Control What we can!

 We cannot control our surroundings/circumstances, but we can control our response!

Anger

 we have not born with it; our parents have not taught us; but when we fail to get what we expect, it pops up, i.e., “Anger”;  if we reduce our expectation, we can reduce our anger;

How to Handle Success & Failure

  Don’t take your success to the head (leads to arrogance) and don’t take your failure to heart( lead to inferiority);  Both are dangerous to life; instead, digest your “victory through heart, failure through the head; 

Loyal

 Be loyal in what you do; it will lift you one day to greater heights; *don’t quit*; instead, move forward with  talents that God has given you; 

Be Cautious

 To be Cautious in life: 1.be cautious from deceived by others; 2.be cautious about turmoil around us. 

We have to Cross!

 we do need to cross disappointments to reach our destiny; we need to cross bitterness; if we need to taste wisdom; we do need to cross the dark part to reach the good part in life

Who owns your Confidence?

 Your confidence is your responsibility; do not throw away your confidence; If you have given away your confidence, you are the one to get it back; don’t wait for others, God is with you!

Who is the source of our strength?

 Who is the source of our strength? Relationships/ friends come and go, the balance sheet might disappear one day, your neighbors will disappoint us one day; if we trust in God, who strengthens us in all situations, who will be our source to give us everything that we need!

Don’t try to escape!

 Don’t try to escape from the situation; instead, increase your faith to fight it or Increase gods grace to stay calm;

Mindset

 Old mindset cannot receive new miracles; if we need to see new blessings, forget and forgive the past;

The words we speak

 Most of our problems arise because of  “The words we speak,” it can make you, break you, lift you or damage you forever;