The knowledge we typically gain through degree, but our decision and action determine wisdom; if we lack wisdom, knowledge becomes useless!
Thursday, 11 November 2021
Fear vs. afraid
self-test, whether we run towards God in fear or we run away from God in afraid! Fear of God brings wisdom ;
Red Sea
If God closes the red sea, one way it's to protect you from enemies; but the other reason is stopping you to go back to the past;
Bless the people around you
Bless the people around you! not with money, a lite smile and greeting, that might change a person's life! More than that you will sleep in peace! Look at homeless/ beggers they sleep peacefully in the street, but you have everything but you have sleepless nights!
what they have differently
Don't expect something new in your loved ones instead look for what they have differently
Grace
Grace is an action that God performs in your life to be in a good/high position, and God allows you to look back on what bad it would have happened in your life if there is no God’s grace! Let’s not forget his Grace
Stop worrying
Stop worrying about the people that God has removed away from you! You have not seen what God saw; you didn't hear the conversations that he heard!
Respect others
The biggest life lesson to remember, no one is going to remember what shirt you wore, what car you drove, how much money you spent! It's all one thing they remember, how well you treat them! Irrespective of age, gender treat them with *respect*! One day you will see the reward!
Rearview vs windshield mirror
Rearview vs windshield mirror: our main focus should be on the windshield mirror of life I.e. The future of our life, but we do need to see what we crossed or passed us through the rearview mirror; remember the size of the windshield is bigger than a rearview mirror; future is bigger& brighter than the past!
You can drive a car without a rearview(past) mirror but not without a proper windshield(future)!
Remember 4 things in life
We live our lives because of 1. His Grace 2.His word 3.our faith 4.our prayer;
The first 2 always available for us but it increases or decreases based on how strong we are in faith and prayer!
Courage to accept mistake
When one realizes his mistakes, he needs *more courage *to change or correct his mistake than advising others to correct their mistake; Don't be stubborn to correct yourself!
Conditional vs. unconditional love
Conditional vs. unconditional love: if God bless you when you obey his unconditional love; how important and big we will be blessed if we obey gods for his conditional love; it's pain to go through God's conditional love!
Begin Loyal
Being loyal! Most of the time, how loyal we are in one season, we get rewarded in another season.
Let’s Live Loyal Life, don’t wait for your seasonal rewards!
what really changed?
The decisions we took a year back thinking right, look to be wrong now; what really changed? Circumstance and expectations; have we ever thought about what can we do to feel always right? Stop deciding based on others, make your decision considering you!
Our wisdom
Our wisdom is distinguishing between the things that remain unchanging in our life and it accepts, embraces the changes!
Don't fail to warn your children
When we fail to warn our children of the mistakes they do for the first time, we cannot correct them once it becomes habitual! The reality is the pain in correcting them at step 1 is less!
Focus on your blessing
Never feel jealous for what God does for others; what God has for you is for you! He will never deliver your blessings to someone else; We need to focus on God, to deliver our blessings!
Problem prepares us
The darkest and deepest problems are not for the devastation of our life; it is for preparation of the greatest victory of our life; God prepares you!
what is our purpose?
2 important days in life, 1. The day we are born 2. The day we realize/ figure out why? What is our purpose God has? We are searching for purpose within us but we failed to know that we need to find the purpose from our creator!
When we buy the machine, we listen to the inventor or read from his manual not that we try to learn on our own!
Look up to God to know, what is our purpose?
Pride
When pride increase, your focus gets distracted; be cautious on self-pride; be more careful about people praising around you! Self-pride and praising will never allow you to think about the next step!
Look back the path crossed!
Focus on your goal, which will lead to success; Once we succeed, we fail to talk about the path we crossed to success. Instead, we are focusing more on success, which eventually leads to downfall!
