Our enemies are keen to know our strengths and weaknesses better than us! He strategically attacks us on our strength!
Friday, 31 December 2021
Forgive
Small hurt turns slowly to anger, and it changes to bitterness! It spoils our thoughts and affects the entire future relationship!
Best medicine to cure hurt, “forgive”!
This will pass by
When we are down remember “this will pass by”; when we are happy always remember “this also will pass by”; Don’t get too depressed or happy, always handle both in same scale and hold on to God! Life will be smooth!
Thursday, 30 December 2021
Kindness
Kindness speaks louder, expressing our emotions and love! Little kindness turns turmoil upside down!
Love
How many times we break the trust, when we fail, when we make mistakes,
Always gives one more opportunity because of “Love”! True love makes one trustworthy, Encourage, forgives!
Love
In a relationship always remember, how we loved one another in the beginning! Circumstances can change but not love!
Our mistakes become our stakes!
We do make mistakes; our temptations certainly will drive us to do! But be vigilant and correct ourselves when warned! If we fail to correct, Our mistakes become our stakes! That keeps stabbing!
“ From where we came! how we started our life!”
One thing always to remember is “ From where we came! how we started our life!”, that will remind you how blessed you are now!
Satisfaction
Our satisfaction is overtaken by comparison, due to which we never feel satisfied/ adequate with what we have! when we realize everyone is blessed unique and start focusing on our blessing and purpose, we have peace;
stop comparing! Focus on what God has given us!
Humbleness
When You grow in knowledge, wealth, position, first be *thankful to God*; the next important one is “*humbleness*”! Don’t allow pride to enter! The easiest way the pride enters is through what we speak! Be wise about what we *talk* when you grow! Each *word* matters!
Face it!
We ask people and even God; you need to tell me in advance so that I can be ready to face;
God keeps us in the dark because the better one gets delivered when we face it, not through planning;
when you experience it, it remains with us longer than planning! God gives wisdom, Face it!
Excuses
Don’t let today's excuses become tomorrow's regret! Days once lost are never going to return! Keep fighting even if you fail; you end satisfied that you fought but not regretted!
Perseverance
The struggle should produce perseverance ;Perseverance builds our character ;our Character should bring hope
Luck
Luck: a four-letter magic word that revolves around who gets popular/famous/getting recognized in short-term etc. But we forget to see what struggle, hard work, knowledge, etc., went in to achieve! “*Learn* to *Upskill* through the *course* of *knowledge*” goodLUCK👍
L -Learn to
U - Upskill U through
C - Course of
K - knowledge 👍
New Dimension
It's not that we need a new item to shine; it's all about how we use what we have in a new dimension that makes life more interesting! Adding new items only fills the space!
Thank God
We keep asking God what we need, but we forget to thank him for what we have; there is a reason for everything we go through; don't question God; instead, thank him for adding one more day in our life;
Life
Life is meaningful when we accomplish with what we have in new dimensions, not with getting new ones each time;
Unforgivable punishment
We were not punished for our mistakes; we were forgiven; we forget punishment and remember only forgiveness we received and make more mistakes; it resulting in unforgivable punishment
Endurance
*Endurance* in life is key to overcome difficulties and hardship; even during exhaustion, pain, suffering, etc., endurance makes you stronger and bold! In recent days it’s decreasing among us! let’s focus to improve our endurance in life!
Past Vs Future
It’s not right to stop new people from loving/being a friend with you because people in the past hurt you; it’s true every relationship one day will hurt; It depends on time, trust, and how we handle them! Our trust should always be on God, so you get the right people as a friend!
Joy of giving!
The joy of giving! If we become addicted, it would be the best addition that will always keeps us happy! Our money, position etc cannot buy that happiness
Uncomfortable situations
Only when we place ourselves in uncomfortable situations we grow!
Sometimes we need to face hatred, people might laugh at us, we might even fail.
Be a small vessel
A fisherman can’t quench his thirst by the water surrounded by the sea; he needs a small water container! Be a small vessel that could be useful instead of being no use in the larger group!
Deception
Deception is an obstacle that comes in front when we march towards our goal; the deceiver would be your close circle! Be vigilant from getting deceived! Best way to identify those people are through their body language! His speech could deceive
Find Peace
The peace of God is not the absence of a problem; Everyone has a problem, but not peace! Because we fail to say NO to pride& accept our weakness! Once we realize it, God makes us walk through the valley!
STOP EXPLAINING
How good we are, we will be reproached by some people for what we lack in life; what we lack is true, reproach would break our heart. but don’t try to explain them, be wise to move away and hold on to God! No one knows what we go through, STOP EXPLAINING!
Giving!
