, I.e., if one person keeps praising another that’s pleasing! let's appreciate one another instead of being pleased!
Never get Settle
Never get Settle; life is a journey; success is like a bus stop; you have to be on track immediately to travel longer, no breaks; but failure is like a motel stop, take a break, think through what went wrong and start your journey!
Next Step
We are all working hard focusing on our goals, that’s good, remember if your next step is wrong, it ruins everything! The goal is essential, but taking the next step(wise & right) needs more focus!
Grace
Our qualifications don’t lift us up, but God's grace does! Grace is more important than a degree or qualification! Remember Grace is not luck!
Weakness to greatest strength
Sometimes you cannot overcome your weakness, so it’s time for God to make your weakness your greatest strength! Just look up if you can see the light in your home; it starts there for you to trust!
Justice
One cannot always be on the side of truth; sometimes, he oscillates to decide, when compared to the truth, justice always wins! Initially, it will look like it failed, but it wins in the end! Justice overtakes truth!
Feet on the ground
Face the people who criticize. Face the failure, control your temptation. Always make sure our feet are on the ground! Leave the rest to God; he rewards you for your work!
Dream
The value of a relationship is not valued until it is lost! Our dream remains a dream until it comes true! Let’s not late to understand we cannot be late always to realize
Accept the problems
Until we understand others' problems, we keep saying we are going through the biggest problem; try to accept the problems, then the solution will be simple!
Molten Gold
Only molten gold can be cooled and polished to make a design that we like! If we need success, be ready to face the fire that comes as struggles and failure that molds us;
Place yourself in others shoes before you decide
Before fighting/arguing/advising others, place yourself one minute on their position and think through! Next minute you will know the answer to most of your questions! But we never do that
self-perception
When we realize our perception is wrong, it will change our life completely! Instead, we don’t realize, and we point out mistakes in others! So be ready to discover your self-perception!
Money
We never get satisfied and never say No! We love it more than anything, It is needed, but we fail to realize it’s not life! End of the day, it is vanity! That’s Money! that’s a fire, if you fail to handle it right, it will destroy the relationship!
Real Love
Love is not doing what the other person likes, real love is making sure you don’t do and also not allowing others to do, what the other person doesn’t like!
Relationship
When there is oneness in answer, reaction, the response from 2 different bodies, which are connected through a network called “Love”! It’s highly visible in a relationship!
Betrayal
The biggest mistake one can do to a friend is betrayal! You cannot punish them, because you can never prove! But remember, he losses his respect and he will get betrayed by others in the same place! One can feel the pain of betrayal when we are betrayed! Never try it!
Emotions
We started getting emotional and limiting our feelings for one another in life! Your feeling can become emotional, but not all your emotions You can feel! Too many emotions are not good, but the feeling is!
Don't publicize
Helping is sharing with fellow humans it’s not giving, don’t publicize when you do! The best help that one does is, share his time,
Know what's wrong
To do the right one, we have to know we did wrong! So don’t worry knowing that you made a mistake! Making mistakes is not wrong, but failing to realize it is!
children
Our children grow by seeing us, not listening to what we say! So it is more important in life how we behave in front of our kids, they repeat what we do!
Anger
Anger is a one-second reaction that destroys the rest of our life; When we intake this truth strongly, we will stop reacting and start responding to the situation!
Start focusing
Life doesn’t get fulfilled if we keep searching! Stop searching and start focusing on bringing contentment! When we put other people's needs before us, we never make mistakes, which builds a strong relationship!
Don't be Lazy!
If there is no growth or blessings in life mean we are being lazy in our life; let’s not allow our laziness to ruin our future
Who we fear
Fear of the fellow human doesn’t give you peace, but the fear of the Lord protects and blesses us
Don’t flip
Don’t flip the truth, grace, and blessings for our convenient lifestyle! We cannot hide it for long; when it comes to light, we need to face the consequences!