Disappointments
When you go through disappointments, god gives you an opportunities to shine; we need to swift our focus
Show you as a fool sometimes
If your enemy is too smart; if he thinks you fool, to extend, show you as a fool, because they just use the brain to defeat the fool, that 1 second is your time to wake up and that response should make sure all shut their mouth;
Glass
Before you break the glass, it reflects your face; after it is broken still, it keeps reflecting your face in multiple dimensions; we could be broken by loved ones, or trusted people but make sure our character is not changing to circumstances;
Look for the opportunities
Look for the opportunities that God has in front of us while we go through disappointments;
God blesses you
If God blesses you or gives you the opportunity; it means he trusts you that you will take care and do it; focus on implementing it and stop complaining & murmuring;
Don’t wait for others to appreciate you
Don’t wait for others to appreciate you! You will end up unhappy!
Worst punishment that we can give ourselves
The worst punishment that we can give ourselves is “Anger.” Later, You will never feel happy about it;
The best solution, *stay calm!*
You are blessed
Be happy, If you are able to *give* at least 1 dollar to poor, and not in a position to *receive* 1 dollar; God blessed you as a philanthropist, not as a panhandler;
Stop Blaming others!
The easiest way to divert our faults is to “ blame others.” But that cannot be lost longer; we need to be bold to accept “what is right”!
Remember
1. Don’t believe whatever you hear!
2. Don’t try to convey whatever you know!
3. Don’t try to do whatever you can!
Conscience
If someone touches our “conscience” or when we interact with others through conscience, we will never make mistakes or feel sorry, because what happens, will be truthful and right! But we fail to use our “conscience” most of our lifetime;
Why do we get “Ego”?
Why do we get “Ego”? The simple reason is “ we think we are not inferior to the person who stands in front of us; when we give same respect that we expect for ourselves, could fix most of our problems;
Loathing
Loathing never allows you to love yourself; it breaks relationships; Loath on what we do! Loathing creates anger that turns to depression; you never agree with others! Stop loathing!
Love & Hate
One cannot love(from the heart)and hate(in mind) at the same time; it creates complexity in life;
Be truthful in small things, care wholeheartedly.
Many times we want to hide from others; to hide, we start acting 🎭 ; after a certain period, our future has only a fake past; “Be truthful in small things, care wholeheartedly. “
Temptation stops you!
The temptation of quitting that God wants us to pursue is because we don’t realize its significant
Don't feel happy if you receive everything from God
we get everything when we ask god, doesn’t mean that God gives wholeheartedly; we never realize our ask to god is right or wrong until we go through it; That’s why, when you didn’t get what you pray, remember it's not God's plan for you! Better one he has, which is yet to come!
Kill the word "I"
The maximum growth one can achieve until he says,
“I” did it,
With “My” power,
That's “My” strength only.
When you start saying “I.”
“Superiority” will bring our life down one day!
If we have to grow, the word “I” to be removed from our thoughts!
Attraction of distraction
If you are good enough to identify “attraction of distraction,” reaching your goal is unstoppable;
Bitter Food Vs Ness
Bitter food is good for health, but we hesitate to eat; bitterness in the heart destroys relationships, but we never realized it;
Talk to yourself
If you are inferior, feeling down, or insufficient complex, the best way to overcome, talk to yourself; change the way you speak to yourself unless you think you will accomplish it!
Thoughts
Thoughts 💭 are the primary route for our success; if we allow the enemy to shut down our thoughts, we will fail miserably; we need to talk to ourselves, even before we advise/speak to someone else; use affirmation spoken over ourselves;
Its all up to us!
We can be thankful for what we have; or we can be angry/sad for what we don't have; it’s our choice; do your best, God will do the rest;
Turn back!
Samson: God has a plan for him even before he is born, how he is going to live in this world; But he was also trapped into a problem, due which he lost his both eyes! When he realized his mistake and turns back to God he killed double the portion of people!
We all make mistakes, but the point is when we going to turn back to God!
Don’t keep negotiating with God
We must trust what we have is enough; don’t keep negotiating with God, if so we miss a better one in life;
Intentions
Good/right intentions always lead to a good end! If our intentions are wrong, they will never end up good! Keep your intentions clear!
Journey of Life
Life is a journey through the valley, Who are we listening to, Wisdom or worry?
Gratitude or grumbling? Faith or blame? Angel or enemy? What we choose determines where we end up! Enjoy the journey of life, don’t wait for the destination to enjoy!
One who serve is the happiest in life!