When you realize people are trying to take away what you love, Give them what they are trying to take! Don’t allow others to take it! Giving is powerful than others trying to take! But it’s not easy!
Hold to God
Place where we are disrespected, God makes us shine in the same; the only thing we need to do, hold on to God, focus on our goal, and give our 100% effort! But we react immediately by expressing anger/murmurings!
Ask right Question
There is always something to learn from our surroundings; the problem is we fail to ask the *right questions*!
Just believe
Just believe! Sometimes we don’t see any solution for our problems; it’s like a dead-end! Still remember we have one option left “just believe”
God can bring you out of your problem!
Root
Sometimes the process we undergo is invisible like root; God makes you shine, only after he takes you through the Dark path of pain, bitterness, etc., He makes you stronger like a root before he makes you blossom! You grow (go) down and deeper before you grow/ rise high!
don't Doubt!
Trust God with what talent you have, he will do the rest! First, we shouldn’t doubt but If you doubt Look back if you are even worth what you have achieved in 2021! Same in a relationship, when it is the edge of breaking, one minute rewind your past, that will heal your present bitterness!
Be a useful vessel
Our mistakes do not disqualify us from being used by God for his purpose/ glory. He has more than enough grace for us. When he uses us, focus on him, not on our surroundings!
Be a Helper
Living life in such a way that what you do to others can never repay you! I.e., Be a person who can be helpful but never expect back! Try once; you will never lose respect and be discouraged!
Focus on Goal
When we focus on our difficulties in life, we get distracted from our goals! In a 100-meter hurdle race, our focus is to reach the target, not on the hurdle in between!
Compromise
Don’t compromise for the wrong thing; be satisfied for the right thing; our enemy expects us to do it in reverse, then we have a problem; once you compromise, you end up compromising for all!
Tuesday, 14 December 2021
Remember
Don’t forget your beginning of life;
Don’t forget your blessings you received till now;
Remember the help you received to reach this position and bless their family if they need your attention!
The God who is always with you and how he blesses you!
This will help to overcome your current struggle!
Victory becomes painful
Righteous men don’t celebrate all his victory! Sometimes victory becomes painful and even brings tears; our victory over others' pain is not going to keep us happy long! Focus on a victory that keeps your heart in peace!
Remember Yes means only Yes
Don’t disturb anyone without their consent; if they say “no” means “no”; “maybe” means “no”; “silence” means “no”; only “yes” mean “yes”;
what we sow; we reap the same!
We expect double the blessings by doing the same work each day! Our expectations increase with the same efforts! Logic is simple *what we sow; we reap the same! *
God Watches us!
Here was an emperor who conquered 2 kingdoms, one king was very rich, but the other king is too poor; days passed, the wealthy king got pride over his head and forgot that there is an emperor above him, whom he need to honor; poor king struggling to feed his people! But he make sure to honor the emperor and improve his kingdom. one day the pride destroyed all the wealth the rich king had! Always we need to remember someone above watching!
Prohibition is a diversion towards your goal
If you are prohibited, before reacting, we need to understand why they prohibit! Most of the time, there could be a reason that we have not aware of! If you are prohibited, it's not mean stopped/avoided/ ignored; it means you are diverted to the right path/ protected against enemies attacks! You will never understand it until you realize it! “Prohibition is a diversion towards your goal”
Be available for kids
A father, in a modern world he running like a money-making machine; there is zero value even if he is a billionaire if he fails to teach,
his *son* about the value of life, respect for genders, and discipline!
His *daughter* that he is standing next to her in all her journey and available when she needs help/ guidance, feel her secure!
If anyone fails, someone is in danger 🔴!
Teach values of life
In the modern world, every news at Fingertips, in school education teaching how to earn money; at home, parents teaching what to become when you are grown; But we missing to teach values of life, respect for gender, the discipline of life to our teens; No one makes overnight mistakes that put his existence in a question mark and makes the victim!
Do good!
One who knows that is right to do and does not do it to him is sin; don't stop doing good because you are humiliated ;
Change start from you
If you need to expand in your life, the first change starts from your circle whom you connect!
Ge multiplied
When you go through *affliction*, you get multiplied ;
When you are *multiplied*, others get *annoyed*! But you remember to keep focusing on your goal;
God will take care of the rest!
Hold right thing
When you keep holding too many things, after a certain point, you cannot hold more; when you realize what you are mainly holding is your worry, ego, frustration, unforgiveness, etc. We don't have a space for new blessings or good things to hold
Nothing lasts forever;
Nothing lasts forever; the feeling and thoughts we have today are not the same as yesterday! Every day is a new day with new challenges!
Priority to deliver
If you do not know the priority to deliver in a job, your sincerity and hard work in a company are an utter waste! Be smart to know what to be worked on first!