Voice we hear
It’s not the voice we hear that determines our life; it’s the voice we believe, an important weapon our enemy tries is to make us believe! So be careful what/ whom we believe determines our action
God lifts you
When God lifts you, your character should grow towards humbleness, kind and being thankful! If we fail to do so, he also fails to hold you long and drops from the place where you are;
Stop comparing!
What God has planned for us is only for us! Let’s stop getting jealous, insecure, bitter, resentful! Use the opportunity God has given, and have a passion to do! Just focus on ‘self’! Stop comparing!
Sunday, 6 February 2022
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is important for the person who forgives! It gives him mental relief; Remember, you no need to be a close friend again with the same person! Sometimes it is good to stay away! But forgive them!
Circumstances
Always remember your current circumstances are not the final destination! Trust God; he has a better plan than us, and hold on to him! The problem is even we trust God based on current circumstances!
Be a Farmer
Farmer goes to plow his land early morning, so he reaps great harvest at the end! He never complains that he feels lazy to wake up or work early morning! If we need to harvest, plan and do it immediately, never postpone because of our sluggardness!
Weakness
Your weakness doesn’t bring you down! The thoughts about the weakness do! Know your weakness, defend it with your strength! Let God be your top strength!
Biggest enemy
The biggest enemy we have within us are pride, carelessness, no control in food intake! Instead, start saying “God helped you to do” instead of saying “I did it”! , Be vigilant, fast weekly once!
Reed
Reed tries to teach many lessons for our life; if you are flexible and slender, when problems come like a wind, you will be washed away! So be strong and deep-rooted in what you do!
Differentiate the people
You can never bring your friend up in life unless they intake what you say; it takes time! But it is easy to bring your friend down by spending 2 minutes of negative conversations! Make sure to differentiate the people, whom you spend time with, then make a move in life!
Truth is a Seed!
Truth is like a seed that you through on open land; one day it will expose to the world; remember, bamboo takes three years to get a new shoot! The important manure for truth is patience!
Wednesday, 2 February 2022
What you speak matter!
Your positive words will always overtake your suffering; If you fail, suffering will overtake you! What you speak matters the most!
Differentiate your Suffering!
We often suffer because of our mistakes; sometimes, we suffer as part of the testing phase in life. When we know to differentiate both, you will be handling your suffering in a better way!
Suffering vs Success
When suffering runs in our mind it keeps us cautious; When success runs in our mind it makes one less responsive
Talk about your suffering not success!
If you have a dream, commit to it, suffer through it, keep your focus. Clear the test, trials, pain, Etc. Finally, You will be a successful person one day! Remember, people only talk about your success but not the path you came through! It's you who need to talk about the sufferings you came across, not the success!
“why this to me?”
When we are in trouble or negative happens, our mind is quick enough to ask “why this to me?”! We never get an answer but we pass by; instead, when we question ourselves if we have done something wrong that we need to correct?, will solve most of our problems!
Don't point other's mistake for our Growth
The biggest threat we face; is one willing to grow by pointing out our mistakes! If we can handle it and win, you will succeed in any circumstances!
Sunday, 30 January 2022
Stop worry about others
We stop pursuing not because we failed, it is because we worry about what others say!
Simple
All complicated problems have a *simple* solution but not easy ones! problem here is we fail to act/ make an effort! No benefit in blaming others for our failure to make a simple move! *Nothing is easy, but it is simple! *
Handle your failure
When our wish/ planning doesn’t happen how we expect, that will be our biggest worry! If we are ready to face this situation, that’s our biggest success! Hold on to God, who has bigger plans than you expect! Success is not getting what you wish; real success is how you handle your worries, failures, etc.!
Purpose will come to an end
Once your purpose is accomplished, your presence becomes a burden to the place you are in! So try to do good as much as you can, so that will save you the rest of your life!
Sympathy vs Empathy
Our sympathy cannot make us successful people. Sympathy can help to get attention, but it will not help to succeed! Instead of creating sympathy, show empathy to others; that will make us good humans!