The happiest people are not always the most successful people in life, but they are the ones who serve the best; if you help people what they want, then you will receive everything that you need in life
Face it!
You can love someone but still, you can choose to say goodbye to You! Be ready to face it boldly!
Reflection of your past thoughts
Where you are now is a reflection of your past thoughts, past thinking! If you want something to change in the future, you have to change your thoughts right now!
When is it best to start? NOW!
The best time to plant a tree was 25 years ago! The best to learn is 5 years or 10 years ago! but remember not to tell same after 5 years! Better to start now!
Don't become Slave!
Only disciplined ones are free in life, if you are undisciplined, we are slave to our moods, and passions
Faith/Belief
Faith/Belief is the blueprint of our future; most of the time, building(life) is weak(failure), as we fail to believe;
Focus on understanding
In life, if we know, Why it happen? For what reason happens? It helps us to prepare ourselves better when we face that; the thumb rule, focus on understanding before reacting!
Mistakes
As a human, we make mistakes; when we repent and safeguard ourselves from doing it again, God protects us; but when we fail to realize our mistakes and think it's all private to us alone, one day when it becomes public, it's hard to face it; Be vigilant in life!
Emotional intelligence
What happens is 10% but how we react to it is 90%; how do we control our reactions; Self-awareness-self regulation - self-motivation - social awareness - social skills; always our emotion should be aligned to our values.
Let start looking at our own shoes!
In our life, we started looking at what others getting in their life and feel jealous; we fail to think about what we have in life and be happy; our thought is what others have is always precious, but failed to realize what we have is better than others;
Dark part of Life
Are we confused or down about our life's dark part? Remember, it is the starting point for the good part; the problem with us is we failed to realize the shadow of good developing in our lives when God's light comes in us during darkness! ⛔ Stop worrying about the past dark part and keep moving forward to taste/ see good part in life;
Fear
What kind of fear is ours? Is it stopping you from going forward in life, or it makes you deliver better? Don't let fear stop you!
Rejection
When God allows rejection in our life, it's not that he forgot us; it means he is directing us to the right path!
Wise vs. fool
Wise vs. fool: a wise person who is not glorifying himself and also cautious in his steps, so others not promoting him; if we love praise, we become foolish one day;
Scars
Scars in the heart are memories for the future; heal your wounds in your heart, don't let your wound get worse, which spoils your thoughts (mind); Make sure to heal your wound on time with help of "forgiveness"; Scars are good it doesn't hurt, but wounds will not allow you to be in peace;
Everybody's acceptance is not a blessing.
Be very careful whom we surround ourselves with or whom we listen to. Because of their praise, we start to believe too much in ourselves, which leads to overconfidence; “everybody's acceptance is not a blessing.”; if everyone says it’s right, time to think about what might go wrong!
Advise what you learnt!
We are all good at advising others; have we ever thought, do we follow what we advise? The best part of life is always to advise what you practiced in your own life; if we fail, it makes even a wise man, wicked!
Arrogance in our heart!
Arrogance in our heart is more dangerous than it expressed; guard our heart with goodness;
Grateful
Be grateful for what God has given to us; Sad part is when we get what we need, we forget what is grateful to fellow humans & also to god; The thumb rule is, focus on what we can do to others, that will never stop you from being grateful!
Stop borrowing confidence
Stop borrowing confidence from friends and relatives; when we start borrowing it, we can never stop,
1. We always need someone to boost our confidence
2. If it comes from the wrong places, then it leads to destruction; develop self-confidence;
Parenting
As a parent are we sharing the struggle we go through in life for next day food/ job/etc to children?. if not, what do we do is wrong? We have to teach the values and struggles along with discipline which will be remembered for their life.
Bigger Blessing
The good that God does through you to other is bigger blessings than the good that God does to you;
Courageous
Be courageous and stop worrying; being courageous means not fearless, it’s the strength that God gives us to face our future; don’t allow worry and fear to take over you! Be courageous that will increase your faith in life;
Face the Pressure!
If you go through pressure in life, remember God has a purpose for it; you have to face it, cross it;
Happy Father’s Day!