Valley of difficulties
When you go through a valley of difficulties, don’t forget to be a thankful heart! Keep praising him
Don't feel worthless/ useless
The first attack by an enemy/evil or the person who plans to bring you down is to make you feel worthless/ useless! If you fall prey to it, no one else needed to destroy your life after that!
Stop justifying
Stop justifying yourself to others; you cannot satisfy them! The way you think and the things you go through are known only to you and God! Don’t waste time explaining to people!
Treat others Good
*Harder* thing to do in life is to treat people good when they are not treating you good! Or
better to be silent!
Remember, Once you start making one wrong move, it’s the *hardest* thing to come out!
God's Grace
We are rewarded only for the work we do! We need to stop wasting God's grace! As it comes free, we do not know its value!
Your current situation is not the final destination!
Your current situation is not the final destination! Don’t make up ur mind stating everything is over, it is just a hard part of your life journey! Another way is it’s a small episode of your life story! Sometimes we have to go through the pain to see beautiful things in life!
Relationship
Only iron can sharpen an iron; iron becomes blurred when it constantly hits wood; in a relationship, if both are not in the same mindset, bonded/ united, life becomes miserable;
Don't give up!
It’s ok to fail, feel tired, exhausted! But it’s never ok to “Give up”! Keep fighting each day, God has given you a purpose for your life! Focus on one good thing, you will be stronger to face the next challenge!
Do good today;
perform better than yesterday;
Stop worrying about tomorrow!
Focus
Our focus/ thoughts make it feel; what we feel makes us perform; what we perform makes us reap; *what we focus on matters! Remember, our focus is always on what we get attracted to!
If we focus pain of the past, we reap pain again!
If we focus on worries of the past, we reap worries!
If we focus on what God has for us, we reap his blessings!
If we focus on the future, we reap peace!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🍁
Everyone has at least one person they keep thanking in life; sometimes even they might not express the thanks to them personally! Every day we need to be thankful for what God gave us! When your heart is filled with thanksgiving, it never allows pride to enter your mind! Thanksgiving is an art, If it is handled right, it builds strong relationships!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🍁
Pain and Shame
How do you handle pain and shame! Any position we are in, we have a group of people to insult or put us down! But Don’t get angry, don’t react immediately to it; your old mistakes will rewind! Ignore everything and focus on the goal with The right “*Attitude*”!
Our attitude matters; always keep it clear!
I
Most of the time, our happiness is killed by one letter word, “I.” It’s a deadly poisonous word; take time in life to self-evaluate, and you will realize that it’s a matter of time God has given you to shine/ achieve; it’s always can be replaced by better people; self-realization keeps you growing in a humbled way!
Be quick to understand
There is always a message in the way people treat you!
If you sense it quicker, you react better;
if you sense it later, you will feel bitter!
Are you ignored?
Do people put you down suddenly or ignore you? Which creates unnecessary stress in your life! Till yesterday he might be good, but today his way of talking, the behavior might be different! one main reason insecurity of other person or might be a personal reason that they go through! So please don’t take it too personally and become hard on yourself! Just keep moving and try to understand why it happens! It
Be a first friend with your Child
A child asking his dad, my friend said not to tell you what he says! What do I need to do daddy? It is common in college/school but what shocked me is he is in Kindergarten!
Step Back
Sometimes we will face people who disturb and even torcher us! Don’t take a step ahead but take a step back and watch, you will realize how you are protected and blessed even in the middle of a tough situation
what’s our purpose in life?
We call it good when we serve our purpose; if the purpose is not met, it means we are focusing on the wrong person/ place; Most of the time, we forget to know what's our purpose in life that God has given;
do we know what’s our purpose in life?
Wisdom
When we ask God for wisdom, remember to ask for protection from friends' envy/ jealousy and enemies. When we grow in wisdom, it means danger also grows along with it; so be wise to answer!
When you grow in wisdom, your first challenge comes from close friends/ relationships!
Insecurity
Our insecurity makes us worry; prolonged worry turns into fear; by worrying, we cannot change anything in our life; when we realize we will start focusing on what God has given us to do next!
Be A Reminder!
Who we are in our friend's life! Do we *rewind* their past losses or *remind* their future vision!
Race
In a race,
For 100 meters - we focus on dedication
For 400 meter relay - we focus on co-ordination
For the 5k marathon - we focus on stamina and practice
But for the race between “Birth- death “ we focus on ego, anger, betrayal, etc. importance we give for 4 hours running with positive thoughts & energy, we fail to implement it in life!
Instant praise
We all love instant praise, money, famous but we forget it never last long when compare to hard work, dedication, and God's blessing which takes time!