Accomplishing unexpected
If your ideas and expectations are not going as you wish, tighten your seatbelt, get ready to harvest that you have never seen, you will be accomplishing unexpected things in life!
Monday, 17 January 2022
Change in Attitude
Stop seeing people as enemies when our suggestions are ignored! Here the problem is with our attitude, when we realize, we will never miss a good relationship! When your suggestion was ignored, try to visualize what was accepted, most of the time our suggestions could be wrong! Having the heart to accept what was not accepted is tough!
Who is right?
Sometimes we need to agree that “what is right” instead of fighting for “who is right”
Realize our fault
When we are quick enough to point fault on others, we fail to realize our fault; Remember, our failure to realize makes us big losers than the others!
Sunday, 16 January 2022
Do Good!
Don't resist evil. Be a wise person, walk away from it, or overcome evil by doing Good! Remember, When we do good, it always brings you a blessing!
Realize your purpose
Realize your purpose in life, don't compare your purpose with others!
A ring cannot be worn on the thumb; A Deed cannot be Signed using a ring finger;
Focus on what we have?
By default, your mind is tuned to remind you what you don’t have? Which never going to allow you to be happy! 🛑 change your thoughts and take a U-turn, start realizing what God has given you now is substantial! That will make you feel grateful!
If you need something, start realizing what you have! Stop worrying and negative thoughts!
Giving is Powerful!
If you need to make an impact in other's lives, one simple act is “*GIVE your time, love, care, affection, help!*” You can feel Joy of giving only by experiencing it!
Great Thought
There is a difference in our thought, we want a person to be good/happy in life because “you love him” or “you were loved by him”. “later is tough when compared to the former one.
Bitterness in Heart!
Let not our bitterness ruin our blessing! Outward, we could look good to communicate, but if we grow bitterness inside our heart about others, that grows slowly and roots deeper, spoils one-self! Remember, there is no impact or loss for others because of our bitterness!
Face it!
When we have challenges in life, hiding/ running away is the primary option; instead, when we face it, each second is a new beginning to a glorious end! The problem is we get stuck without progressing!
Relationship
When we allow “*Division*” in our self to enter; It “*Multiplies*” our thoughts negatively;
It “*Adds*” disheartening in us; It “*subtracts*” oneness! In the end, it destroys the relationship!
Sunday, 9 January 2022
Our mistakes are not our end!
Once you make a mistake, that action chases you until you die! You cannot escape! Remember! Moses(Bible) is a murderer, but we know who he is when he perished! Raise Yourself to the level that diminishes your mistakes! Also, remember to move away from the place where you made a mistake!
Your mistakes don’t determine you! But when you forget to realize and correct, it determines!
Run Fast Forward!
When we run 🏃♂️forward, towards our goal, we should know what we are running away from behind as well! It’s your past that makes you accelerate to run fast forward!
Who do we hold to?
In our Life, God does not commit a comfortable/ luxurious journey, but he Guaranty a safe landing! Our job is to hold on to him!
Never Manipulate!
When we have a need, we manipulate things to achieve our needs; it becomes an addiction if we get benefits! Remember if it is good, you will receive it; the truth is bitter but better than manipulator!
Stop Arguments!
Be a blessing even in our thoughts instead of arguing with others; it is good to have conversations but not arguments! The best way to stop arguments, replace “what good for me” with “what good for others+ us ”; when we fail, it ends in disaster on both sides;
Succeed from the place you fail!
There is a special joy in our hearts when God makes you shine when people say you can never do it! Your motivation to succeed should start from the place where you fail!
Forgive—Forget—Focus—Future
Forgive the things that happened in the past; Go forward chasing the goal in front of us! Our focus on our blessing is disconnected as we focus on others' thoughts and actions about us!
Forgive—Forget—Focus—Future
Happy new year!
Whatever you have gone through, keep that aside, and “Believe” 2022 will be a blessing!
God bless! Just Believe! Wish you a Happy new year!
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