He cares but we don’t realize; He advises but we don’t listen; He cries but we cannot see;
He fears inside about our future but he doesn’t express; He is the happiest person in the world when you achieve something in life, but he never expresses; 99% we don’t realize his presence and care when he is around; 99% we say he is right what he said years back, which we might disobey;
He is called “father” who only worries inside about you and laughs outside to cheer you! Happy Father’s Day!
If it is away, Keep them away!
If God delivers and keeps you away from the things that hurt you! don’t allow your temptation and thoughts to drag you to it again! Let our focus be on the future that God has for us, not on the past!
Listen to Advice
We fail to listen to what others say, but we are quick enough to give them a lesson on what to do! If we are not ready to listen, our lessons become useless;
What is yours is yours!
If we understand what God has given to you, it is for you! We won’t get jealous, insecure, bitter, or take revenge!
Who is your strength?
If the source of our strength is who we sitting next to? Then we going to live very disappointing life;
Believe in You!
Do you believe in yourself?
Do you respect yourself?
How Do you feel about yourself?
The bottom line is what you believe about yourself is much more important than what anyone else believes about you!
Frustration
Don’t allow your frustration to be the end of your goals; It comes in the middle of an action;
Don’t allow your frustration to shatter your future plan or discourage you! Sometimes good to pause in life;
Perfection
Don't wait for everything to be “perfect”;
first, we need to accept, there is nothing perfect in this world;
second, we will never enjoy even a minute if we wait for perfection;
Third, in search of perfection, we miss the blessings that God has for us at this moment;
Don’t postpone your appreciation!
Don’t postpone your appreciation/ advice/ wishes! If you think it is the right time to do it, go ahead! we never know what will happen tomorrow!
Good fruit!
if we listen or see good, we deliver back good; If we listen evil/bad, we deliver back evil; we just reap what we sow! 1 spoiled fruit spoils the entire fruit basket; 1 small evil thought will destroy the entire life.
Oneness
We cannot achieve something significant in life, if there is no oneness within people, in the end, that family or team fails miserably. When there is more than 1 person involved we need unity, oneness in thought!
Don't Quit!
We all have different people around us; one will put you in a difficult time, one will help you during difficult times, and the other will leave you during difficult times! If you trip, you can never move on in life! YoU should never quit on yourself! one day, people who left will realize your value!
Success is close to the broken hearts!
We are living in a time period that believes only if we are happy we can move forward in life to be successful! But we need to accept, Success is more close to the people who are broken, failed, going through miseries compare to happy people! Keep moving, God will direct you to the rest!
Butterflies!
We all love butterflies but we don’t realize the caterpillar 🐛 moment that it went through to become a beautiful butterfly! If you have to grow and shine, you have to cross the struggle and pain!
Relationship
Sometimes in life, one stays until another person hates, or until he gets an alternate; But when he loves wholeheartedly, that relationships stay longer and stronger! That relationship is precious, be cautious to protect that love and loved one!
What we carry doesn’t matter to retain a relationship but how do we feel matters a lot
Make others Smile!
There is no reward in this world for the talent you have that makes one 😊 smile; try it, when you see that smile you will forget your pain!
The extraordinary talent God can give one is to make others smile; ( without hurting the feeling) if you are the one, don't stop it; If you are not, try it!
Suffering
Suffering is not the end, it’s the starting point of blessing which helps to attain gratification; we need to learn the art to handle suffering;
Assumption
One wrong assumption can break, good relationship; check on reality, talk to people, before judging them!
Burden in life
The biggest burden in life is other's hope/trust in us! Give hope only if it is not disturbing your character and day-to-day life!
Weakness
If we know our weakness; and keep ourselves away from it, no one can stop our success! Remember It's we need to go far apart from weakness, not the other way around!
Everyone is not perfect! We all have a weakness. But if we need to shine, we need to find the talent we have in us, but that’s not your real victory! When you shine with your talent, people start attacking/pulling you down, pointing your weakness; how well you handle that is your victory! Be wise and use your wisdom!
Life is not about the positive side, it’s all about how you handle the negative side!
When we only focus more on our weakness and others strength it leads to jealousy; instead spend more time in improving our weakness to strength;
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