Instant Microwaveable food never tastes good compare to ma preparing today's lunch starting from yesterday night soaking, marination, cooking, garnish, and serving! If you are waiting for a blessing and it delays, remember it is getting cooked better!
We all expect *instant* praise, money, famous but we forget it never last long when compared to hard work, dedication, and God's blessing that takes time!
*Instant Microwavable *food never tastes good compare to a loved one preparing today's lunch starting from yesterday night!
Self-realization:
one needs to realize in his own life what he is going through! Most of the time, we realize only after we make mistake! It’s not late to self realize and correct ourselves to the right path!
Tears
Sometimes we forget there is value for our *tears*, don’t shed them in the wrong place or to the wrong person! You need to know to whom you need to cry about your troubles and needs! Don’t allow your sorrow/cry to be someone’s time pass news of the day!
Fear to Faith
Don’t allow your circumstances of fear to become a “fright”, try to overcome your fear through Faith!
Negligence
When we have what we need in life for that particular day, we neglect to realize the worth of people, blessings of the future, and mistreat them; be aware of the blessings you received, make use of them in your life, don’t be negligence! Most of the time our negligence is because of our laziness!
Child!
In this crazy world, what you leave in your child's life is more important than what we leave for them! Not our money going to save them but what we teach them in life will!
3 dangerous mistakes
3 dangerous mistakes we love the most.
1. Praise - be careful when you are praised more in public
2. Gift- be very careful when you are gifted with the item which you dreamed
3. Food - hold your taste buds when you are in public!
if you are loving any one of the above, then be vigilant to face the next consequences!
Action Speaks Loud
Most of the time, we console ourselves just by speaking! But we forget that *action* is more powerful than just talking about it! Put your thoughts in action instead of just speaking!
Pain and Shame
Sometimes we have to go through pain and shame to realize our weaknesses and flaws; it is tough to overcome, but one who overcomes becomes strong to face the world! God allows us to go through it!
Don't compare to prove you!
If you feel you are underrated; you should prove to them your capabilities; stop comparing with others to prove yourself; it will reduce your dignity! Stop comparing yourself;
Truth
Truth is like a baby; it will come out one day from the dark! It is just a matter of time(it could be within 1 day/1 year/ 10 years); sometimes, it will change our perception of others in a minute!
Accept the failure
If we fail to accept the failure, that’s the biggest failure! You will never know the taste of success until you go through failure!
We are not perfect
The brilliant student never needs a coaching class! A perfect person never needs a holy place!
Our Meekness is not a weakness!
Our Meekness is not a weakness! Don’t use others Kindness as their weakness!
Be sure your helpfulness has not become your weakness!
Pickle
Pickle! Only recipe in the lunch plate which was prepared before 20 days and still tastes good! If you are pointed as a pickle, remember how the pickle is made, it has to go through a rough day! If you are going through rough days, it is to prepare you to be an important person sometime near future!
Our desire should not hold our blessing!
Our desire should not hold our blessing! we make mistakes by having a wrong desire! Best way to identify, you will never see progress to it! When you realize it, change your desire immediately!
Foundation
The building is built on a strong foundation! When foundations have a problem, it impacts the entire building! A leader is a foundation for the team, if he fails, the entire team collapse!
Foundations are laid depending on the building structure planned, buildings are not built based on foundations; similarly, Leaders are appointed for people; people are not grouped to leaders;
Success makes you cry!
When your success makes you cry, it means the pain and struggles you went through to achieve it come to an end!
Gradual Growth
Gradual Growth leads to a peaceful and meaningful life; sudden swelling would outburst anytime near future; if you realize the widening of doors in life, make sure it's not swelling!
Appreciation
Appreciation is good for a healthy relationship, but appreciation through comparison will ruin the same relationship very badly! Appreciation that made 100% Without comparison will be remembered for long/last long!
Faith
We only plan what is possible by us; we forget God who is with us, want us to do impossible things, and there is nothing too hard for God to make it possible; Faith never operates until we keep performing using our human talents; faith begins at the point where our talent ends;
How do we treat people?
People don’t remember what you wore, which car you drive, do you own a house or not but they always remember how you treat them!
What's our real Character?
Our true character reflects when we rise to good positions and how we treat people who troubled/ betrayed us, come to us for help!
That’s the situation that reflects the real character of a person! or
we going to help them or feel happy for their struggle!
Do we love to walk in rain?
A famous comedian once said he loves to walk in the rain because that’s when people cannot see him crying! A laughing face is a mask to hide your worries! Don’t judge someone looking up their face!
Who is your friend?
God is the only friend who will stand next to you when you are in trouble, but we will realize it only when we go through it!
Why we fail?
Sometimes we fail because we give up what we want to achieve to reach the goal for what we need right now!